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\u00c7a\u011fda\u015f “Kad\u0131n Haklar\u0131” m\u0131;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

A\u0130LE YUVAMIZIN YIKILMASI MI?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131 ve O’nun koydu\u011fu \u0130slam kurallar\u0131, Bat\u0131l\u0131lar\u0131n istismar edip durduklar\u0131 <\/span><\/strong>“Kad\u0131n-Erkek E\u015fitli\u011finden” <\/span><\/em><\/strong>\u00e7ok daha \u00f6te, Kad\u0131n\u0131 ve Erke\u011fi ayn\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn iki par\u00e7as\u0131 ve ayn\u0131 r\u00fckn\u00fcn unsurlar\u0131 saym\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yani erkeksiz kad\u0131n ve kad\u0131ns\u0131z erkek yar\u0131md\u0131r. Bunlar birbirini tamamlayan, huzur ve onura birlikte ula\u015f\u0131lan varl\u0131klard\u0131r. Ancak f\u0131tratlar\u0131 (yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f \u00f6zellikleri) icab\u0131, ortak sorumluluklar\u0131 yan\u0131nda, ayr\u0131 ve farkl\u0131 g\u00f6rev sahalar\u0131 da vard\u0131r. Bu nedenle hem biyolojik olarak hem de psikolojik olarak, kad\u0131n\u0131n erkek, erke\u011fin kad\u0131n yerine konulmas\u0131 safsatad\u0131r, sapk\u0131nl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Elbette kad\u0131nlar da birer insand\u0131r ve t\u00fcm insan haklar\u0131na sahip ve sayg\u0131n konumdad\u0131r. Bu nedenle k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z da okuyacak, f\u0131tratlar\u0131na uygun meslek ve memuriyet sahibi olacak; ailenin, yak\u0131n \u00e7evrenin, hatta \u00fclkenin sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 birlikte s\u0131rtlanacak ve ortak sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 ku\u015fanacaklard\u0131r. Ancak, kad\u0131n\u0131n en kutsi, en \u00f6nemli ve en \u00f6ncelikli g\u00f6revi ANNEL\u0130K s\u0131fat\u0131d\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ilk e\u011fitimcisi, terbiye edip \u015fekillendiricisi olmak bak\u0131m\u0131ndan, gelece\u011fimizi in\u015fa eden mimarlar konumundad\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 annelik sorumluluklar\u0131ndan uzakla\u015ft\u0131racak her giri\u015fim, mutsuz, huysuz ve huzursuz yeti\u015fen nesiller dolay\u0131s\u0131yla gelece\u011fimizin karart\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z, her \u015feyden \u00f6nce s\u0131cak ve samimi aile yuvam\u0131z\u0131n sigortas\u0131d\u0131r. Zaruri olmayan sebeplerle, suni gerek\u00e7elerle ve Ha\u00e7l\u0131 Bat\u0131’n\u0131n ahl\u00e2ks\u0131z projeleriyle aile yuvas\u0131ndan ve annelik sorumluluklar\u0131ndan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z, asl\u0131nda kendi onur ve huzurlar\u0131ndan da mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131lmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Soyup sokaklara sald\u0131klar\u0131, t\u00fcm ahl\u00e2ki ve ailevi ba\u011flar\u0131ndan kopard\u0131klar\u0131 k\u0131zlar\u0131-kad\u0131nlar\u0131 sadece birer cinsellik arac\u0131 ve reklam vas\u0131tas\u0131 olarak g\u00f6ren Barbar Bat\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin <\/span><\/strong>“Kad\u0131n Haklar\u0131” <\/span><\/strong>iddialar\u0131n\u0131n bir palavra oldu\u011fu, i\u015fte Ukrayna Sava\u015f\u0131’nda bir kez daha ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Putin’i k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rt\u0131p k\u0131z\u0131\u015ft\u0131rarak, Zelenski’ye hava bas\u0131p dolduru\u015fa sokarak, Rusya’n\u0131n emperyalist emellerle Ukrayna’ya sald\u0131rmas\u0131 sonucu, g\u00f6\u00e7 etmeye mecbur kalan 3 milyon insan\u0131n 2 milyonu kad\u0131nlar ve \u00e7ocuklard\u0131r… Ve bunlar\u0131n perperi\u015fan olmalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zellikle ABD ve AB \u00fclkeleri sa\u011flam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ve i\u015fte “Dindar Kahraman”<\/em> rol\u00fcyle iktidara ta\u015f\u0131nan, ama AB dayatmalar\u0131yla, kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yozla\u015ft\u0131racak ve aile yuvalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u0131kacak nice u\u011fursuz anla\u015fmalara \u015fu Erdo\u011fan iktidarlar\u0131 imza atm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ahl\u00e2k ve maneviyattan nas\u0131l yoksun b\u0131rak\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131…<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Ger\u00e7ekten ihtiyac\u0131 olanlar\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, <\/span><\/strong>kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ille de ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fi<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>dayatmas\u0131n\u0131n, han\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 evden i\u015fe, i\u015ften eve nas\u0131l bir robot haline soktuklar\u0131… <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Bu durumun evin i\u00e7inde: <\/span><\/strong>“Ben de para kazanmaktay\u0131m, o halde bu evde en \u00e7ok ben s\u00f6z sahibi olaca\u011f\u0131m” <\/span><\/em><\/strong>yan\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n ve ard\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan tart\u0131\u015fma ve kavgalar\u0131n nas\u0131l yuvalar\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131…<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Do\u011far do\u011fmaz bak\u0131c\u0131 kuca\u011f\u0131na veya kre\u015flere, yuvalara at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, anne\/babalar\u0131n sevgi ve ilgisinden mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, yalan yanl\u0131\u015f yeti\u015ftirildiklerinden sorun halini alm\u0131\u015f minik yavrular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fald\u0131klar\u0131… <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Yorulmu\u015f, y\u0131pranm\u0131\u015f ve i\u015f yerindeki t\u00fcm sorun ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n alt\u0131nda bunalm\u0131\u015f ve psikolojileri sars\u0131lm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, yeni ve tehlikeli aray\u0131\u015flara ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131… <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Yanl\u0131\u015f yeti\u015ftirilmi\u015f, Rabbinden ve Kur’an’dan mahrum edilmi\u015f, bu y\u00fczden yanl\u0131\u015f tercihlere y\u00f6nelmi\u015f diye, e\u015fleri babalar\u0131 veya karde\u015fleri taraf\u0131ndan hunharca katledilmi\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n giderek artt\u0131\u011f\u0131… <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• \u0130ki-\u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011funu, e\u015fini-evini b\u0131rak\u0131p; sosyal medyada tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 falanca filanca adamlara ka\u00e7an, gitti\u011fi ki\u015fide de arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulamay\u0131p ondan ona savrulan, ahl\u00e2ken ve bedenen y\u0131pran\u0131p yok olan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n y\u00fcreklerimizi da\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 ya\u015fanmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile, bir toplumun temel ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile insanl\u0131k tarihi kadar eski ve bir o kadar da ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan en \u00f6nemli bir kurum konumundad\u0131r. Allah (CC) Hz. Adem’i (AS) yaratt\u0131ktan hemen sonra Havva annemizi yaratm\u0131\u015f ve onlar\u0131 aile k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu da bize insan f\u0131trat\u0131nda ve toplum hayat\u0131nda aile kurumunun \u00f6nemini anlatmaktad\u0131r. Tarih boyunca \u015eeytaniler ve \u015ferliler toplumun ve devlet kurumunun genlerini bozmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Toplumsal genleri bozmak ise ancak aileyi da\u011f\u0131tmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olacakt\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczdendir ki gerek \u00fclke \u00e7ap\u0131nda gerekse uluslararas\u0131 alanda aileye y\u00f6nelik sinsi ve Siyonist tahrip\u00e7i operasyonlar yap\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Ancak bu operasyonlar; alg\u0131 ve manip\u00fclasyonlarla saklanarak, <\/span><\/strong>“kad\u0131n haklar\u0131, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, feminizm, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>gibi k\u0131l\u0131flara sar\u0131larak ve as\u0131l ama\u00e7 gizli tutularak ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirildi\u011finden dolay\u0131, bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n aldanmas\u0131na sebep olmaktad\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle Siyonizm’in g\u00fcd\u00fcm\u00fcndeki Bat\u0131’da, kapitalist zihniyet ve pozitivist\/sek\u00fcler\/materyalist e\u011fitim sistemi, his ve duygular\u0131, akl\u0131, ruhu ve vicdan\u0131 ve sonu\u00e7ta irfan\u0131 ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131 devre d\u0131\u015f\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00f6nce gen\u00e7lik, sonra da aile \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi’nin devam\u0131 olarak 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 yasa ve <\/span><\/strong>“kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>\u00e7arp\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yakla\u015f\u0131k 3 milyon erkek ceza alm\u0131\u015f ve bir\u00e7o\u011fu bo\u015fanmak zorunda kalarak aileler y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve toplumsal bunal\u0131ma yol a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6zle\u015fme devam ederse okulda hocalar, hastanede sa\u011fl\u0131k\u00e7\u0131lar, i\u015f yerlerinde ve sosyal ortamlarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar, evde ise kocalar ve babalar tecav\u00fczc\u00fc olarak yaftalanacak ve toplumda bunal\u0131m artarak toplumsal\/sosyal \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015fe sebep olacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131yla \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131na m\u00fcsaade etmeyen babas\u0131n\u0131 <\/span><\/strong>“Beni taciz etti!”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>diye hapse att\u0131ran k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu, <\/span><\/strong>“Kocam bana \u015fiddet uyguluyor!”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>diyerek e\u015fini evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p sevgilisiyle kendi evinde zina yapan han\u0131m, markette \u00e7arpt\u0131\u011f\u0131 erkekten \u015fantaj yoluyla para isteyen ve vermeyince \u015fik\u00e2yet edip hapse att\u0131ran kad\u0131n, <\/span><\/strong>“M\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcm beni taciz etti!”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>diyerek, \u00f6\u011fretmeni mesle\u011finden eden k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenci, yedi\u011fi yeme\u011fin ka\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7atal\u0131n\u0131 yere at\u0131p anne babaya k\u00f6le muamelesi yapan \u00e7ocuk ve ya\u015fanan daha nice olumsuzluklar\u0131n sebebi olan 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 yasa h\u00e2l\u00e2 uygulanmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Akla, vicdana ve \u0130slam’a g\u00f6re: \u0130nsan haklar\u0131n\u0131n asl\u0131nda kad\u0131n-erkek b\u00fct\u00fcn bireyleri kapsamas\u0131 esast\u0131r. E\u015fit, \u00f6zg\u00fcr ve onurlu ya\u015fama hakk\u0131 say\u0131lan ve do\u011farken sahip olunan bu temel haklar, \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz boyunca kesintisiz olarak s\u00fcren, vazge\u00e7ilemez ve hi\u00e7bir durumda de\u011fi\u015ftirilemeyen temel ve do\u011fal kazan\u0131mlard\u0131r. Haklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koruma alt\u0131na alan Dinimize ve hukuk sistemine g\u00f6re herkes; cinsiyet, \u0131rk, renk, din, dil, ya\u015f, uyruk ya da toplumsal k\u00f6ken, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce fark\u0131, m\u00fclkiyet gibi farklara bak\u0131lmaks\u0131z\u0131n hem imani ve vicdani kurallar, hem de yasalar \u00f6n\u00fcnde e\u015fit konumdad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ancak; “Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u0130nsan Haklar\u0131”<\/em> kavram\u0131 ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k ve k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u0130nsan Haklar\u0131”<\/span><\/em><\/strong>, insan haklar\u0131 kavram\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcnya kad\u0131nlar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan yeniden yorumlayarak olu\u015fturmay\u0131, daha do\u011frusu kad\u0131nlar\u0131 yozla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131, huysuzla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 ve uyumsuzla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p aile yuvas\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131kmay\u0131 ama\u00e7layan bir kavramd\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu \u00e7arp\u0131k anlay\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6re, kad\u0131n\u0131n insan haklar\u0131 \u015funlard\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• <\/span><\/strong>Kad\u0131n\u0131n evlilikle ilgili haklar\u0131:<\/span><\/strong> <\/span>\u0130stedi\u011fi ki\u015fiyle evlenme hakk\u0131, e\u015fit miras hakk\u0131, <\/span><\/strong>evlilik i\u00e7inde cinsel birle\u015fmeyi reddetme hakk\u0131<\/span><\/em><\/strong>, \u015fiddete maruz kalmama hakk\u0131, kendi mal\u0131na sahip olma hakk\u0131, kumay\u0131 reddetme hakk\u0131, resmi nik\u00e2h hakk\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Kad\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015fanma ile ilgili haklar\u0131:<\/span><\/strong> (Evli oldu\u011fu halde ba\u015fka)<\/em><\/strong> Ev tutarak ayr\u0131 ya\u015fama hakk\u0131,<\/em><\/strong> <\/span>bo\u015fanmak i\u00e7in mahkemeye ba\u015fvurma hakk\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n velayetini alma hakk\u0131, nafaka alma hakk\u0131, kendi mal\u0131n\u0131 beraberinde g\u00f6t\u00fcrme hakk\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• <\/span><\/strong>Kad\u0131n\u0131n bedensel haklar\u0131:<\/span><\/strong> (\u0130stedi\u011fi ki\u015fiyle ve istedi\u011fi \u015fekilde) Kendi cinselli\u011fini ya\u015fama hakk\u0131; <\/em><\/strong><\/span>tecav\u00fczs\u00fcz, tacizsiz, enseste maruz kalmadan ya\u015fama hakk\u0131; do\u011fum kontrol\u00fcn\u00fc kullanma veya kullanmama hakk\u0131; sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fama hakk\u0131; kad\u0131n\u0131n bedeninin yaln\u0131zca kendine ait olmas\u0131 hakk\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• <\/span><\/strong>Kad\u0131n\u0131n kamu ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki haklar\u0131:<\/span><\/strong> \u0130stedi\u011fi zaman kocas\u0131ndan izin almadan istedi\u011fi i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hakk\u0131, <\/em><\/strong><\/span>e\u015fit e\u011fitim hakk\u0131, kendi istedi\u011fi partiye oy verme hakk\u0131, siyasi partiye kat\u0131lma hakk\u0131, ev kad\u0131n\u0131 veya tar\u0131mda aile i\u015f\u00e7isi olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa bile sigortal\u0131 olma hakk\u0131, dini ya\u015fama kat\u0131lma ya da kat\u0131lmama hakk\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Evet a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor ki; “Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u0130nsan Haklar\u0131” bahanesiyle:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Evlilik i\u00e7inde, kocas\u0131yla cinsel birle\u015fmeyi reddetme hakk\u0131…<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

• Evli oldu\u011fu halde ba\u015fka ev tutma ve ayr\u0131 ya\u015fama hakk\u0131…<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

• \u0130stedi\u011fi zaman ve kocas\u0131ndan izin almadan istedi\u011fi i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hakk\u0131…<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

• \u0130stedi\u011fi ki\u015fiyle ve istedi\u011fi \u015fekilde kendi cinselli\u011fini ya\u015fama hakk\u0131…<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

gibi soysuzluk ve sorumsuzluklara mazeret ve me\u015fruiyet olu\u015fturulmaktad\u0131r.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131n\u0131n yozla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 ve Ailenin y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile, toplumun yap\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131 nedeniyle ilk insan Hz. \u00c2dem’den (AS) g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar \u00f6nemini s\u00fcrekli korumaktad\u0131r. Tarihsel s\u00fcre\u00e7te aileye gerekli \u00f6nemi g\u00f6sterip y\u00fccelten toplumlar s\u00fcrekli kalk\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, ailenin yozla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 toplumlar ise \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcp da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Neslin ihyas\u0131 ve gelece\u011fin in\u015fas\u0131 ailede ba\u015flamaktad\u0131r. \u0130lk yedi ya\u015f \u00e7ocuk e\u011fitimi i\u00e7in gerek manevi gerekse akademik, dilsel, fiziksel, sosyal ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar bu ya\u015flarda daha \u00e7ok aile taraf\u0131ndan \u015fekillenip yo\u011frulmaktad\u0131r. Tarih boyunca ahl\u00e2ki ve ailevi imar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 yapanlar oldu\u011fu gibi maalesef toplumu fesada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan odaklar da bo\u015f durmam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Ve bir\u00e7ok alanda toplumu fesada u\u011fratmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde aile hayat\u0131n\u0131 tahrip eden ve toplumu fesada u\u011fratan en temel problem ba\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131ndan baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015funlard\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Feminizm ve cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> safsatas\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Feministler; toplumsal <\/span><\/strong>cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi, kad\u0131n erkek e\u015fitli\u011fi<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>gibi kavramlar\u0131 yozla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar\u0131 yuvalar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f, anneli\u011fin kutsall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ayaklar alt\u0131na alm\u0131\u015f ve kad\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6zde \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirme ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda sokaklara sal\u0131p, aile kurumunun y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131na sebep olmu\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Yozla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan ve \u00e7a\u011fda\u015fl\u0131k diye yutturulan Bat\u0131l\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fta kad\u0131n cinsel obje ve meta iken, \u0130slam dini kad\u0131n\u0131 diri diri g\u00f6m\u00fclmekten kurtar\u0131p, cenneti ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na sermi\u015f bulunmaktad\u0131r. Avrupa i\u00e7in kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendini savunmas\u0131 bu anlamda belki hakl\u0131l\u0131k pay\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131rken, e\u015fleri ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 Allah’\u0131n emaneti olarak kocalar\u0131 sorumlu tutan M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar aras\u0131nda feminizmin yay\u0131lmas\u0131 sadece huysuzlu\u011fun ve huzursuzlu\u011fun me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Cinsiyet de\u011fi\u015ftirme”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> sapk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Son \u00e7eyrek as\u0131rda medyan\u0131n dayatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 rol modellerine heveslenen kad\u0131nlar erkek; erkekler ise kad\u0131n olmak<\/em> i\u00e7in ameliyatla cinsiyet de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. B\u00f6ylesi gen\u00e7lerin say\u0131s\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn artmakta ve bu da aile kurumunun ve toplumsal ahl\u00e2k\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6kmesine sebep olmaktad\u0131r. Nitekim cinsiyet de\u011fi\u015fse de his ve duygular\u0131n de\u011fi\u015ftirilemeyece\u011fi ger\u00e7e\u011fi ile nas\u0131l bir aile ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nik\u00e2h ve Aile yerine ‘partner’ kavram\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Gerek \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi, gerekse 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 yasa ve bunu tamamlayan di\u011fer kanuni mevzuatlar <\/span><\/strong>kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131n\u0131 esas ald\u0131klar\u0131ndan <\/span><\/strong>beri aile kurumu ciddi manada de\u011fi\u015fmeye ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmeye u\u011fram\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Aile kavram\u0131 yerine partner kavram\u0131 kullan\u0131lmaya ba\u015fland\u0131ktan sonra aralar\u0131nda nik\u00e2h olmasa bile partner oldu\u011funu iddia etmeleri, her t\u00fcrl\u00fc zina kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00dclkemizde, yak\u0131nda kad\u0131n\u0131n kad\u0131nla, erke\u011fin erkekle evliliklerine \u015fahit olmaya ba\u015flarsak \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmamal\u0131d\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> s\u00f6ylemiyle yuvalar y\u0131k\u0131lmaktad\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile gibi m\u00fcstesna bir kurumun devam\u0131 ve adaletin sa\u011flanmas\u0131 i\u00e7in sadece kad\u0131n\u0131n veya sadece erke\u011fin beyan\u0131n\u0131n esas al\u0131nmas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Oysa bug\u00fcn Bat\u0131’ya \u00f6zenerek \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lan kanunlar, M\u00fcsl\u00fcman aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 h\u0131zl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde y\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Tek tarafl\u0131 <\/span><\/strong>‘Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r.’<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>yasas\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan beri y\u00fcz binlerce erkek, yalan-yanl\u0131\u015f veya abart\u0131l\u0131 beyanlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden evinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve bir\u00e7o\u011fu tekrar eve d\u00f6nmek yerine bo\u015fanmaya ba\u015fvurmu\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7ler iman esaslar\u0131ndan h\u0131zla uzakla\u015fmaktad\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn maddiyata \u00f6nem verip maneviyattan uzakla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131, olumsuz rol model olan programlarla aile ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131n zay\u0131flat\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocukluktan itibaren iman ve ahl\u00e2k merkezli ve de\u011fer eksenli e\u011fitimden mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131 gibi sebepler y\u00fcz\u00fcnden gen\u00e7ler <\/span><\/strong>“deizm” <\/span><\/strong>ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere her t\u00fcrl\u00fc de\u011fer tan\u0131mazl\u0131\u011fa ve inan\u00e7s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru kaymaktad\u0131r. Ba\u015fta iktidarlar olmak \u00fczere anne babalar\u0131n, e\u011fitim kurumlar\u0131n\u0131n ve \u00f6zellikle de sivil toplum kurulu\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ciddi sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Bili\u015fim teknolojisi ara\u00e7lar\u0131, sa\u011fl\u0131k ve maneviyat\u0131 bozmaktad\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Medya ve teknolojinin ba\u015f d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc h\u0131zla geli\u015fip yayg\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131 ve bu \u00fcr\u00fcnlerin uygun kullan\u0131lmamas\u0131; her t\u00fcrl\u00fc cinsel sapk\u0131nl\u0131k ve sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131 azg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken depresyon, anksiyete gibi psikolojik hastal\u0131klar\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131rken, ayn\u0131 zamanda zihin kas koordinasyon bozukluklar\u0131na da yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklarda ise etkileri ilerleyen ya\u015flarda daha net ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan gereksiz korku, kayg\u0131 ve strese neden olmaktad\u0131r. Yine \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerinde diziler ve filmler ile birlikte oyunlar da \u015fiddet ve cinsellik i\u00e7erikli subliminal mesajlar\u0131yla beyinlerini kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakta ve uzun vadede sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z bireylerin yeti\u015fmesine sebep olmaktad\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle ergenlerde, uygunsuz i\u00e7erikli TV programlar\u0131 ve ahl\u00e2ks\u0131z internet yay\u0131nlar\u0131 ve kontrols\u00fcz sosyal medya programlar\u0131 adeta zinay\u0131 me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rmakta ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman da e\u015fcinselli\u011fi \u00f6zendirip yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi Aileyi Y\u0131kma Ama\u00e7l\u0131d\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi olarak bilinen, tam ad\u0131 ise <\/span><\/strong>“Kad\u0131nlara Y\u00f6nelik \u015eiddet ve Aile \u0130\u00e7i \u015eiddetin \u00d6nlenmesi ve Bunlarla M\u00fccadeleye \u0130li\u015fkin Avrupa Konseyi S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>olan s\u00f6zle\u015fme 11 May\u0131s 2011’de \u0130stanbul’da ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen Avrupa Konseyi Bakanlar Kurulu toplant\u0131s\u0131nda al\u0131nan kararlard\u0131r. \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi, imzaya a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131ndan sonra onay i\u00e7in TBMM Genel Kurulu’na sunulmu\u015f, 14 Mart 2012 tarihinde AKP, CHP, MHP ve BDP’nin oybirli\u011fiyle 246 kabul ve s\u0131f\u0131r ret oyuyla Meclis’te onaylanm\u0131\u015f, 1 A\u011fustos 2014 itibari ile de y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe girmi\u015f durumdad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi’nde toplumsal yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve aile hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 adeta dinamitleyen, Milli benli\u011fimizle, Dinimizin emirleriyle, \u00f6rf ve adetlerimizle taban tabana z\u0131t uygulamalar i\u00e7eren maddeler olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, maalesef T\u00fcrkiye s\u00f6zle\u015fmeyi imzaya a\u00e7an ilk \u00fclke olmu\u015f, hi\u00e7bir itiraz ve \u015ferh konulmadan da s\u00f6zle\u015fme imzalanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Oysa bir\u00e7ok \u00fclke s\u00f6zle\u015fmeyi imzalamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r; imzalayan \u00fclkelerden bir\u00e7o\u011fu da dini, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve toplumsal yap\u0131lar\u0131ndan ve <\/span><\/strong>toplumsal cinsiyet, cinsel y\u00f6nelim ve partner (nik\u00e2hs\u0131z birlikte ya\u015fayan bireyler) ya\u015fam\u0131<\/span><\/em><\/strong> gibi konularda \u00e7ekince koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Biz M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir \u00fclke olmam\u0131za ra\u011fmen s\u00f6zle\u015fmenin d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc maddesinin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc f\u0131kras\u0131ndaki <\/span><\/strong>“cinsel tercih ya da cinsel y\u00f6nelimin”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>g\u00fcvence alt\u0131na al\u0131nmas\u0131na dahi itiraz etmeden maalesef Erdo\u011fan iktidar\u0131nca imza at\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi’nin vahameti maalesef uygulamaya ba\u015fland\u0131ktan sonra g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zle\u015fme dayanak g\u00f6sterilerek Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Ali Erba\u015f’\u0131n Cuma Hutbesinde Allah’\u0131n Lutilik ile ilgili ayetlerini ve zinan\u0131n haram oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fini hat\u0131rlatmas\u0131 bile dava konusu yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yar\u0131n yine \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi’ndeki ilgili maddeler dayanak g\u00f6sterilerek ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n cinsel y\u00f6nelimine tedbir almas\u0131 da mahkemelerce <\/span><\/strong>“cinsel tercihe m\u00fcdahale”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>\u015feklinde yorumlanacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Yine S\u00f6zle\u015fmenin 3. Maddesinin (b) f\u0131kras\u0131nda \u0130slam aile yap\u0131s\u0131na y\u00fczde y\u00fcz ayk\u0131r\u0131 baz\u0131 kavramlar eklenerek “kad\u0131nla kad\u0131n\u0131n, erkekle erke\u011fin evlendirilmesi me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.”<\/em> S\u00f6zle\u015fmenin 4\/3 f\u0131kras\u0131nda cinsel y\u00f6nelim, cinsel tercihler ve her t\u00fcrl\u00fc sap\u0131kl\u0131k<\/em> kanunla koruma alt\u0131na al\u0131nmaktad\u0131r. S\u00f6zle\u015fmede aile kavram\u0131 bulunmamaktad\u0131r. Ortak ev arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu da her t\u00fcrl\u00fc gayrime\u015fru birliktelikleri kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f6zle\u015fmenin 12. maddesinde T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin al\u0131\u015f\u0131lagelmi\u015f rollerinin, geleneklerinin, bu s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131 farkl\u0131 uygulamalar\u0131n ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131larak, erkeklerin sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fime u\u011frat\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in her t\u00fcrl\u00fc tedbirler al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 maddenin 5’inci f\u0131kras\u0131nda, \u0130slam aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcr, \u00f6rf, \u00e2det, gelenek, din ve namusuna;<\/em> bu s\u00f6zle\u015fme ile “kad\u0131na \u015fiddeti \u00f6nleme”<\/em> ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda sava\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Metin bu haliyle bir toplumu ayakta tutan k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerin belirledi\u011fi toplumsal rol beklentisini de\u011fersizle\u015ftirirken, adeta LGBT gibi marjinal gruplar\u0131n beklentilerini kar\u015f\u0131lamak i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. “Toplumsal cinsiyeti”<\/em> ortadan kald\u0131rmay\u0131 ama\u00e7layan bu s\u00f6zle\u015fme, cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fini \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesinin tek yolu olarak sunmaktad\u0131r. Oysa istatistiki veriler bu re\u00e7eteyi do\u011frulam\u0131yor. Toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi indeksinde \u00fcst s\u0131ralarda olan \u00fclkelerde, kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet, cinayet ve tecav\u00fcz oranlar\u0131n\u0131n maalesef \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc oranda y\u00fcksek oldu\u011fu saptanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Yo\u011fun bask\u0131lar \u00fczerine Sn. Erdo\u011fan’\u0131n bu \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi’ni feshetti\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 tam bir aldatmacad\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu malum ve mel’un \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanunla zaten yasala\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve h\u00e2l\u00e2 y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckte bulunmaktad\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet asla ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lanamaz ve kesinlikle bunu \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in gerekli tedbirler al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak bu tedbirler kendi toplumsal ve aile yap\u0131m\u0131za uygun tedbirler olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Avrupa Birli\u011fi’nin ve feminist ideolojilerin dayatmalar\u0131 Milli benlik ve birli\u011fimizin temeli olan aile yuvam\u0131z\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tma ama\u00e7l\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

AKP iktidar\u0131; aile, ahl\u00e2k, maneviyat, nesil, toplum kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 istismar ederek iktidara gelip b\u00fcy\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fim vaat etmi\u015f olsa da son 20 y\u0131lda bu yozla\u015fman\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mek bir tarafa, iktidar d\u00f6nemindeki uygulamalar ile bu bozulman\u0131n daha da vahim boyutlara ula\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bunu maalesef yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131kla de\u011fil bilerek ve isteyerek, planl\u0131 ve programl\u0131 olarak kendisinden \u00f6nceki iktidarlar\u0131n uygulamalar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 kalarak, B\u00e2t\u0131l zihniyetin temellerini koruyarak ve Bat\u0131l\u0131 k\u00e2firlerin istediklerini harfiyen uygulayarak yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Erdo\u011fan iktidar\u0131n\u0131n son 20 y\u0131lda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 manevi ve ahl\u00e2ki tahribatlar\u0131 \u00f6zetle hat\u0131rlatarak bunun nas\u0131l planl\u0131 yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hep birlikte anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

AKP iktidarlar\u0131, ilk d\u00f6nemlerinde ailenin y\u0131k\u0131m\u0131ndan bahsetmi\u015f olsa da bunun d\u00fczeltilmesi konusunda ciddi hi\u00e7bir ad\u0131m atmazken, Bat\u0131l\u0131 dostlar\u0131ndan ald\u0131klar\u0131 talimatlar ile kad\u0131n\u0131 ifsat eden uygulamalara ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Aileyi y\u0131kma ve yok etmenin ilk \u015fart\u0131 olan kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle ilk d\u00f6nemlerde <\/span><\/strong>“AB uyum kriterleri”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda Bat\u0131l\u0131, feminist, liberal dayatmalarla ve Kemalist kesimlerin de zorlamas\u0131yla “kad\u0131n-erkek f\u0131rsat e\u015fitli\u011fi”, “kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesi”, “kad\u0131n istihdam\u0131nda pozitif ayr\u0131cal\u0131k g\u00f6zetilmesi”<\/em> gibi bahanelerle, kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yozla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131na ve yuvalar\u0131ndan kopar\u0131lmas\u0131na gayret edilmi\u015ftir. 2004 y\u0131l\u0131nda Anayasa’n\u0131n 10. Maddesinde yap\u0131lan de\u011fi\u015fiklikle kad\u0131n-erkek e\u015fitli\u011fi <\/em>devletin sorumlulu\u011funa resm\u00ee olarak ilk kez verilirken, 2010 y\u0131l\u0131nda bu maddeye “Bu maksatla al\u0131nacak tedbirler, e\u015fitlik ilkesine ayk\u0131r\u0131 olarak yorumlanamaz”<\/em> \u015feklinde bir ekleme ile kad\u0131n-erkek e\u015fitli\u011fini kad\u0131nlar lehine de\u011fi\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. Bu da a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131na sak\u0131z ettikleri e\u015fitli\u011fin ne kadar anlams\u0131z ve imk\u00e2ns\u0131z oldu\u011funun, bir g\u00f6stergesidir. Yine 2004 y\u0131l\u0131nda Anayasa’n\u0131n 90. Maddesindeki de\u011fi\u015fiklik ile; \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lan anayasa, kanun ve y\u00f6netmeliklerin T\u00fcrkiye’nin imzalad\u0131\u011f\u0131 CEDAW, \u00e7ocuk anla\u015fmalar\u0131 ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere di\u011fer uluslararas\u0131 s\u00f6zle\u015fmelere uygun olaca\u011f\u0131 ve uluslararas\u0131 anla\u015fmalara g\u00f6re hareket edilece\u011fi kabul edilmi\u015ftir.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

AKP, bu bozulmay\u0131 sadece kad\u0131n-erkek e\u015fitli\u011fi ve di\u011fer konularda yasal d\u00fczenlemeler ile ge\u00e7i\u015ftirmemi\u015f, T\u00fcrk Ceza Kanunu’nda (TCK) 2004’te kabul edilen, 01.06.2005’te y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giren 5237 Say\u0131l\u0131 Kanun ile kad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam hakk\u0131na ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck kapsam\u0131na<\/em> y\u00f6nelen su\u00e7lar\u0131n cezalar\u0131 a\u011f\u0131rla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu kanunlara ek olarak <\/span><\/strong>“evlilik i\u00e7i tecav\u00fcz”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>gibi ucube, sa\u00e7ma sapan bir kavram kanun ile su\u00e7 h\u00e2line getirilmi\u015f b\u00f6ylece resm\u00ee nik\u00e2hl\u0131 olsa dahi e\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki cinsel ili\u015fki, <\/span><\/strong>“cinsel sald\u0131r\u0131”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>olarak tan\u0131mlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Oysa bu d\u00fczenlemeler kad\u0131n\u0131 korumaktan ziyade kad\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131ran, cinsel obje h\u00e2line sokan ve ailesinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131ran yakla\u015f\u0131mlard\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece devlet, aile i\u00e7inde en mahrem ili\u015fkilere dahi m\u00fcdahil olarak kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 ile cezalar vermeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu maddenin \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131ndan sonra e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan “beni ili\u015fkiye zorlad\u0131”<\/em> diye \u015fik\u00e2yet edilen kocaya 18 y\u0131l hapis cezas\u0131 bile verildi\u011fi bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu bile tek ba\u015f\u0131na AKP’nin aileyi ne h\u00e2le getirdi\u011finin vahim bir kan\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Kopyala-yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r” <\/span><\/strong>usul\u00fc ile terc\u00fcme edilen 1926 Ceza Yasas\u0131’nda bile su\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclen ve cezai m\u00fceyyide ile kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulan ve b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fcnah olan k\u00fcrtaj ile ilgili cezalar, 2004 y\u0131l\u0131nda TCK’da yap\u0131lan de\u011fi\u015fiklik ile hafifletilmi\u015f durumdad\u0131r. K\u00fcrtaj i\u00e7in verilen 2 y\u0131ldan 5 y\u0131la kadar hapis cezalar\u0131 1 y\u0131la kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f ve bunun da para cezas\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclebilece\u011fi karar\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu yasal de\u011fi\u015fiklik ile anne karn\u0131nda binlerce masum \u00e7ocuk katledilmi\u015f; anne-babalar ve bu i\u015fe vesile olanlar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir vebale sokulmu\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Yine 1926’da TCK’n\u0131n 440 ve 441. <\/span><\/strong>maddelerine g\u00f6re farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde su\u00e7 olarak kabul edilen ve ceza verilen, Allah’\u0131n lanetledi\u011fi, toplumlar\u0131 ifsat eden, yuvalar\u0131n y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131na sebep olan zina, TCK’n\u0131n 12 Ekim 2004’te Resm\u00ee Gazete’de yay\u0131mlanan ilgili maddesi ile su\u00e7 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131 Erdo\u011fan, 20 \u015eubat 2018’de <\/span><\/strong>AB’nin talepleri do\u011frultusunda zinan\u0131n su\u00e7 kapsam\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve bunun yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu <\/span><\/em><\/strong>s\u00f6ylemi\u015f ancak bu yanl\u0131\u015ftan d\u00f6nmek i\u00e7in s\u00f6zl\u00fc ya da somut hi\u00e7bir ad\u0131m at\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu kanun ile evli oldu\u011fu h\u00e2lde zina yapan e\u015fler, g\u00fcya demokrasinin \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerinden faydalanm\u0131\u015f, bunun neticesinde yuvalar y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, su\u00e7lu olanlar kanunlar taraf\u0131ndan korunmu\u015flard\u0131r. Belki en ilkel toplumlarda bile uygulanmayan bu ve benzeri kanunlar muhafazak\u00e2r demokrat AKP eliyle topluma dayat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve uygulanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Y\u00fczlerce insan, e\u015finin kendisini aldatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi h\u00e2lde bo\u015fanamam\u0131\u015f ve bu rezilli\u011fi if\u015fa etti\u011fi i\u00e7in rezilli\u011fi <\/span><\/strong>“mahremiyet” <\/span><\/strong>olarak tan\u0131mlayan mahkemelerce su\u00e7lu bulunmu\u015flard\u0131r. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

2006’da \u00c7ocuk ve Kad\u0131na Y\u00f6nelik \u015eiddet Hareketleri ile T\u00f6re ve Namus Cinayetlerinin \u00d6nlenmesi \u0130\u00e7in Al\u0131nacak Tedbirler konulu Ba\u015fbakanl\u0131k genelgesi yay\u0131mlanm\u0131\u015f ve genelge; koruyucu-\u00f6nleyici tedbirleri, nas\u0131l uygulanaca\u011f\u0131 ve kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ge\u00e7ici s\u00fcre ile bar\u0131nabilecekleri s\u0131\u011f\u0131nma evleri yerel y\u00f6netimlere b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece kimi kad\u0131nlar e\u015flerine, \u00e7ocuklar ise anne ve babalar\u0131na bu s\u0131\u011f\u0131nma evlerine g\u00fcvenerek haks\u0131z ithamlara ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f, b\u00f6ylece bu aileler y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Elbette ger\u00e7ek manada zulme u\u011frayan kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n devlet taraf\u0131ndan korunmas\u0131 esast\u0131r, ancak bu kanunun esas ve usulleri \u00e7o\u011fu zaman aile birli\u011fini haks\u0131z gerek\u00e7eler ile bozan bir ara\u00e7 olarak kullan\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

2005 y\u0131l\u0131nda Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi projesinin temellerini T\u00fcrkiye-Avrupa Birli\u011fi Kat\u0131l\u0131m \u00d6ncesi Mali \u0130\u015f Birli\u011fi Program\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda 2007-2008 y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 kapsayan Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011finin Yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 Projesi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ba\u015flat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 2008-2013 Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi Ulusal Eylem Plan\u0131 \u00f6zellikle e\u011fitimcilerin, e\u011fitim program ve materyallerinin “Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi”<\/em>ne ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 2007-2010 y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 kapsayacak \u015fekilde Kad\u0131na Y\u00f6nelik Aile \u0130\u00e7i \u015eiddetle M\u00fccadele Ulusal Eylem Plan\u0131 haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f ve Kad\u0131n\u0131n Stat\u00fcs\u00fc Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc (KSGM) bu plan\u0131n y\u00f6netimiyle g\u00f6revli k\u0131l\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 2009’da toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi ile ilgili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 parlamentoda y\u00fcr\u00fctmesi planlanan Kad\u0131n Erkek F\u0131rsat E\u015fitli\u011fi Komisyonu (KEFEK) kurulmu\u015ftur. B\u00f6ylelikle AKP, \u00e7o\u011funlukla Bat\u0131l\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00fclkemizde uygulamakla kad\u0131n\u0131, aile ve nesli y\u0131kan kararlar\u0131n kirli altyap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmu\u015f ve bunlar\u0131 zaman i\u00e7inde kanun ve y\u00f6netmeliklerle ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131 k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

2011’de g\u00fcya kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 korunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in <\/span><\/strong>“Ailenin reisi kocad\u0131r”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>h\u00fckm\u00fcn\u00fc i\u00e7eren 4721 say\u0131l\u0131 TMK da kald\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, Aile ve Sosyal Politikalar Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan 2009-2014 y\u0131llar\u0131nda yay\u0131nlanan ara\u015ft\u0131rmada “aile, kad\u0131n i\u00e7in g\u00fcvensiz ortam” tespiti yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. T\u00fcm bunlar ile yetinmeyen AKP iktidarlar\u0131, Avrupa Konseyi’nin haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 “Kad\u0131nlara Y\u00f6nelik \u015eiddet ve Ev \u0130\u00e7i \u015eiddetin \u00d6nlenmesi ve Bunlarla M\u00fccadele Hakk\u0131ndaki Avrupa Konseyi S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi”<\/em>ni MHP, CHP ve HDP’nin deste\u011fi ile 8 Mart 2012’de Meclis’ten h\u0131zl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ge\u00e7irerek aileye vurulan darbeye bir yenisini katm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6zle\u015fme ile g\u00fcndeme getirilen “Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi”<\/em> ba\u015fta e\u015fcinsellik olmak \u00fczere, akl\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 zorlayan t\u00fcrden cinsel sap\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n, “LGBT” diye bilinen e\u015fcinsel azg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye’de me\u015fruluk kazanmas\u0131na ve yasalarla g\u00fcvence alt\u0131na al\u0131nmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu projenin, ba\u015fta Avrupa Birli\u011fi ve Birle\u015fmi\u015f Milletler olmak \u00fczere onlarca devlet, b\u00fcy\u00fckel\u00e7ilikler, vak\u0131flar, sanayi kurulu\u015flar\u0131 ve yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131 finansmanl\u0131 \u00f6rg\u00fctler gibi Siyonist kapitalist d\u00fcnyan\u0131n t\u00fcm katmanlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan desteklenmesi, \u015feytani ama\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa vurmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi’nde <\/span>“aile”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> kavram\u0131 kullan\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f bunun yerine <\/span>“ev arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131”<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>ile her t\u00fcrl\u00fc gayri me\u015fru ili\u015fki me\u015fru say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130slami aile yap\u0131s\u0131na y\u00fczde y\u00fcz ayk\u0131r\u0131 baz\u0131 kavramlar ile kad\u0131nla kad\u0131n\u0131n, erkekle erke\u011fin evlendirilmesi serbest b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f,<\/em><\/strong> cinsel y\u00f6nelim, cinsel tercihler ve her t\u00fcrl\u00fc sap\u0131kl\u0131k kanunla koruma alt\u0131na al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. K\u00fclt\u00fcr, \u00f6rf, \u00e2det, gelenek, din ve namus gibi kavramlar\u0131 “kad\u0131na \u015fiddeti \u00f6nleme”<\/em><\/strong> ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda, gereksiz ve ge\u00e7ersiz saym\u0131\u015f; toplumsal cinsiyet, kad\u0131nl\u0131k ve erkekli\u011fin sosyal olarak in\u015fa edildi\u011fi yalan\u0131 \u00fczerine kurgulanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Toplumsal cinsiyeti ortadan kald\u0131rmay\u0131 ama\u00e7layan bu s\u00f6zle\u015fme cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fini \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesinin tek yolu olarak sunmu\u015f, e\u015fcinselli\u011fin artmas\u0131na, kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet, cinayet ve tecav\u00fcz oranlar\u0131n\u0131n maalesef \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

2012’ye gelindi\u011finde ise 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 Ailenin Korunmas\u0131 ve Kad\u0131na Kar\u015f\u0131 \u015eiddetin \u00d6nlenmesine Dair Kanun<\/strong> \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Koruyucu ve \u00f6nleyici tedbir kararlar\u0131, \u015fiddeti izleme ve \u00f6nleme merkezlerinin kurulmas\u0131, korunan ki\u015fiye ge\u00e7ici maddi yard\u0131m yap\u0131lmas\u0131 \u015feklinde h\u00fck\u00fcmlere yer verilmi\u015ftir. Bu yasa, en tehlikeli b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc olan “kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r” <\/strong>anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 ile 3 milyon erkek ceza alm\u0131\u015f ve bir\u00e7o\u011fu bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f, aileler y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve toplumsal bunal\u0131ma sebep olmu\u015flard\u0131r. Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131na izin verilmeyen, yedi\u011fi yeme\u011fin \u00e7atal\u0131n\u0131-ka\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 atan \u00e7ocuklar anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131, haks\u0131z yere “manevi, ekonomik \u015fiddet uyguluyor”<\/strong> diyen kad\u0131nlar kocalar\u0131n\u0131, okulda, camide, sokakta kad\u0131nlar hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131klar\u0131 erkekleri iftiralar ile cezaevlerine att\u0131rmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

AKP ve Erdo\u011fan 20 y\u0131ll\u0131k iktidar\u0131 d\u00f6neminde; zina yasas\u0131n\u0131 Avrupa istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in su\u00e7 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kararak, “dindar nesil” diyerek oy toplay\u0131p e\u011fitim sisteminde Darwinist Liberalizmi esas alarak, CEDAW, \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi, 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanun gibi aileyi yok eden plan ve projeleri uygulayarak ve ahl\u00e2ks\u0131z Bat\u0131l\u0131lar\u0131n dayatmalar\u0131na uyarak, bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y\u0131k\u0131m\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumlusu konumundad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

1- Evlilik ya\u015f\u0131 ileri al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, n\u00fcfus art\u0131\u015f\u0131 azalm\u0131\u015f, evlilik oranlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f ve bo\u015fanmalar ise artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

2- Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet ve cinayetler b\u00fcy\u00fck oranda artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Son 10 y\u0131lda 4000’den fazla kad\u0131n katledilmi\u015f ve binlerce kad\u0131n \u015fiddete u\u011fram\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

3- Kad\u0131nlar kocalar\u0131n\u0131 \u015fik\u00e2yet etsin diye “183” telefon ihbar hatt\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, “kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r” kural\u0131 ile yuvalar y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, 2011-2022 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda yakla\u015f\u0131k 5 milyon erkek \u00e7o\u011fu iftira, yalan dolan beyanlarla evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, bir k\u0131sm\u0131 ise cezaevine at\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

4- Kanunen do\u011fru ve uygun olmasa da, baz\u0131 y\u00f6relerde 18 ya\u015f alt\u0131nda 16 ve 17 ya\u015flar\u0131nda evlenen binlerce koca herhangi bir \u015fik\u00e2yet olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, kimisinin boy boy \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu h\u00e2lde y\u0131llar sonra kamu davalar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131p a\u011f\u0131r hapis cezalar\u0131 verilerek hapishanelere at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, e\u015fi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 peri\u015fan b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k zina yapanlara ise devlet hi\u00e7bir ceza vermedi\u011fi gibi onlar\u0131 herkese kar\u015f\u0131 korumaya alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

5- Bir ay bile evli kalan nice erkekler bo\u015fand\u0131klar\u0131 kad\u0131nlara \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu nafaka \u00f6demek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6deyemeyenler ise hapis ile cezaland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, yeniden evlenmek isteyenler ise nafaka nedeni ile iki ev bakamayacaklar\u0131 i\u00e7in yuva kuramam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

6- “Ailenin reisi erkektir” kural\u0131 kanun ile kald\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, e\u015fler hi\u00e7bir konuda birbirlerine hesap soramaz h\u00e2le getirilerek ailede dirlik ve d\u00fczen la\u00e7kala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

7- Devlet korumas\u0131 verilen baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar, anne ve babalar\u0131n\u0131, hem de iftira atarak evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

8- Kad\u0131n-erkek aras\u0131ndaki arabuluculuk yasaklanm\u0131\u015f ve kurtar\u0131labilecek yuvalar dahi y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

9- Zina, kanun yolu ile devletin onay\u0131 ve korumas\u0131na al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, serbest b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

10- Kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk s\u0131\u011f\u0131nma evleri; psikolojik ve sosyolojik sorunlar ya\u015fayan, yaln\u0131z kad\u0131nlar ve mutsuz \u00e7ocuklar ile dolup ta\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

11- E\u015fcinsellik toplumda yayg\u0131nla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, destek\u00e7ileri \u00e7o\u011falm\u0131\u015f, dernek ve vak\u0131flar ile temsiliyetleri artm\u0131\u015f ve e\u015fcinsel evlilikler yap\u0131lmaya ba\u015flanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

12- <\/span><\/strong>Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi<\/span><\/em><\/strong> <\/span>devletin her kademesinde ve toplumun her kesimine pazarlanm\u0131\u015f, bu nedenle \u00fclkemizde seks manyaklar\u0131 ve \u015fehvet azg\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011falm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.[1]<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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[1]<\/a> K\u00f6kl\u00fc De\u011fi\u015fim – M. Bayo\u011flu<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0 \u00c7a\u011fda\u015f “Kad\u0131n Haklar\u0131” m\u0131; A\u0130LE YUVAMIZIN YIKILMASI MI? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131 ve O’nun koydu\u011fu \u0130slam kurallar\u0131, Bat\u0131l\u0131lar\u0131n istismar edip durduklar\u0131 “Kad\u0131n-Erkek E\u015fitli\u011finden” \u00e7ok daha \u00f6te, Kad\u0131n\u0131 ve Erke\u011fi ayn\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn iki par\u00e7as\u0131 ve ayn\u0131 r\u00fckn\u00fcn unsurlar\u0131 saym\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yani erkeksiz kad\u0131n ve kad\u0131ns\u0131z erkek yar\u0131md\u0131r. Bunlar birbirini tamamlayan, huzur ve onura birlikte ula\u015f\u0131lan varl\u0131klard\u0131r. Ancak […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":152,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[98],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ozel-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/152"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11163\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}