{"id":3012,"date":"2014-09-08T14:22:09","date_gmt":"2014-09-08T14:22:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2014\/09\/08\/seytanin-icimizdeki-temsilcisi-veya-herkesin-gizli-yahudisi-nefis-2\/"},"modified":"2014-09-08T14:22:09","modified_gmt":"2014-09-08T14:22:09","slug":"seytanin-icimizdeki-temsilcisi-veya-herkesin-gizli-yahudisi-nefis-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/ozel-yazilar\/seytanin-icimizdeki-temsilcisi-veya-herkesin-gizli-yahudisi-nefis\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eEYTANIN \u0130\u00c7\u0130M\u0130ZDEK\u0130 TEMS\u0130LC\u0130S\u0130 VEYA HERKES\u0130N G\u0130ZL\u0130 YAHUD\u0130S\u0130: NEF\u0130S!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">\u015eEYTANIN \u0130\u00c7\u0130M\u0130ZDEK\u0130 TEMS\u0130LC\u0130S\u0130<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">VE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">HERKES\u0130N G\u0130ZL\u0130 YAHUD\u0130S\u0130: NEF\u0130S!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <br \/><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Y\u00fcce Mevl\u00e2, insan\u0131 hem toplum halinde ve sosyal bir d\u00fczen i\u00e7inde ya\u015fayacak ve birbirlerinin marifet ve meziyetlerinden yararlanacak bir f\u0131tratta yaratm\u0131\u015f; hem de ki\u015filik haklar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u015fahsi hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrce koruyup kullanacak bir istidatla donatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bireylerin kendi benli\u011fini ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan fark edici \u00f6zellik ve h\u00fcrriyetini temsil eden ve onu mesuliyet alt\u0131na iten \u00f6zg\u00fcn \u015fahsiyetine NEF\u0130S tabir olunmaktad\u0131r. Bu NEF\u0130S&rsquo;lerimiz hem \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven kayna\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, hem de imtihan arac\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Nefsinin keyfi ve zalim arzular\u0131na kap\u0131lanlar hayvanl\u0131k hatta \u015feytanl\u0131k derecesine yuvarlanacak, onu disiplinize edip dizginleyen ve s\u00fcrekli e\u011fitip hayra hizmet ettirenler ise olgun ve onurlu insan mertebesine y\u00fckselmi\u015f olacakt\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck; nefsi ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131klardan, d\u00fcnyevi tutkulardan ve ideolojik saplant\u0131lar\u0131ndan kurtulmu\u015f olmakt\u0131r. Hayvani ve \u015fehvani duygular\u0131n k\u00f6lesi ve basit korkular\u0131n ve arzular\u0131n esiri olanlar; insani h\u00fcrriyet ve haysiyetin tad\u0131na asla varamayacak, bunlara t\u00fcm demokratik imk\u00e2nlar\u0131n ve temel insan haklar\u0131n\u0131n sunulmas\u0131 da hi\u00e7bir i\u015fe yaramayacakt\u0131r. Bu ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve olgunlu\u011fa ula\u015fanlar, \u015fuurlu ve uyan\u0131k insanlard\u0131r. B\u00f6ylesi uyan\u0131k ve ayd\u0131nl\u0131k bir insan, uykudaki bir alay kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131 uyand\u0131rmaya yeterli olacakt\u0131r. Bizim referans kayna\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, inanc\u0131m\u0131z ve vicdan\u0131m\u0131z olursa, akl\u0131m\u0131z asla \u015fa\u015fmayacakt\u0131r. \u0130ster tabanca mermisi, ister top g\u00fcllesi, ister atom f\u00fczesi kullans\u0131n ve isterse tebli\u011f makalesi yazs\u0131n; insan hedefini do\u011fru saptamad\u0131ktan, iyi ni\u015fan almad\u0131ktan ve namluya do\u011fru mermi koymad\u0131ktan sonra, s\u00fcrekli karavana s\u0131kacak ve bo\u015funa \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Nefsin mertebeleri vard\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Emm\u00e2re Nefis: Hep k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckleri emreden ve k\u00fcfre s\u00fcr\u00fckleyen nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Bu nefse sahip olanlar, birazc\u0131k nimet veya zahmet i\u00e7in h\u0131rs ve \u00f6fkelerini yenemediklerinden, herkese sald\u0131rabilen, hatta katledebilen insanlard\u0131r. \u015eeytan, kendilerinin dostu ve y\u00f6neticisi olmu\u015f, \u015fehvet ve enaniyetle doldurmu\u015f, \u015f\u00fcphe ve kuruntu ile onlar\u0131 azg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. H\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k, iftira, yalanc\u0131l\u0131k, i\u00e7ki, kumar, zina, cinsi sapk\u0131nl\u0131k ve dedikoduya dalm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. \u0130manlar\u0131 lafta kald\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, zerre kadar Allah&#8217;tan korkmazlar. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n ge\u00e7ici meta\u0131n\u0131 ve nefsi arzular\u0131n\u0131 tanr\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Bunlar s\u00fcrekli k\u00e2firlerin, zalimlerin ve hainlerin saf\u0131nda yer almaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Levv\u00e2me Nefis: K\u00f6t\u00fc y\u00f6nlerini g\u00f6ren ve eksiklikleri ile y\u00fczle\u015fen nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Kendini k\u0131nayan, ay\u0131playan, haks\u0131zl\u0131k ve ahl\u00e2ks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan rahats\u0131zl\u0131k duyan nefis<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> demektir. Gaflet uykusundan uyanarak ger\u00e7ekleri fark eden, i\u015fledi\u011fi g\u00fcnahlardan dolay\u0131 pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duyan ve t\u00f6vbe etmeye ba\u015flayan nefsin durumudur. Emm\u00e2re Nefis&#8217;teki k\u00f6t\u00fc ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr s\u0131fatlar, Levv\u00e2me Nefis&#8217;te de mevcuttur, ama bu k\u00f6t\u00fc halinin fark\u0131ndad\u0131r ve kurtulma arzusu uyanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bazen ruhi ve melek\u00ee kuvvetleri hissederek Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131p ibadet eder ve b\u00f6ylece do\u011fru yola girer, bazen de Emm\u00e2re Nefis&#8217;in etkisinde kalarak isyan eder, g\u00fcnah i\u015fler. Sonunda da pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duyarak t\u00f6vbe eder. Yani bir bocalama d\u00f6nemindedir. H\u00e2l\u00e2 k\u00fcf\u00fcr ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ehlinin yan\u0131ndad\u0131r, ama iyilere de hak verilmekte ve \u00f6zenti duyulmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">M\u00fclhime Nefis: \u0130yilik ve istikamete y\u00f6nlendirilen nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">&ldquo;\u0130lham alan nefis&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> anlam\u0131na gelir. \u0130lham ise, Allah taraf\u0131ndan kalbe gelen mana, sezgi, do\u011fu\u015f demektir. Hikmet ehline g\u00f6re M\u00fclhime Nefis&#8217;in s\u0131fatlar\u0131; ilim, do\u011fruluk, tevazu, gayret, c\u00f6mertlik, sab\u0131r ve \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr&#8217;d\u00fcr. Bu s\u0131fatlar\u0131 her kim kazanm\u0131\u015f ise, M\u00fclhime Nefis basama\u011f\u0131na y\u00fckselir. Manevi ikram, ihsan ve yard\u0131ma mazhar olarak ilham almaya ba\u015flar. Bakara 216: <strong><em>&#8220;&#8230; Allah bilir, siz bilmezsiniz&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> ayetinin de belirtti\u011fi gibi neyin iyi neyin k\u00f6t\u00fc, neyin iman neyin k\u00fcf\u00fcr, neyin nank\u00f6rl\u00fck neyin \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr oldu\u011funu, Cenab-\u0131 Hak kullar\u0131na ilham ile hissettirmektedir. Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131, nefsin iyili\u011fe y\u00f6nelmesinden sonra ilham\u0131 da melekleri vas\u0131tas\u0131yla yapmaktad\u0131r. Fussilet 30-31: <strong><em>&#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">\u015e\u00fcphesiz: &lsquo;Bizim Rabbimiz Allah&#8217;t\u0131r&rsquo; deyip sonra dosdo\u011fru bir istikamet tutturanlar(a gelince); i\u015fte onlar\u0131n \u00fczerine (hayatlar\u0131 boyunca ve \u00f6l\u00fcm an\u0131nda teselli ve teskin edici) melekler s\u00fcrekli inecek ve: &lsquo;Korkmay\u0131n ve h\u00fczne kap\u0131lmay\u0131n, size va&rsquo;ad olunan cennetle m\u00fcjdelenip sevinin&rsquo; diyeceklerdir. &lsquo;Ki Biz, d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131nda da, ahirette de sizin velileriniz\u00a0(ve manevi destek\u00e7ileriniziz)&rsquo;&hellip;<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8220;<\/em><\/strong> B\u00f6ylece kulun, ilham almak suretiyle iman\u0131 ve ilmi yava\u015f yava\u015f artar ve iyi \u00f6zellik ve s\u0131fatlarla donanmaya ba\u015flar. Art\u0131k iyilerin ve iman ehlinin taraf\u0131nda saf tutmaktad\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Mutma\u00eenne Nefis: M\u00fc&rsquo;min, m\u00fcstakim ve tatmin olan nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">\u0130\u00e7i rahata ve kesin kanaate varm\u0131\u015f, \u015f\u00fcpheleri kalmam\u0131\u015f, hakikati anlayarak tatmine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f nefis <\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">demektir. Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131ndan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilhamlar neticesi \u0130lahi \u0131\u015f\u0131kla ayd\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015f; Emm\u00e2re Nefis&#8217;in s\u0131fatlar\u0131 olan \u015firk, zul\u00fcm, k\u00fcf\u00fcr, yalanc\u0131l\u0131k, \u015fehvetperestlik, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 ve ta\u011futlar\u0131 tanr\u0131 edinme, alayc\u0131l\u0131k, kibir, cimrilik, haset, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, ihanet, \u00f6fke gibi k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u0131fatlar\u0131 tamam\u0131yla terk etmi\u015f, iman\u0131 y\u00fccelmi\u015f ve takva ahl\u00e2k\u0131 olan \u0130lahi \u00f6zelliklere b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f kimsedir. Fetih 4: <strong><em>&#8220;Allah, imanlar\u0131na iman kats\u0131nlar diye, m\u00fc&#8217;minlerin g\u00f6n\u00fcllerine huzur ve mutluluk indirdi&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> ayetinin m\u00fcjdesine ermi\u015flerdir. Mertebesi y\u00fckselerek iman\u0131 y\u00fccelen kullarda, tela\u015f ve endi\u015fenin yerini huzur ve g\u00fcven duygusu al\u0131vermi\u015ftir. Rad 28: <strong><em>&#8220;&hellip;G\u00f6n\u00fcller ancak Allah&#8217;\u0131 anmakla mutmain olur&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> ayetinin hakikati ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015ftir. \u0130slam&rsquo;\u0131n ve mazlumlar\u0131n u\u011frunda m\u00fccadele etmektedir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Raziyye Nefis: Y\u00fcksek \u015fuura ve manevi huzura ermi\u015f nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Raz\u0131 olan, memnun olan, her t\u00fcrl\u00fc itiraz ve isyandan uzakla\u015fan nefis<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> demektir. Bu y\u00fcce makam sad\u0131k m\u00fc&rsquo;min ve m\u00fccahitlerin, ilmiyle \u00e2mil \u00e2limlerin ve velilerin mertebesidir. Mutma\u00eenne Nefis&rsquo;te tam bir g\u00fcven i\u00e7inde olan kul; kadere ve her t\u00fcrl\u00fc olu\u015f s\u0131rlar\u0131na tam r\u0131za g\u00f6sterir, her \u015feyin Allah&#8217;tan geldi\u011finin ger\u00e7e\u011fi ile felaketleri de mutluluklar\u0131 da ayn\u0131 zevk i\u00e7inde ya\u015far. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her olu\u015f; bir gizli hikmetin neticesidir, iman etmi\u015f kulun da hayr\u0131 ve mutlulu\u011fu i\u00e7indir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">\u0130\u015fte bu mertebelere \u00fcst\u00fcn bir gayret ve samimiyetle ve ancak hidayetle eri\u015ftirilir. Cenab-\u0131 Allah kulunu isterse bu makama getirir. \u015eura 13: <strong><em>&#8220;&#8230; Allah diledi\u011fini Kendine se\u00e7er&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> ayeti bunu haber verir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">&ldquo;Kimisi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nm\u0131\u015f (ama niyeti halis, ameli salih olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan) bo\u015fa yorulmu\u015ftur.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> (\u011ea\u015fiye: 3)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">&ldquo;Kimileri de (samimi, s\u00fcrekli ve teslimiyetli) \u00e7abalar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 raz\u0131 ve ho\u015fnuttur&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> (\u011ea\u015fiye: 9) ayetleri bu ger\u00e7e\u011fe i\u015faret etmektedir. Gafil ve cahil kimselerin dostlu\u011fu veya d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, taraftarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya aleyhtarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 art\u0131k bunlar\u0131 ilgilendirmemektedir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Marziyye Nefis: Hakk\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 ve halk\u0131n duas\u0131n\u0131 hak etmi\u015f nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Kendisinden raz\u0131 olunan, memnun k\u0131l\u0131nan, Allah&rsquo;\u0131n ho\u015fnutlu\u011funa, vahdet \u015fuuruna ve huzuruna ula\u015fan nefis<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> demektir. R\u0131za mertebesindeki m\u00fc&rsquo;min, b\u00fct\u00fcn i\u015flerinde Allah&#8217;\u0131n yasalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7tenlikle ve samimiyetle uygularsa ve art\u0131k tam bir tevekk\u00fcl ve teslimiyete kavu\u015farak, zahiri ve b\u00e2t\u0131ni (siyasi ve nefsi) cihad\u0131nda zaferi kazan\u0131rsa; Cenab-\u0131 Allah&#8217;\u0131n l\u00fctuf ve ihsan\u0131 ile Marziyye makam\u0131na y\u00fckselir. Kul; Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131ndan raz\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, Cenab-\u0131 Allah da kulundan raz\u0131 olur. Cenab-\u0131 Hak ile kulunun birbirinden memnun olmas\u0131, o kul i\u00e7in ne b\u00fcy\u00fck bir eri\u015f ve mutluluk kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Kul; Allah&#8217;ta fani olmu\u015f, irade tekle\u015fip vahdet ve emniyet bulmu\u015f, tamamen iman ve iyilikle dolmu\u015f, ikilik ve farkl\u0131l\u0131k kaybolmu\u015f, k\u00fcf\u00fcr ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten kurtulmu\u015ftur. <strong><em>&ldquo;\u00c2lemlerin Rabbi olan Allah dilemedik\u00e7e, siz dileyemezsiniz!&rdquo;<\/em><\/strong> (Tekvir: 29) hakikatiyle bulu\u015fmu\u015ftur.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">K\u00e2mile Nefis: Akli dolgunlu\u011fa ve ahl\u00e2ki olgunlu\u011fa yeti\u015fmi\u015f nefis!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Kem\u00e2le erip hakikate varm\u0131\u015f, \u015firk ve \u015fekavetten tam ar\u0131nm\u0131\u015f nefis<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> demektir. Bu makama Safiyye ve S\u00e2liha Nefis de denir. K\u00e2mile Nefis sahipleri, nefsin basamaklar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7ip en \u00fcst dereceye gelmi\u015f se\u00e7kin Ruh mertebesindedir. Bu mertebe peygamberlerin, s\u0131dd\u0131klar\u0131n, \u015fehitlerin ve salihlerin nefsidir. Kendi be\u015feri zafiyetleri silinmi\u015f, Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u0131n inayetiyle iradesine girilmi\u015ftir. Di\u011fer velilerde k\u0131s\u0131m k\u0131s\u0131m bulunan \u00f6zellikleri \u015fahs\u0131nda birle\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. Cenab-\u0131 Allah taraf\u0131ndan insanlara g\u00f6nderilen \u0130lahi bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k gibidir, o her zaman iyilik ve ihsanda bulunma halindedir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Siyonist Yahudiler, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n <em>&ldquo;nefsi emmaresi&rdquo;<\/em> konumundad\u0131r:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">B\u00fct\u00fcn be\u015feriyeti (t\u00fcm insan neslini) tek bir bedene benzetirsek, bunun nefsi emmaresi (k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ve nank\u00f6rl\u00fck hissi): Siyonist, hain ve hilek\u00e2r Yahudilerdir. Bu nedenle Cenab-\u0131 Hak, Kur&rsquo;an-\u0131 Kerim&rsquo;inde hem \u015feytan\u0131 &ldquo;a\u00e7\u0131k ve tehlikeli bir d\u00fc\u015fman&rdquo;, hem de Yahudi&rsquo;yi m\u00fc&rsquo;minlere &ldquo;en \u015fiddetli ve sinsi bir d\u00fc\u015fman&rdquo; olarak tan\u0131tmas\u0131 dikkat \u00e7ekicidir.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Size \u00e7ok canl\u0131 ve a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u00f6rnek vereyim: L\u00fctfen kitap\u00e7\u0131larda \u00e7ok rahatl\u0131kla bulabilece\u011finiz &ldquo;Kitab\u0131 Mukaddes&rdquo;, Tevrat ve Talmud k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z&hellip;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Tekvin; Bab: 19, Ayet: 30-38<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Ne\u015fideler Ne\u015fidesi; Bab: 7-8, Ayet: 1-10<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">II. Samuel; Bab: 13, Ayet: 12-14<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Ho\u015fea; Bab: 4, Ayet: 14<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Tekvin; Bab: 29, Ayet: 21-30<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Ne\u015fideler; Bab: 4, Ayet: 8-12 b\u00f6l\u00fcmlerine bak\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Kutsal kitap diye, tahrif edilen (dejenere edilip de\u011fi\u015ftirilen) \u0130ncil ve Tevrat&rsquo;\u0131n i\u00e7erisinde:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong> <em>Anne, baba, bac\u0131 ve karde\u015fle, aile i\u00e7i sap\u0131k cinsi ili\u015fkilerin nas\u0131l te\u015fvik edildi\u011fini,<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong> <em>K\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n ve kar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n para kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda veya sosyal stat\u00fc hat\u0131r\u0131na nas\u0131l pe\u015fke\u015f \u00e7ekildi\u011fini,<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><em>Kad\u0131n ve erkeklerin, hayvanlarla ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarla ahl\u00e2ks\u0131z cinsi m\u00fcnasebetlerine nas\u0131l izin verildi\u011fini,<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>\u00a0 <em>Ve b\u00fct\u00fcn bu \u015feytaniyet ve azg\u0131n \u015fehvetlerin nas\u0131l, h\u00e2\u015f\u00e2 Allah&rsquo;\u0131n kel\u00e2m\u0131 diye \u00f6\u011fretildi\u011fini okuyup, Siyonist Yahudilerin ve onlar\u0131n g\u00fcd\u00fcm\u00fcndeki Bozuk Bat\u0131 Medeniyetinin ahl\u00e2k ve anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z.<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Bunlar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan:<\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> Sabataist k\u00f6kenli (Yahudi d\u00f6nmesi) ve sosyalist fikirli yazar Ahmet Altan&rsquo;\u0131n&hellip; Koyu AKP destek\u00e7isi, demokrasi havarisi Ahmet Altan&rsquo;\u0131n&hellip; Siyasi amac\u0131 AB u\u015fakl\u0131\u011f\u0131; stratejik kutsal\u0131 ABD ve \u0130srail a\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan Ahmet Altan&rsquo;\u0131n; 1985 y\u0131l\u0131nda, ayl\u0131k &ldquo;Kad\u0131nca&rdquo; dergisi Eyl\u00fcl say\u0131s\u0131nda yay\u0131nlanan bir r\u00f6portaj\u0131nda:<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: Symbol;\"> <br \/><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><em>Ensest (aile i\u00e7i; bac\u0131 karde\u015flerin cinsel) ili\u015fkileri nas\u0131l onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131,<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong> <em>Hayvanlarla ve \u00e7ocuklarla cinsi sap\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l normal kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131,<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong> <em>Ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131nlardan ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131,<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong> <em>Kad\u0131nlarda &ldquo;fahi\u015felik e\u011filimi&rdquo; olmas\u0131n\u0131 bir \u00e7a\u011fda\u015fla\u015fma al\u00e2meti sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 okuyunca bu sap\u0131kl\u0131k ve sa\u00e7mal\u0131klar\u0131n &ldquo;Kitab-\u0131 Mukaddes&rdquo;den kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131na varacak; ve o zaman, niye Siyonist ve Sabataist Yahudi&rsquo;nin be\u015feriyetin nefsi emmaresi konumunda oldu\u011funu anlayacaks\u0131n\u0131z&hellip;<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">\u015eimdi gelin, <em>&ldquo;Biz kimiz?&rdquo; ve &ldquo;\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde hangi nefis mertebesindeyiz?&rdquo;<\/em> sorusunu yan\u0131tlamaya ve kendimizi tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Ki\u015fi kendini tan\u0131mak; k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131p, iyiliklere al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakla m\u00fckelleftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc; <em>&ldquo;Nefsini bilen, Rabbini de bilecektir.&rdquo;<\/em> Herkes kendi bedeninde ve benli\u011finde tezah\u00fcr ve tecelli eden Rahmani-vicdani duygular\u0131 ve \u015feytani d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri fark ederek, Hakka (do\u011fruya ve hay\u0131rl\u0131ya) t\u00e2bi olup, b\u00e2t\u0131l&#8217;a (yanl\u0131\u015fa ve zararl\u0131ya) tepki g\u00f6sterip terk etmedik\u00e7e, olgunluk mertebesine eri\u015femeyecektir. \u0130\u015fte a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki sorular\u0131n yan\u0131tlar\u0131, kendi ayar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yans\u0131tan verilerdir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">1- \u0130li\u015fkilerinizde neye \u00f6nem verirsiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">a) \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerimde; siyasi ve iktisadi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131m\u0131, \u00fcst\u00fcn sosyal stat\u00fc ve s\u0131fat\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6zellikle g\u00f6zetirim.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">b) Herkesin temel insan haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyar, ili\u015fkilerimde imani ve insani \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclere \u00f6ncelik veririm.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> <br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">c) De\u011fi\u015fen durumlara ve o anki ruh d\u00fcnyama uygun hareket ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">d) Her hal\u00fck\u00e2rda, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 kendime tercih eden duygusal birisiyim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">2- Dostlardan ve genelde hayattan ne beklersiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">a) Daha rahat ve konforlu ya\u015famak, \u015f\u00f6hret ve etiket sahibi olmak ve dostluklar\u0131 buna g\u00f6re olu\u015fturmak isterim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">b) As\u0131l gayem ve gayretim, ahiret hayat\u0131 ve Allah r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7indir. \u0130li\u015fkilerimde Kur&rsquo;ani ve vicdani esaslar ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">c) \u0130nsani ve \u0130slami ama\u00e7lar g\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc g\u00f6sterir ama nefsi ve d\u00fcnyevi hesaplar g\u00fcderim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">d) \u0130yi niyetimi ve safiyetimi herkes istismar eder, kullan\u0131l\u0131r ve bir kenara itilirim.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">3- En \u00e7ok nelere \u00fcz\u00fclmektesiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) Bana yaras\u0131n diye, emek verdi\u011fim ki\u015filerin nank\u00f6rl\u00fck etmesine ve ayr\u0131l\u0131p gitmesine \u00e7ok i\u00e7erlerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) \u00c7evremdekilerin Hak&rsquo;tan ve hay\u0131rdan ayr\u0131lmas\u0131na, manevi zarara ve israfa u\u011framas\u0131na teess\u00fcf ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) \u0130\u00e7imden: &ldquo;Bana yarar\u0131 devam ediyorsa, d\u00fcnyas\u0131 da ahireti de y\u0131k\u0131ls\u0131n, bo\u015f ver!&rdquo; derim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n derdine yanmaktan ve problemleriyle u\u011fra\u015fmaktan, kendimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye f\u0131rsat bulamayan bir psikolojiye sahibim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">4- Arkada\u015f veya aile \u00e7evresinde konu\u015fkan bir ki\u015fi misiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve tecr\u00fcbelerime g\u00fcvendi\u011fim i\u00e7in, onlar\u0131 her f\u0131rsatta \u00e7evremdekilere aktarmam gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve sonu\u00e7ta bir toplulukta en \u00e7ok konu\u015fan ki\u015fi ben olurum.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) Beni dinleyen kimselerle konu\u015fmaktan ho\u015flan\u0131r\u0131m, fakat konu\u015ftu\u011fum kadar dinlemeye de \u00f6nem veririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Moralim d\u00fczg\u00fcnse, insanlarla sohbet etmekten \u00e7ok ho\u015flan\u0131r\u0131m. Fakat s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131ysam, a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7ak a\u00e7maz birisiyim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n fikirlerine, kendiminkinden daha \u00e7ok \u00f6nem verdi\u011fim i\u00e7in; konu\u015fmaktan \u00e7ok, dinlemeyi tercih ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">5- Konu\u015furken veya dinlerken kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki kimsenin g\u00f6zlerine bakabilir misiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) Konu\u015furken kar\u015f\u0131mdakinin g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakar ve kar\u015f\u0131mdaki de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde davranmazsa \u00e7ok sinirlenirim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) Kar\u015f\u0131mdakine sevgiyle ve g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek bakarak, dinledi\u011fimi belli etmeye \u00f6zen g\u00f6steririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Kendimi iyi hissetmiyorsam, dikkatim da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k olur; ne kadar istesem de kar\u015f\u0131mdakini ilgiyle dinleyemem, bu da bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131mdan kendimi ele verir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Ben konu\u015furken kar\u015f\u0131mdakine pek fazla bakamam, fakat kar\u015f\u0131mdakini dinlerken bakmaya gayret ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">6- Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla bir yerde bulu\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z, fakat arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00f6z verdi\u011fi saatte gelmediyse, nas\u0131l bir tepki verirsiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) B\u00f6yle bir hususta mazeret kabul etmez, yeteri kadar \u00f6nem vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ge\u00e7 geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6zle de dile getiririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) \u00d6nce arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 bekler, ge\u00e7 kalma sebebine g\u00f6re tepki g\u00f6steririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Genellikle fazla mesele etmem, fakat s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131ysam b\u00f6yle bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ilk anda k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 belli ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Sebep ne olursa olsun, kar\u015f\u0131mdakinin \u00fcz\u00fclmesini istemem ve ona teselli veririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">7- \u00c7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yerdeki i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z o g\u00fcn olduk\u00e7a durgunsa, bunu nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirirsiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n bana kar\u015f\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir tav\u0131r olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, fakat fazla \u00fczerinde durmamay\u0131 ye\u011flerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) Arkada\u015f\u0131mla uygun bir ortamda yaln\u0131z olarak konu\u015fup, bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye y\u00f6nelirim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) \u00c7evremdekilerin durgun veya ne\u015feli olup olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 pek fark etmem ve ilgilenmem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131 \u00fczecek bir \u015fey yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek beni \u00e7ok etkiler. Bunu do\u011frudan da soramaz, \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in de\u011fi\u015fik yollar denerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">8- Kom\u015funuzdan uygunsuz bir saatte g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc geliyorsa, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dakilerden hangisini yapmay\u0131 tercih edersiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) Hemen kap\u0131s\u0131na gider ve bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u00e2d\u00e2b-\u0131 mua\u015feret kurallar\u0131na hi\u00e7 uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) G\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 de\u011filse, o g\u00fcn tahamm\u00fcl eder, daha sonra kom\u015fumla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde sohbet aras\u0131nda rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumu uygun bir \u015fekilde dile getiririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Genellikle ba\u015f\u0131m \u00e7ok a\u011fr\u0131r ve g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcye tahamm\u00fcl edemem. Bunun i\u00e7in de kap\u0131s\u0131na gider ve kibar bir dille rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6ylerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Kom\u015fumu \u00fczmek istemedi\u011fimden, g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcden rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumu belli etmeden sabrederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">9- Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z sizi bir hususta ele\u015ftirdi\u011finde ne hissedersiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) \u0130nsanlar beni genellikle haks\u0131z yere ele\u015ftirir. Bu beni \u00e7ok \u00f6fkelendirir. Ne yapal\u0131m meyveli a\u011fa\u00e7 ta\u015flan\u0131r. Zaten kimse beni \u00e7ekememektedir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) \u00d6nce arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n hakl\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcm. Yerinde ele\u015ftiriyse hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler, o davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeye gayret ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Bana y\u00f6neltilen ele\u015ftirilere g\u00f6re tepkim de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Bu ele\u015ftirilerin niyetine, hedefine, tamire mi yoksa tahribe mi y\u00f6neldi\u011fine g\u00f6re tepki veririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">10- Sevdi\u011finiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za veya yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 olan sevginizi, ona s\u00f6yler misiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) S\u00f6ylemeyi tercih ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) F\u0131rsat buldu\u011fumda sevdi\u011fimi s\u00f6ylemek isterim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Bazen s\u00f6ylerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) \u0130stesem de s\u00f6yleyemem, bundan \u00e7ekinirim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">11- Bir tart\u0131\u015fma esnas\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zler sarf eder misiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) Ben neysem oyum, gerekti\u011fi zaman gerekeni s\u00f6ylerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) K\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmamaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6steririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) K\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmak istemem, fakat genellikle kendimi tutamay\u0131p hakaret ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Kesinlikle k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmam, bundan tiksinirim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">12- S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 zaman\u0131n\u0131zda bunu \u00e7evrenizdekilerle nas\u0131l payla\u015fmay\u0131 tercih edersiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">a) S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7imde saklayamam, arkada\u015flar\u0131ma rahatl\u0131kla s\u00f6ylerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">b) \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulabilece\u011fine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve s\u0131r tutabilecek yak\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131mla dertle\u015firim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">c) Ancak \u0131srar edildi\u011finde s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 payla\u015fabilirim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">d) Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u011fr\u0131tmak yerine, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7imde saklamay\u0131 ye\u011flerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">13- Uzun zamand\u0131r g\u00f6rmedi\u011finiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za bir toplant\u0131da rastlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, nas\u0131l hareket edersiniz?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">a) &ldquo;Hi\u00e7 dost dostu bu kadar uzun zamand\u0131r aramaz m\u0131?&rdquo; diye sitem ederim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">b) Sevgiyle kucaklar, onu ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6zlemi\u015f oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6ylerim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">c) Tepkim kar\u015f\u0131mdaki ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">d) Uzun zamand\u0131r onu arayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp mahcup olur, mazeretlerimi bildiririm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">De\u011ferlendirme<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; border: 1pt solid windowtext; padding: 0cm;\"><span>\u00a0<\/span>A <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">\u0130nsanlarla ili\u015fkilerinizde, hep kendi dedi\u011finizin olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsunuz. Sizin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n daima ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131nkinden \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor ve bunu s\u00fcrekli \u00e7evrenizdekilere kabul ettirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz. Say\u0131l\u0131 ki\u015filer d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u00e7evrenizdekileri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmser \u015fekilde hareketleriniz, herkesin m\u00fckemmel \u015fekilde davranmalar\u0131n\u0131 beklemeniz, onlar\u0131 sizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor ve yaln\u0131z kal\u0131yorsunuz. Daha ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olursan\u0131z, inan\u0131n daha mutlu olacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; border: 1pt solid windowtext; padding: 0cm;\"><span>\u00a0<\/span>B <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">Siz \u00e7evrenizdekilere de\u011fer veren bir kimsesiniz. \u00c7evrenizdekilere s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 zamanlar\u0131nda yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor ve onlardan da gerekti\u011finde yard\u0131m alabiliyorsunuz. E\u011fer kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki de sizin gibi davran\u0131rsa, insanlarla ili\u015fkilerinizin olumsuz gitmesi i\u00e7in ortada bir neden g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fcyor. \u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fim kurarken beden dilinizden maksimum derecede yararlan\u0131yorsunuz. Size kar\u015f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f bir hareket yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bunun yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmadan kaynaklanabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor ve d\u00fczeltme yoluna gidiyorsunuz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n temelinde yatan sebepleri g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne almay\u0131 ihmal etmiyorsunuz. \u0130nsanlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131l\u0131 davranmamaya gayret ediyorsunuz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; border: 1pt solid windowtext; padding: 0cm;\"><span>\u00a0<\/span>C <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">Siz olduk\u00e7a de\u011fi\u015fken yap\u0131ya sahip bir kimsesiniz. Sizin insanlarla ileti\u015fiminiz tamamen ruh halinize ba\u011fl\u0131. E\u011fer bir g\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131ysan\u0131z veya sizi \u00fczen bir olay olmu\u015fsa, bunu y\u00fcz hatlar\u0131n\u0131z ve hareketlerinizle o kadar \u00e7ok ortaya koyuyorsunuz ki, \u00e7evrenizdekiler sizi \u00fczecek bir \u015fey yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp duruyor ve huzursuz oluyorlar. Ne\u015feli oldu\u011funuzda da ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00e7evrenizdekilerle ileti\u015fiminize bunu yans\u0131t\u0131yorsunuz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; border: 1pt solid windowtext; padding: 0cm;\"><span>\u00a0<\/span>D <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif; color: #000000;\">\u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fiminizde fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 o kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6n planda tutuyorsunuz ki, bunda a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya var\u0131p; kendi duygu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve isteklerinizden \u00e7ok fazla taviz veriyorsunuz. H\u00e2lbuki hem insanlarla iyi ge\u00e7inip hem de do\u011fru bildi\u011finiz \u015fekilde davranmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Yeter ki siz kendinizi ifade etmeye gayret edin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Haydi, kendimizi bilelim!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">&ldquo;Nefsini bilen, Rabbini bilir&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> Hadisini \u0130bn Arabi (R.A) \u015f\u00f6yle izah etmi\u015ftir: <em>&ldquo;Her insanda, ayr\u0131 bir &lsquo;\u0130lahi \u0130sim&rsquo; daha fazla tecelli etmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan, ancak bu \u0130smin tecellisi kadar\u0131nca nefsini bilecektir.&rdquo;<\/em> Yani bu \u0130lahi \u0130smin tezah\u00fcr\u00fc oran\u0131nda imana ve irfana eri\u015fecektir. Rabbin Z\u00e2t&#8217;\u0131n\u0131 idrak etmek, zaten m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bu nedenle Z\u00e2t&#8217;\u0131n\u0131n tefekk\u00fcr\u00fc yasak edilmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan idraki, Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u0131n Z\u00e2t&#8217;\u0131n\u0131 fikretmekten acizdir&hellip;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Nefs, klasik Arap\u00e7ada ruh anlam\u0131nda kullan\u0131lagelmi\u015ftir. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczdeki kullan\u0131m\u0131 daha \u00e7ok, &#8216;ruh&#8217;tan farkl\u0131, \u00f6zerk bir olgu bi\u00e7imindedir. Nefsin \u00e7e\u015fitli mertebe ve merhalelerinden Kur&rsquo;an&#8217;da s\u00f6z edilmektedir. Hikmet ehli, insano\u011flunun yery\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00f6nderili\u015f amac\u0131n\u0131; bir terbiye ve tek\u00e2m\u00fcl sonucu, asli do\u011fas\u0131na yeniden ula\u015fma olarak de\u011ferlendirir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla insan\u0131n, d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6nderilmesi bir imtihan i\u00e7indir; e\u011fitim, ibadet ve m\u00fccadele ile olgunla\u015fmaya y\u00f6nelmelidir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">1- Nefs-i Emmare: Kin, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k, yalanc\u0131l\u0131k, nifak, isyan ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr \u00fczere olma halidir. Bunlardan kurtulmak \u00fczere insan\u0131n manevi bir seyr-\u00fc seyahate giri\u015fmesi, nefsin, Kur&rsquo;an&#8217;da belirtilen a\u015famalar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmesi gerekmektedir.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">2- Nefs-i Levvame: B\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden ka\u00e7\u0131nma y\u00f6n\u00fcnde bir duyarl\u0131l\u0131k ve pi\u015fmanl\u0131k halidir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">3. Nefs-i M\u00fclhime: Ki\u015fiye iyiliklerin ilham oldu\u011fu, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerini terk edilmeye koyuldu\u011fu bir ahl\u00e2k mertebesidir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">4- Ard\u0131ndan, imani ve insani doygunlu\u011fa yeti\u015fip, Rabbiyle huzur bulmu\u015f Mutmain Nefis d\u00fczeyine eri\u015fir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">5- Nihayet, Allah&rsquo;\u0131n her h\u00fckm\u00fcnde ve takdirinde hikmet ve ibret aray\u0131p teslimiyet g\u00f6steren, ibadet ve istikamet \u00fczere R\u0131za makam\u0131na ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f halde Nefs-i Raziyye makam\u0131na gelecektir.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">6- Derken Marziyye makam\u0131nda, Allah o kuldan raz\u0131 olup se\u00e7mi\u015f demektir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">7- Ve Nefs-i K\u00e2mile, (olgun, huzurlu ve \u015fuurlu nefis), Allah&rsquo;\u0131n halifesi olarak insanlar\u0131 ir\u015fatla \u015fereflendirilmi\u015ftir. Bunlar toplumda g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc bar\u0131\u015f el\u00e7ileri ve hakikat davet\u00e7ileridir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><span><span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"> <br \/><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\">Uyar\u0131: Bu k\u0131sa ve \u00f6zl\u00fc testin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131, ki\u015filik ve karakterimizi aksettiren yakla\u015f\u0131k bir puanlama yerindedir, yani bizi tan\u0131tan bir ayna gibidir. Asla aynaya bakmaktan \u00e7ekinmemeli; kendimizi tan\u0131maya, eksiklerimizi tamamlamaya ve aksiliklerimizden kurtulmaya gayret etmelidir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Arial', sans-serif;\"><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u015eEYTANIN \u0130\u00c7\u0130M\u0130ZDEK\u0130 TEMS\u0130LC\u0130S\u0130 VE HERKES\u0130N G\u0130ZL\u0130 YAHUD\u0130S\u0130: NEF\u0130S! \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Y\u00fcce Mevl\u00e2, insan\u0131 hem toplum halinde ve sosyal bir d\u00fczen i\u00e7inde ya\u015fayacak ve birbirlerinin marifet ve meziyetlerinden yararlanacak bir f\u0131tratta yaratm\u0131\u015f; hem de ki\u015filik haklar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u015fahsi hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrce koruyup kullanacak bir istidatla donatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bireylerin kendi benli\u011fini ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan fark edici \u00f6zellik ve h\u00fcrriyetini [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[98],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3012","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ozel-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3012","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3012"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3012\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}