{"id":11484,"date":"2023-01-30T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T19:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2023\/subat-2023\/kucuk-kiz-cocuklarinin-evlendirilmesi-sapkinligi-2\/"},"modified":"2023-10-18T02:36:13","modified_gmt":"2023-10-17T23:36:13","slug":"kucuk-kiz-cocuklarinin-evlendirilmesi-sapkinligi-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2023\/subat-2023\/kucuk-kiz-cocuklarinin-evlendirilmesi-sapkinligi-2\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u00dc\u00c7\u00dcK KIZ \u00c7OCUKLARININ EVLEND\u0130R\u0130LMES\u0130 SAPKINLI\u011eI!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; text-indent: 0cm;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">K&Uuml;&Ccedil;&Uuml;K KIZ &Ccedil;OCUKLARININ EVLEND\u0130R\u0130LMES\u0130 SAPKINLI\u011eI!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20pt;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Ak\u0131l ile nakil (Ayet ve Hadislerin zahiri manalar\u0131) &ccedil;at\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, nakil; akla g&ouml;re te&rsquo;vil olunur&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, yani; akl\u0131n ve vicdan\u0131n esas al\u0131nmas\u0131 laz\u0131md\u0131r kural\u0131, \u0130mam-\u0131 Azam Ebu Hanife&rsquo;ye g&ouml;re de do\u011fru bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. \u015eimdi bu temel ve genel kurala ve insan f\u0131trat\u0131na (yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f tabiat\u0131na) ayk\u0131r\u0131 olarak 6-9-11&hellip; gibi &ccedil;ocuk, hatta bebek ya\u015ftaki k\u0131z &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n evlendirilebilece\u011fine y&ouml;nelik fasit fetvalar\u0131n, <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;\u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131n bir ruhsat\u0131&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">veya <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Resul&uuml;llah&rsquo;\u0131n uygulamas\u0131&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">gibi alg\u0131lanmas\u0131, esasta inanc\u0131m\u0131za da insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za da ayk\u0131r\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Erken d&ouml;nemlerden g&uuml;n&uuml;m&uuml;ze dek ba\u015fta f\u0131k\u0131h kitaplar\u0131 olmak &uuml;zere konuyla do\u011frudan ya da dolayl\u0131, ilgili bir&ccedil;ok eserlerde <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;klerin evlendirilebilece\u011fine h&uuml;kmedilmi\u015f<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> olmas\u0131, maalesef yayg\u0131n bir yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu eserlerde konuyu delillendirme maksad\u0131yla, &ouml;zellikle Tal&acirc;k Suresi&rsquo;nin 4. ve Nisa Suresi&rsquo;nin 6. ayetlerine, Hz. Ai\u015fe&rsquo;nin k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k ya\u015fta evlendirildi\u011fine dair rivayetlere, icm&acirc; deliline, f\u0131kh&icirc; k\u0131yas metodolojisine ve maslahat prensibine at\u0131f yap\u0131lmas\u0131 da al&acirc;kas\u0131z bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. Bu konu; f&uuml;r&ucirc;-\u0131 f\u0131k\u0131h (f\u0131kh\u0131n dallar\u0131) bak\u0131m\u0131ndan ve usul-i f\u0131k\u0131hta Kur&rsquo;an, S&uuml;nnet ve k\u0131yas\u0131n nas\u0131l alg\u0131lan\u0131p uyguland\u0131\u011f\u0131 a&ccedil;\u0131s\u0131ndan teorik; var\u0131lan sonucun hukuki, sosyal ve psikolojik etkileri a&ccedil;\u0131s\u0131ndan da pratik &ouml;neme sahip bulunmaktad\u0131r. Bu konudaki yaz\u0131, yorum ve yay\u0131nlarda; bu h&uuml;km&uuml;n delili olarak &ouml;ne s&uuml;r&uuml;len ayetlerden yap\u0131lan istidlaller, Hz. Ai\u015fe&rsquo;nin k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k ya\u015fta evlendirildi\u011fine dair rivayetler, icm&acirc; delili, yap\u0131lan k\u0131yas i\u015flemi ve maslahat prensibi &ouml;ne s&uuml;r&uuml;l&uuml;rken, bunlar\u0131n &ouml;zellikle ve &ouml;ncelikle f\u0131trata (yani insan tabiat\u0131na ve yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015fa), ayr\u0131ca akla ve vicdana ayk\u0131r\u0131 oldu\u011fu &uuml;zerinde pek durulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu y&uuml;zden yanl\u0131\u015f, hatta vahim buldu\u011fumuz hatalar yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u015eu kitaplarda bu yanl\u0131\u015fa rastlanmaktad\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">a- \u015eeyb&acirc;n&icirc;, el-C&acirc;mi&rsquo;u&rsquo;s-sa\u011f&icirc;r<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> (en-N&acirc;fiu&rsquo;l-keb&icirc;r isimli \u015ferhle birlikte), &Acirc;lem&uuml;&rsquo;l-k&uuml;t&uuml;b, Beyrut, 1986, s. 170 vd.; 171; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">b- Kit&acirc;b&uuml;&rsquo;l-asl el-ma&rsquo;r&ucirc;f bi&rsquo;l-Mebs&ucirc;t<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, &Acirc;lem&uuml;&rsquo;l-k&uuml;t&uuml;b, Beyrut, 1990, I, 409-410, II, 395; el-C&acirc;mi&rsquo;u&rsquo;l-keb&icirc;r, D&acirc;ru&rsquo;l-k&uuml;t&uuml;bi&rsquo;l-\u0131lmiyye, Beyr&ucirc;t, 2000, s. 101, 102; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">c- Merg&icirc;n&acirc;n&icirc;, el-Hid&acirc;ye<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, Beyrut, 1995, I, 186, 294; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ccedil;- Mevs\u0131l&icirc;, el-\u0130htiy&acirc;r<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, \u0130stanbul, 1984, III, 94, 172, IV, 12; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">d- Meyd&acirc;n&icirc;, el-L&uuml;b&acirc;b<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, \u0130stanbul, t.y., III, 10, 14, 18, III, 80, 83; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">e- \u015eirb&icirc;n&icirc;, Mu\u011fni&rsquo;l-muht&acirc;c<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, M\u0131s\u0131r, 1958, III, 168 vd.; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">f- Derd&icirc;r, e\u015f-\u015eerhu&rsquo;s-sa\u011f&icirc;r<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, Kahire, II, 396 vd.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">g- Serahs&icirc;, el-Mebs&ucirc;t<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, D&acirc;ru&rsquo;l-ma&rsquo;rife, Beyr&ucirc;t, 1406, IV, 212-213; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">h- Zeyd&acirc;n<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, el-Vec&icirc;z, Dersaadet, t.y., s. 209; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u0131- \u015ea&rsquo;b&acirc;n, \u0130slam Hukuk \u0130lminin Esaslar\u0131<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, trc. \u0130brahim K. D&ouml;nmez, TDV, Ankara, 1990, s. 143-144; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">i- Buh&acirc;r&icirc;, Sah&icirc;hu&rsquo;l-Buh&acirc;r&icirc;<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, thk. Mustafa D&icirc;b el-B&uuml;\u011f&acirc;, D&acirc;ru \u0130bn Kes&icirc;r, Beyr&ucirc;t, 1987, &ldquo;Nik&acirc;h&rdquo;, 38; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">j- M&uuml;slim, Sah&icirc;hu M&uuml;slim<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, thk. Muhammed Fu&acirc;d Abd&uuml;lb&acirc;k&icirc;, D&acirc;ru \u0130hy&acirc;i&rsquo;t-t&uuml;r&acirc;si&rsquo;l-arab&icirc;, Beyr&ucirc;t, t.y., &ldquo;Nik&acirc;h&rdquo;, 69, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">k- Nes&acirc;&icirc;, S&uuml;nen (el-M&uuml;cteb&acirc;)<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, Haleb, 1986, &ldquo;Nik&acirc;h&rdquo;, 29; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">l- \u0130bn M&acirc;ce<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">, thk. Muhammed Fu&acirc;d Abd&uuml;lb&acirc;k&icirc;, D&acirc;ru&rsquo;l-fikr, Beyr&ucirc;t, t.y., &ldquo;Nik&acirc;h&rdquo;, 13.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Bu arada, bir durumu a&ccedil;\u0131kl\u0131\u011fa kavu\u015fturmakta fayda vard\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u0130slami literat&uuml;rde <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;kaynak&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">deyince sadece; 1- Kur&rsquo;an-\u0131 Kerim&rsquo;in sarih (a&ccedil;\u0131k) ayetleri, 2- Peygamber Efendimizin sahih (do\u011fru) hadisleri anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Yoksa, bir bilginin yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131, bir fetvan\u0131n yaz\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitaplar <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Kaynak&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">de\u011fil, sadece al\u0131nt\u0131 adresleri konumundad\u0131r. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;\u0131n temel esaslar\u0131na, Resul&uuml;llah&rsquo;\u0131n genel ama&ccedil;lar\u0131na, akl\u0131n ve vicdan\u0131n, yani f\u0131trat\u0131n gerekli yasalar\u0131na ayk\u0131r\u0131 kanaat ve fetvalar\u0131n yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 Dini kitaplar\u0131 <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;de\u011fi\u015fmez kaynak ve kutsal dayanak&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">yerine koymak ise, M&uuml;sl&uuml;manlar\u0131 &ldquo;EHL-\u0130 K\u0130TAP&rdquo; konumuna ta\u015f\u0131r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; Ehl-i Kitap kavram\u0131; Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;\u0131 ve Resul&uuml;llah&rsquo;\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p, Dini eserleri yeterli ve yeg&acirc;ne ba\u015fvuru kayna\u011f\u0131 yapan kimseleri de kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">G&uuml;n&uuml;m&uuml;zde, bu t&uuml;r fetvalar\u0131 ve cevazlar\u0131 do\u011fru ve uygun sanarak, ama akl\u0131n\u0131 ve vicdan\u0131n\u0131 devre d\u0131\u015f\u0131 b\u0131rakarak, 6 (alt\u0131) ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 evlendiren marazl\u0131 kafalardan ziyade, bu kanaat ve kararlar\u0131 \u0130slami h&uuml;k&uuml;mler diye kitaplar\u0131na yazan ilim erbab\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve vahim bir hata yapt\u0131klar\u0131 &uuml;zerinde yo\u011funla\u015fmak laz\u0131md\u0131r. &Ouml;nce; Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;\u0131n ruhuna ve genel esaslar\u0131na, Resul&uuml;llah&rsquo;\u0131n son peygamberlik vasf\u0131na ve k\u0131yamete kadar en g&uuml;zel &ouml;rneklik s\u0131fat\u0131na&hellip; Ayr\u0131ca akla, vicdana ve insan f\u0131trat\u0131na asla uymayan bu t&uuml;r fasit fetvalar: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A- Ya \u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131n ulvi mana ve maksad\u0131na, f\u0131trat esaslar\u0131na ve toplum maslahat\u0131na uygun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 &uuml;zerinde yeterince durulmadan al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">B- Veya, Araplarda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ayba\u015f\u0131 haline girdikten sonraki y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 &ldquo;ya\u015f&rdquo; olarak saymalar\u0131 (Bak: Musa Carullah. Hatun 81. Kitabiyet yy. Trc. Mehmet G&ouml;rmez) gelene\u011finden habersiz olarak bu karara var\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">C- Yahut, kendisinden &ouml;nceki bir fetvay\u0131, taklit&ccedil;ilik damar\u0131yla aynen al\u0131p tekrarlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&Ccedil;- Ya da; baz\u0131 etkili ve yetkili &ccedil;evrelere yaranma ama&ccedil;l\u0131 ve bilgi&ccedil;lik taslama hesapl\u0131 yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">D- Bu kitaplarda %95 hay\u0131rl\u0131, yararl\u0131, a&ccedil;\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 ve hayat\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 uygun ve do\u011fru tespitler yan\u0131nda, b&ouml;ylesi al&acirc;kas\u0131z ve yak\u0131\u015f\u0131ks\u0131z tevillerin bulunmas\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlatmam\u0131z\u0131 da insafl\u0131 bulmak ve \u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131 bu t&ouml;hmetten kurtarmak laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Ve zaten, herhangi bir \u0130slam &acirc;limini, h&acirc;\u015f&acirc;, hatas\u0131z saymak, her kanaat ve i&ccedil;tihad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru sanmak&hellip; Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;a, \u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131n amac\u0131na, akla ve vicdana uygun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fmaktan sak\u0131nmak, onu ilahla\u015ft\u0131rmakt\u0131r ve elbette sapk\u0131nl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&Ccedil;ok Soru Alan Bir \u0130nternet Sitesinde \u015e&ouml;yle Bir Fetva Yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve \u0130slam Ad\u0131na Y&uuml;z Karas\u0131yd\u0131:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;F\u0131k\u0131hta evlilik ya\u015flar\u0131 ka&ccedil;t\u0131r. K&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k ya\u015fta evlenen k\u0131z\u0131n gerdek i&ccedil;in hay\u0131z g&ouml;rme \u015fart\u0131 var m\u0131d\u0131r?&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">sorusu \u015f&ouml;yle yan\u0131tlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;Evlilik ya\u015f\u0131 konusunda belirlenen bir s\u0131n\u0131r yoktur.&nbsp;Evlenen k\u0131z\u0131n nik&acirc;h i&ccedil;in b&uuml;lu\u011f &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na ermesi \u015fart de\u011fildir; ancak cima i&ccedil;in b&uuml;lu\u011f &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na ermesi gerekir.&nbsp;F\u0131k\u0131h a&ccedil;\u0131s\u0131ndan teorik olarak bebek de, y&uuml;z ellilik ihtiyar da evlenebilir. Ancak evlilik hayat\u0131nda problem olabilecek derecedeki ya\u015f farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131na kef&acirc;et (denklik) a&ccedil;\u0131s\u0131ndan bu konuda dikkat edilmelidir.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Oysa<em> <\/em><\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Evlilikte ya\u015f s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 yoktur&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, \u0130slam&rsquo;a ve f\u0131trata ayk\u0131r\u0131d\u0131r. Halbuki Kur&#8217;an <strong><em>evlilik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na <\/em><\/strong>dikkat &ccedil;ekip, <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;re\u015fit olmay\u0131&rdquo;<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u015fart ko\u015fmaktad\u0131r. &Ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n evlenebilece\u011fine dair fetva, Tal&acirc;k Suresi d&ouml;rd&uuml;nc&uuml; ayetini yanl\u0131\u015f anlama &ccedil;abalar\u0131ndan kaynakl\u0131d\u0131r. Ayetteki <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;&acirc;det g&ouml;rmeyenler&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ifadesinden &ccedil;ocuklarla evlenmeye fetva &ccedil;\u0131karm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Tal&acirc;k Suresi 4. ayetin meali \u015f&ouml;yledir:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;(Ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k sebebiyle) Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131zdan art\u0131k &acirc;detten kesilmi\u015f (menopoza girmi\u015f veya ameliyatla ayba\u015f\u0131 &ouml;zelli\u011fini yitirmi\u015f) bulunanlarla; (ve yine evlenme &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na geldi\u011fi halde t\u0131bbi nedenler ve f\u0131tri -do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen- baz\u0131 engellerle) &acirc;det g&ouml;rmemi\u015f olanlar\u0131n iddet (bekleme s&uuml;re)leri ise -e\u011fer \u015f&uuml;pheye d&uuml;\u015fecek olursan\u0131z- (biliniz ki) &uuml;&ccedil; ayd\u0131r. Hamile kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bekleme s&uuml;resi ise, y&uuml;klerini b\u0131rakmalar\u0131 (do\u011fum yapmalar\u0131 ile sona ula\u015f\u0131r). Kim Allah&rsquo;tan korkup (haks\u0131zl\u0131k ve hay&acirc;s\u0131zl\u0131ktan) sak\u0131n\u0131rsa (Allah) ona (her) i\u015finde bir kolayl\u0131k k\u0131lacakt\u0131r.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">[Not: Nisa Suresi 6. ayeti; k\u0131zlar i&ccedil;in &ldquo;nik&acirc;h-evlenme&rdquo; &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n; &ldquo;b&uuml;lu\u011fa-ergenli\u011fe&rdquo; eri\u015fmeleri \u015fart\u0131ndan &ouml;te; r&uuml;\u015fd&rsquo;e, yani akli ve bedeni olgunlu\u011fa ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131n\u0131 da \u015fart ko\u015fmaktad\u0131r. Bu nedenle &ccedil;ocuk evlilikleri \u0130slam&rsquo;a da insanl\u0131k f\u0131trat\u0131na da ayk\u0131r\u0131d\u0131r. Hz. Peygamberimizden sonra ka&ccedil; y\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve ka&ccedil; ya\u015f\u0131nda bu d&uuml;nyadan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 tarihi belgelerle hesapland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda Ai\u015fe validemizin Aleyhissalat&uuml; Vesselam Efendimizle 18 (on sekiz) ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendi\u011fi ortaya &ccedil;\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; sa\u011flam kaynaklara g&ouml;re Hz. Fat\u0131ma ile ayn\u0131 y\u0131lda (M.605) do\u011fmu\u015flard\u0131r.]<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Suriyeli &acirc;lim Vehbe Zuhayli&#8217;nin <em>el-F\u0131khu&rsquo;l-\u0130slam&icirc;<\/em> kitab\u0131nda; Tal&acirc;k Suresi d&ouml;rd&uuml;nc&uuml; ayetinin, k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k k\u0131z &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n evlenmesine delil say\u0131lmas\u0131 da yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;\u0130slam &acirc;limlerinin bir&ccedil;o\u011funa g&ouml;re, erginlik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na girmemi\u015f bir k\u0131z &ccedil;ocu\u011funun uygun bir kimseyle evlendirilmesi caiz bulunmaktad\u0131r. &lsquo;Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131zdan &acirc;detten kesilenlerin iddetinde teredd&uuml;t ederseniz, onlar\u0131n iddet s&uuml;releri &uuml;&ccedil; ayd\u0131r. Hen&uuml;z &acirc;det g&ouml;rmeyenlerin (de s&uuml;releri b&ouml;yle hesaplan\u0131r)&rsquo; (Talak: 4) mealindeki ayette yer alan <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&lsquo;Hen&uuml;z &acirc;det g&ouml;rmeyenlerin de s&uuml;releri b&ouml;yledir.&rsquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ifadesi, &acirc;det g&ouml;rmemi\u015f k\u0131z &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n da evlendirilebilece\u011fine delil say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bazen k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k ya\u015ftaki k\u0131z\u0131 evlendirmek bir maslahata binaen yap\u0131l\u0131r. Baba, uygun talibi ka&ccedil;\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 takdirde, bir daha &ouml;yle bir kimseyi bulamayabilir endi\u015fesiyle k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 evlendirmesi maslahata uygun bulunmaktad\u0131r. Maslahat ise, \u015fer&rsquo;&icirc; bir delildir. (Bak: V. Zuhayl&icirc;, el-F\u0131khu&rsquo;l-\u0130slam&icirc;, 7\/179-180).&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Tal&acirc;k Suresi D&ouml;rd&uuml;nc&uuml; Ayette Yap\u0131lan Tahrifatlar ve Yan\u0131lg\u0131lar \u015eunlard\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;K&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;klerin veliler taraf\u0131ndan evlendirilebilmesine cevaz veren h&uuml;km&uuml;n ayet, riv&acirc;yet, icm&acirc;, k\u0131yas ve maslahat gibi delillerine k\u0131saca de\u011findik. \u015eimdi bu delilleri de\u011ferlendirip meseleyi Kur&rsquo;an a&ccedil;\u0131s\u0131ndan h&uuml;kme ba\u011flamaya &ccedil;al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131z. &ldquo;Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131z i&ccedil;inden, &acirc;detten kesilmi\u015f olanlarla, &acirc;det g&ouml;rmeyenler hususunda teredd&uuml;t ederseniz, onlar\u0131n bekleme s&uuml;resi &uuml;&ccedil; ayd\u0131r&hellip;&rdquo; mealindeki Tal&acirc;k Suresi&rsquo;nin 4. ayetini <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;hen&uuml;z hay\u0131z g&ouml;rmemi\u015f olanlar&rdquo;<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">olarak yorumlayanlar <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;klerin evlendirilebilmesi&rdquo; <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">i&ccedil;in bu ayeti delil saymaktad\u0131r. Oysa Arap&ccedil;a&rsquo;da <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;lem&rdquo; <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">edat\u0131 di&rsquo;li ve mi\u015f&rsquo;li ge&ccedil;mi\u015f zaman\u0131n olumsuzu (cahd-i mutlak), <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;lemm&acirc;&rdquo; <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">edat\u0131 ise \u015fimdiki bitmi\u015f zaman\u0131n olumsuzunu (cahd-i m&uuml;sta\u011frak) ifade etmek i&ccedil;in kullan\u0131l\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;hen&uuml;z&rdquo;<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">anlam\u0131n\u0131 <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;lem&rdquo;<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">de\u011fil <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;lemm&acirc;&rdquo;<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">edat\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r. &ldquo;Lemm&acirc;&rdquo; ba\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011fi muzari fiilin zaman\u0131n\u0131 ge&ccedil;mi\u015fe, anlam\u0131n\u0131 ise olumsuza &ccedil;eviren bir edatt\u0131r. Fiilin hen&uuml;z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ama olmas\u0131n\u0131n beklendi\u011fi anlam\u0131n\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca &ccedil;ocuk i&ccedil;in <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;hay\u0131z g&ouml;rmedi&rdquo;<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ifadesi kullan\u0131lmaz. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; zaten <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">hay\u0131z g&ouml;rmedi\u011fi <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">i&ccedil;in &ccedil;ocuktur. Bu ifadenin kullan\u0131lmas\u0131 i&ccedil;in \u015fahs\u0131n &ouml;nce hay\u0131z g&ouml;rmeye ba\u015flamas\u0131 sonra da &ccedil;e\u015fitli sebeplerle hay\u0131z g&ouml;rememesi laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bize g&ouml;re <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;lem yah\u0131dne&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ile kastedilen <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;m&uuml;mteddet&uuml;&rsquo;t-tuhr&rdquo;<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">denilen ve hayz\u0131 birka&ccedil; y\u0131l uzayabilen kad\u0131nlard\u0131r. Ayet, bu kad\u0131nlar\u0131n durumunu konu almaktad\u0131r. Aksi halde bu durumda olan bir kad\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015fand\u0131ktan sonra iddetinin bitmesi ve kocas\u0131n\u0131n evinde ge&ccedil;irece\u011fi zaman, seneleri bulacakt\u0131r.&rdquo;[1]<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&#8220;Hen&uuml;z &acirc;det g&ouml;rmemi\u015f&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> ifadesinin ba\u015f\u0131ndaki &ldquo;hen&uuml;z&rdquo; kelimesi ayetin mealine d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. &Uuml;stelik e\u011fer <em>&ldquo;lem&rdquo;<\/em> edat\u0131 de\u011fil de <em>&ldquo;lemm&acirc;&rdquo;<\/em> edat\u0131 olsayd\u0131, bu insanlar\u0131n yorumlar\u0131 hakl\u0131l\u0131k kazan\u0131rd\u0131. O zaman &acirc;det g&ouml;rme olay\u0131n\u0131n hen&uuml;z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ama olmas\u0131n\u0131n beklendi\u011fi anlam\u0131 &ccedil;\u0131kar\u0131lacakt\u0131. Ama&nbsp;&#8220;(hen&uuml;z) &acirc;det g&ouml;rmemi\u015f&#8221; ifadesinin ba\u015f\u0131nda &ldquo;lemma&rdquo; de\u011fil &ldquo;lem&rdquo; vard\u0131r.&nbsp;Peki anadili gibi Arap&ccedil;a bilen insanlar bunlar\u0131 nas\u0131l g&ouml;zden ka&ccedil;\u0131r\u0131r? Tal&acirc;k Suresi&rsquo;nde bahsedilen olay bo\u015fanma \u015fartlar\u0131 ve kurallar\u0131d\u0131r. Bu sure evlenmi\u015f, evli ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f sonra da evliliklerini bitirme karar\u0131 alan insanlara, nas\u0131l ayr\u0131lacaklar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmaktad\u0131r.&nbsp;Ayet, &acirc;detten kesilen ve &acirc;det d&uuml;zensizli\u011fi ya\u015fayan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bekleme s&uuml;resini a&ccedil;\u0131klamaktad\u0131r.&nbsp;Arap&ccedil;a bilmeyen M&uuml;sl&uuml;manlar ve \u0130slam kar\u015f\u0131t\u0131 insanlar da Tal&acirc;k Suresi d&ouml;rd&uuml;nc&uuml; ayetin mealine veya Vehbe Zuhayli gibi insanlar\u0131n kitaplar\u0131ndaki a&ccedil;\u0131klamalara bakarak \u0130slam&#8217;da &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n evlendirilmesine izin verildi\u011fini san\u0131p yan\u0131lmakta ve sap\u0131tmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;a G&ouml;re Evlilik &Ccedil;a\u011f\u0131 <em>&ldquo;Re\u015fit Olmakla&rdquo;<\/em> Ba\u015flamaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Allah Kur&#8217;an&#8217;da&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;evlilik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131&rdquo; <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">konusunda m&uuml;&rsquo;minleri uyarmaktad\u0131r.&nbsp;Bu ayetler indi\u011finde <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;Evlilik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131 da nedir?&#8221; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">diye soran hi&ccedil; &ccedil;\u0131kmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; Araplarda evlilik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131 diye bir ya\u015f s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 vard\u0131r. Nisa Suresi&rsquo;nin 6. ayetinde \u015f&ouml;yle buyrulmaktad\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;Yetimleri, nik&acirc;ha eri\u015fecekleri b&uuml;lu\u011f &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na kadar (bekleyip-e\u011fitip) deneyin; \u015fayet kendilerinde bir &lsquo;r&uuml;\u015fd&rsquo; (fiziki ve akli olgunla\u015fma) g&ouml;rd&uuml;n&uuml;z m&uuml;, hemen onlara mallar\u0131n\u0131 (geri) verin. (R&uuml;\u015fde, yani bedeni ve beyni yeti\u015fkinli\u011fe eri\u015fmemi\u015f k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k ya\u015ftaki k\u0131z ve erkek &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n evlendirilmesi caiz ve m&uuml;nasip de\u011fildir. Emanet ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z mallar\u0131n\u0131 da) B&uuml;y&uuml;yecekler (ve geri isteyecekler) diye israf ile &ccedil;ar&ccedil;abuk yemeyin. (Yetim mallar\u0131 konusunda) Zengin olan iffetli ve m&uuml;sta\u011fni olmaya (hak yemekten sak\u0131nmaya) &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, yoksul olan da art\u0131k ma&rsquo;ruf (ihtiyaca ve &ouml;rfe uygun) bir \u015fekilde yiyip harcas\u0131n. Mallar\u0131n\u0131 kendilerine (yetimlere geri) verdi\u011finiz zaman, onlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fahit bulundurun. (Emanet mallar\u0131n\u0131 korumay\u0131 &uuml;stlendi\u011finizde ve geri devretti\u011finizde resmi kay\u0131t tutun.) Hesap g&ouml;r&uuml;c&uuml; olarak Allah yeterlidir.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u0130\u015fte bu ayette, evlilik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n;&nbsp;bulu\u011f ya da daha a\u015fa\u011f\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fil&nbsp;de<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">r&uuml;\u015fde kavu\u015funca olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">vurgulanmaktad\u0131r.&nbsp;&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; ancak mal\u0131 &uuml;zerinde tasarruf etme hakk\u0131 kazananlar <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;re\u015fit&rdquo; <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bir erkek mal\u0131n\u0131 y&ouml;netmeye ehil ya\u015fa ula\u015facak ki evlenip evini ge&ccedil;indirme hakk\u0131 kazans\u0131n. Re\u015fit olmadan mal\u0131n\u0131 alam\u0131yorsa nas\u0131l evlenip yuva kuracakt\u0131r? Kim bakacak bunlara? \u015eunu da belirtmek laz\u0131m; herkesin r&uuml;\u015fd &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131 farkl\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. Bir gen&ccedil; ergenlikle beraber r&uuml;\u015fd &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na girebilir ama ba\u015fka bir gen&ccedil; on sekiz ya\u015f\u0131na gelmesine ra\u011fmen r&uuml;\u015fd &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131na girmemi\u015f olabilir. Bunu tespit edecek olanlar evlenecek ki\u015filerin velileridir. \u0130slam&#8217;da bu y&uuml;zden nik&acirc;h resmi denetime t&acirc;bi tutulur. Denetimsiz ve resmiyetsiz nik&acirc;h ge&ccedil;erli de\u011fildir.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&#8220;Efendim bunlar yetimler i&ccedil;in s&ouml;ylenmi\u015f&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> deyip de kendimizi kand\u0131rmaya &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fmamal\u0131d\u0131r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; bu ayette Allah, yetimler &uuml;zerinden evlenme &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yetimlere ayr\u0131, di\u011fer gen&ccedil;lere ayr\u0131 kurallar koyulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. B&uuml;t&uuml;n bunlara ra\u011fmen h&acirc;l&acirc; bu ayetler &uuml;zerine farkl\u0131 ve ayk\u0131r\u0131 s&ouml;z s&ouml;yleyen ve 6 ya\u015f\u0131nda k\u0131z &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n evlenebilece\u011fini iddia eden kimseler hem f\u0131trata, hem Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;a ayk\u0131r\u0131 davranmakta ve \u0130slam&rsquo;a iftira atmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Peygamberimiz Aleyhisselam&rsquo;\u0131n Ai\u015fe Annemizle Evlenmesi 18 Ya\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin do\u011fumuna M.S. 612, Peygamberimizle evlenmesine de M.S. 619 diyenler vard\u0131r. Buna bakan birileri hemen fetvay\u0131 uydurmakta ve; <em>&#8220;Hz. Muhammed Ai\u015fe ile yedi ya\u015f\u0131nda evlenmi\u015f&#8221;<\/em> deyip &ccedil;\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Bir ba\u015fka grup, <em>&#8220;Ai\u015fe annemiz evlendi\u011finde dokuz ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131&#8221; <\/em>iddias\u0131nda bulunmaktad\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar kimin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 belli olmayan bu tarihlendirmeye kan\u0131p ara\u015ft\u0131rma yapmadan inanmaktad\u0131r. <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><strong>Oysa ba\u015fka kaynaklara da bakmak do\u011fru ve uygun olan\u0131 bulmak laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu as\u0131ls\u0131z rivayetlerden birine g&ouml;re; Hz. Ai\u015fe,<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> Peygamberimizle ni\u015fanlanmadan &ouml;nce Mut&rsquo;im ibn Adiyy&rsquo;in o\u011flu C&uuml;beyr ibn Mut&rsquo;im ile ni\u015fanlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin babas\u0131 Hz. Ebu Bekir \u0130slam&rsquo;a girince, C&uuml;beyr ibn Mut&rsquo;im&rsquo;in annesi Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;yi istemeyip, ni\u015fan\u0131 bozmu\u015flard\u0131r. Sebebi, kendi o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131 da M&uuml;sl&uuml;man yaparlar diye korkmu\u015flard\u0131r. \u015eimdi, Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;yi babas\u0131 be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda ba\u015fkas\u0131yla m\u0131 ni\u015fanlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r? Bu sa&ccedil;mal\u0131kt\u0131r. &Uuml;stelik insan tabiat\u0131na ve f\u0131trata ayk\u0131r\u0131d\u0131r. Oysa \u0130slam, F\u0131trat Dini say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yani akla, vicdana ve tabiata ayk\u0131r\u0131 bir duruma \u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131n ve Resul&uuml;llah&rsquo;\u0131n izin vermesi imk&acirc;ns\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130mam-\u0131 Azam Hz.leri <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Bir konuda Ak\u0131l ile Nakil &ccedil;at\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ak\u0131l esas al\u0131n\u0131r.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin ablas\u0131 Hz. Esma vard\u0131r. B&uuml;t&uuml;n kitaplarda Esma ile Ai\u015fe&#8217;in ya\u015f fark\u0131 on olarak ge&ccedil;iyor. Esma 595 senesinde do\u011fmu\u015f <\/span><\/strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">(kayna\u011f\u0131 Nevev&icirc;, Tehz&icirc;b&uuml;&rsquo;l-Esm&acirc;, 2\/597; Hakim, M&uuml;stedrek 3\/635)<\/span><\/em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">. On be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda M&uuml;sl&uuml;man olmu\u015f <\/span><\/strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">(kaynak Nevev&icirc;, Tehz&icirc;b&uuml;&rsquo;l-Esm&acirc;, 2\/597; Hakim, M&uuml;stedrek 3\/635.) <\/span><\/em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ve 695 y\u0131l\u0131nda, y&uuml;z ya\u015f\u0131nda &ouml;lm&uuml;\u015f bulunmaktad\u0131r. Medine&#8217;ye hicret 622&#8217;de yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Esma&#8217;n\u0131n &ouml;l&uuml;m&uuml; (695 &#8211; 622 = 73) hicretin yetmi\u015f &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;nc&uuml; senesine denk geliyor. Bu durumda Medine&#8217;ye hicret s\u0131ras\u0131nda Esma yirmi yedi ya\u015f\u0131nda olmaktad\u0131r. Hz. Ai\u015fe ile aralar\u0131nda on ya\u015f oldu\u011funa g&ouml;re&nbsp;Ai\u015fe Validemiz hicret s\u0131ras\u0131nda en az on yedi ya\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r.&nbsp;Yani, Esma on be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda M&uuml;sl&uuml;man olduysa, aralar\u0131nda on ya\u015f oldu\u011fundan, Esma M&uuml;sl&uuml;man oldu\u011funda Hz. Ai\u015fe be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Medine&#8217;ye hicret risaletten on &uuml;&ccedil; sene sonra yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hz. Ai\u015fe Medine&#8217;ye hicrete kadar on &uuml;&ccedil; sene Mekke&#8217;de kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, b&ouml;ylece toplam ya\u015f\u0131 on sekiz olmaktad\u0131r. &Ouml;zetle ve kesinlikle; Peygamberimizin Hz. Ai\u015fe ile evlenirken Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin yedi veya dokuz ya\u015f\u0131nda olmay\u0131p en az on yedi ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011fu ortaya &ccedil;\u0131kmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Peygamberimiz, Hz. Ai\u015fe&rsquo;yle 17-18 ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendi\u011fine g&ouml;re; muhtemelen Nisa Suresi alt\u0131nc\u0131 ayetteki Araplar\u0131n evlilik &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131, 17-18 ya\u015f civar\u0131yd\u0131. Demek ki Allah, Araplar\u0131n &ouml;rfe ve geleneklere g&ouml;re 17-18 ya\u015f nik&acirc;h &ccedil;a\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f bulmam\u0131\u015f, bir nevi onaylam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. M&uuml;sl&uuml;manlar kendi Kur&rsquo;an&rsquo;\u0131ndan ve Resul&uuml;llah&rsquo;\u0131n &ouml;rnek hayat\u0131ndan haberleri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i&ccedil;in &ccedil;ocuk gelinlere fetva uyduranlara kanm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.[2]<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&Uuml;lkemizde \u0130slam &Acirc;limi Ge&ccedil;inenlerin, Solcu Yazardan Utanmalar\u0131 Gerekiyordu!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;Alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda bebe\u011fin evlendirilmesi pedofili su&ccedil;udur, akl\u0131n ve vicdan\u0131n uyu\u015fuklu\u011fudur&#8230; Temel mesele ayd\u0131nl\u0131k \u0130slam&#8217;\u0131n, karanl\u0131k kafalara b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131ndan kaynaklan\u0131yordu. Az anlayan, yar\u0131m anlayan haliyle yanl\u0131\u015f anlatmay\u0131 da s&uuml;rd&uuml;r&uuml;yordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bir kez do\u011fru yoldan sap\u0131nca art\u0131k ger&ccedil;ekleri toparlamak zorla\u015f\u0131yordu. Hele, politik hayatta &lsquo;inan&ccedil; rant\u0131&rsquo; artt\u0131k&ccedil;a, &lsquo;istismarc\u0131 \u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131n&rsquo; serbestlik alan\u0131 o derece b&uuml;y&uuml;yordu. Ve maalesef Diyanet&#8217;ten siyasi &ccedil;evrelere kadar herkes medeniyet dini \u0130slam&#8217;\u0131n katledilmesini seyrediyordu!<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Oysa &ouml;nce bu k&ouml;t&uuml;l&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n-toplumsal &ccedil;&uuml;r&uuml;m&uuml;\u015fl&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kurutmak gerekiyordu. Bunun &ouml;nceli\u011fi ise samimi davranmaktan, Kur&rsquo;ani kavramlar\u0131 ak\u0131l, vicdan ve bilim do\u011frultusunda ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p do\u011fru anlamaktan ge&ccedil;iyordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir bebe\u011fin evlendirilmesinin dayanaks\u0131z bir hurafe oldu\u011fu a&ccedil;\u0131k&ccedil;a s\u0131r\u0131t\u0131yordu:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u0130slam tarihinde Hz. Ai\u015fe kadar tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n oda\u011f\u0131nda olan bir ba\u015fka sahabe yoktu. Hz. Muhammed ile ka&ccedil; ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendi\u011fi, bunlardan birisini olu\u015fturuyordu. Kimine g&ouml;re 6&hellip; Kimine g&ouml;re 9&hellip; Kimine g&ouml;re 15&hellip; Kimine g&ouml;re 18&hellip; Kimine g&ouml;re ise 20 ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011fu vurgulan\u0131yordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&Ouml;nce \u015funu bilmeliyiz: \u0130nsano\u011flunun 1400 y\u0131l &ouml;nceki biyolojik ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bilme imk&acirc;n\u0131m\u0131z yoktu. Ya\u015f kavram\u0131, R&ouml;nesans ve sanayile\u015fmeyle tarih sahnesine &ccedil;\u0131kan burjuvaziyle birka&ccedil; y&uuml;zy\u0131l &ouml;nce do\u011fmu\u015ftu. &Ouml;yle ya, &lsquo;Hz. Havva cennette yasak elmay\u0131 ka&ccedil; ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0131s\u0131r\u0131yordu? Hz. Meryem, Hz. \u0130sa&#8217;y\u0131 ka&ccedil; ya\u015f\u0131nda do\u011furmu\u015ftu?&rsquo; sorular\u0131na do\u011fru yan\u0131t verme \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z yoktu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Konumuza d&ouml;nersek:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Mekke&#8217;nin en b&uuml;y&uuml;\u011f&uuml; olan Kurey\u015f kabilesinin alt kollar\u0131 bulunuyordu. Bunlardan biri de Teym oluyordu. Cahiliye d&ouml;neminde (sava\u015flarda esir al\u0131n\u0131p cariye yap\u0131lmas\u0131 utanc\u0131n\u0131n &ouml;n&uuml;ne ge&ccedil;mek i&ccedil;in) k\u0131z &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 topra\u011fa diri diri g&ouml;men-suda bo\u011fan-kuyuya atan zengin kabilelerden biriydi Teym&hellip; \u0130\u015fte Hz. Ebubekir de bu boydand\u0131. K\u0131z\u0131 Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;yi, gelenek gere\u011fi akrabas\u0131 Mut&#8217;im o\u011flu C&uuml;beyr&#8217;e nik&acirc;hlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Peki Hz. Ai\u015fe ka&ccedil; ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&Acirc;det g&ouml;rme-hay\u0131z d&ouml;nemine eri\u015fme, k\u0131zlar i&ccedil;in ergenli\u011fin &ouml;l&ccedil;&uuml;s&uuml; say\u0131l\u0131yordu. Dini ve hukuki sorumlulu\u011fun ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fkil ediyordu. Sadece \u0130slamiyet&rsquo;te de\u011fil, t&uuml;m inan&ccedil;larda evlilik ya\u015f\u0131 hay\u0131z ile ba\u015fl\u0131yordu. Yani Hz. Ai\u015fe C&uuml;beyr ile ni\u015fanl\u0131yken &acirc;det g&ouml;rmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f bulunuyordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Putperest C&uuml;beyr, Hz. Ebubekir&#8217;in M&uuml;sl&uuml;man olmas\u0131na tepki g&ouml;stererek nik&acirc;h\u0131 bozdu. O halde: Hz. Ebubekir, 38 ya\u015f\u0131nda-611 y\u0131l\u0131nda M&uuml;sl&uuml;man olmu\u015ftu. Demek 611 y\u0131l\u0131ndan &ouml;nce k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 evlendiriyordu. Yoksa C&uuml;beyr&rsquo;in, M&uuml;sl&uuml;man olmu\u015f Hz. Ebubekir&#8217;in k\u0131z\u0131yla evlenmemesi gerekiyordu. Yani baz\u0131 kitaplarda belirtilen Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin 614 do\u011fumlu olmas\u0131 imk&acirc;ns\u0131z g&ouml;r&uuml;n&uuml;yordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Keza; Hz. Muhammed&#8217;in Hz. Ai\u015fe ile evlili\u011fi 622 y\u0131l\u0131 sonu veya 623 y\u0131l\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda Medine&#8217;de olmu\u015ftu. Hz. Muhammed ile evlendi\u011finde Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin ya\u015f\u0131 6 veya 9 nas\u0131l olurdu? Ki; k\u0131z\u0131 Hz. Fat\u0131ma ile ayn\u0131 ya\u015fta oldu\u011fu belirtiliyor ki, o halde evlendi\u011finde Hz. Ai\u015fe&#8217;nin ya\u015f\u0131 en az 19-20 olmas\u0131 en do\u011frusuydu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bir ekleme yapmal\u0131y\u0131m:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kad\u0131n\u0131n koca evinden kovulmas\u0131, ni\u015fan\u0131n\u0131n ve nik&acirc;h\u0131n\u0131n bozulmas\u0131 o d&ouml;nem b&uuml;y&uuml;k leke say\u0131l\u0131yordu. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 cahiliye d&ouml;nemi yobazl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan kurtarmak isteyen Hz. Muhammed, ya\u015fam\u0131yla ve uygun yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131yla da topluma &ouml;rnek olmu\u015ftu. Hz. Ai\u015fe ile evlenmesinin bir sebebi de bu sosyal yaray\u0131 tamire y&ouml;nelik bulunuyordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hz. Muhammed, kocas\u0131 &ouml;l&uuml;nce ortada kalan ve akrabalar\u0131n\u0131n ancak M&uuml;sl&uuml;manl\u0131ktan d&ouml;nmesi halinde evlerine kabul edecekleri \u015fart ko\u015fulan 54 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Sevde bint Zem ile de bu nedenle evleniyordu&hellip;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Sava\u015f dullar\u0131 olan 60 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Zeynep bint Huzeyme, 45 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki &Uuml;mm&uuml; Seleme ve 44 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Reyhane bint Zeyd&rsquo;i de bu sebeple nik&acirc;h\u0131na ve korumas\u0131na al\u0131yordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">(Peygamberimiz) Hz. Muhammed, toplumu her y&ouml;n&uuml;yle ileriye do\u011fru olgunla\u015ft\u0131ran, onurlu ve \u015fuurlu bir seviye kazanmalar\u0131na &ouml;nc&uuml;l&uuml;k yapan, her konuda b&acirc;t\u0131l\u0131 (yanl\u0131\u015f ve hay\u0131rs\u0131z olan\u0131) kald\u0131r\u0131p Hakk\u0131 (do\u011fru ve yararl\u0131 olan\u0131) yerle\u015ftirmekle g&ouml;revli de\u011fi\u015fimci ve devrimci bir ruh ta\u015f\u0131yordu; 14 as\u0131r sonra bile h&acirc;l&acirc; anla\u015f\u0131lamamas\u0131 ise y&uuml;reklerimizi ac\u0131t\u0131yordu.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Zaten &ccedil;o\u011fu kimsenin maalesef anlamak gibi bir aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 da yoktu, onlar rant pe\u015finde ko\u015fuyordu. Bu &uuml;lkede hurafenin, dinden g&uuml;&ccedil;l&uuml; olmas\u0131n\u0131n hepimizi d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nd&uuml;rmesi gerekiyordu.&rdquo;[3]<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 17pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr style=\"text-align: left;\" size=\"1\" width=\"33%\" \/>\n<p style=\"text-indent: 0cm;\"><a href=\"#ftnref1\" id=\"ftn1\" style=\"vertical-align: super;\">[1]<\/a> Fatih Orum &ndash; &ldquo;Kur&#8217;an ve Gelene\u011fe G&ouml;re K&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;klerin Evlendirilmesi&rdquo; makalesi<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-indent: 0cm;\"><a href=\"#ftnref2\" id=\"ftn2\" style=\"vertical-align: super;\">[2]<\/a> www.kurandakiislam.net<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-indent: 0cm;\"><a href=\"#ftnref3\" id=\"ftn3\" style=\"vertical-align: super;\">[3]<\/a> Soner Yal&ccedil;\u0131n&rsquo;\u0131n yaz\u0131s\u0131, baz\u0131 ekleme ve d&uuml;zeltmelerle aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; K&Uuml;&Ccedil;&Uuml;K KIZ &Ccedil;OCUKLARININ EVLEND\u0130R\u0130LMES\u0130 SAPKINLI\u011eI! &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &ldquo;Ak\u0131l ile nakil (Ayet ve Hadislerin zahiri manalar\u0131) &ccedil;at\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, nakil; akla g&ouml;re te&rsquo;vil olunur&rdquo;, yani; akl\u0131n ve vicdan\u0131n esas al\u0131nmas\u0131 laz\u0131md\u0131r kural\u0131, \u0130mam-\u0131 Azam Ebu Hanife&rsquo;ye g&ouml;re de do\u011fru bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. \u015eimdi bu temel ve genel kurala ve insan f\u0131trat\u0131na (yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f tabiat\u0131na) ayk\u0131r\u0131 olarak 6-9-11&hellip; gibi &ccedil;ocuk, hatta [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6383],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-subat-2023"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11484\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}