{"id":31628,"date":"2025-10-31T23:36:17","date_gmt":"2025-10-31T20:36:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/?p=31628"},"modified":"2025-11-01T00:15:06","modified_gmt":"2025-10-31T21:15:06","slug":"biz-kimiz-testi-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2025\/kasim-2025\/biz-kimiz-testi-3\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cB\u0130Z K\u0130M\u0130Z?\u201d TEST\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"31628\" class=\"elementor elementor-31628\" data-elementor-settings=\"{&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true}}\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a1a9936 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a1a9936\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-351d9e9\" data-id=\"351d9e9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f1ddc2e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f1ddc2e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u201cB\u0130Z K\u0130M\u0130Z?\u201d TEST\u0130<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-283f511 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"283f511\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-83beac1\" data-id=\"83beac1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-554fca1 satir-basi elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"554fca1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>\u015eimdi gelin, <em>\u201cBiz kimiz?\u201d ve \u201c\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde hangi nefis mertebesindeyiz?\u201d<\/em> sorusunu yan\u0131tlamaya ve kendimizi tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m:<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Ki\u015fi kendini tan\u0131mak; k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131p, iyiliklere al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakla m\u00fckelleftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc; <em>\u201cNefsini bilen, Rabbini de bilecektir.\u201d<\/em> Herkes kendi bedeninde ve benli\u011finde tezah\u00fcr ve tecelli eden Rahmani-vicdani duygular\u0131 ve \u015feytani d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri fark ederek, Hakka (do\u011fruya ve hay\u0131rl\u0131ya) t\u00e2bi olup, b\u00e2t\u0131la (yanl\u0131\u015fa ve zararl\u0131ya) tepki g\u00f6sterip terk etmedik\u00e7e, olgunluk mertebesine eri\u015femeyecektir. \u0130\u015fte a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki sorular\u0131n yan\u0131tlar\u0131, kendi ayar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yans\u0131tan verilerdir.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>1- \u0130li\u015fkilerinizde neye \u00f6nem verirsiniz?<\/strong><\/p><p>a) \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerimde; siyasi ve iktisadi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131m\u0131, \u00fcst\u00fcn sosyal stat\u00fc ve s\u0131fat\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6zellikle g\u00f6zetirim.<\/p><p>b) Herkesin temel insan haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyar, ili\u015fkilerimde imani ve insani \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclere \u00f6ncelik veririm.<\/p><p>c) De\u011fi\u015fen durumlara ve o anki ruh d\u00fcnyama uygun hareket ederim.<\/p><p>d) Her hal\u00fck\u00e2rda, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 kendime tercih eden duygusal birisiyim.<\/p><p><strong>2- Dostlardan ve genelde hayattan ne beklersiniz?<\/strong><\/p><p>a) Daha rahat ve konforlu ya\u015famak, \u015f\u00f6hret ve etiket sahibi olmak ve dostluklar\u0131 buna g\u00f6re olu\u015fturmak isterim.<\/p><p>b) As\u0131l gayem ve gayretim, ahiret hayat\u0131 ve Allah r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7indir. \u0130li\u015fkilerimde Kur\u2019ani ve vicdani esaslar ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p><p>c) \u0130nsani ve \u0130slami ama\u00e7lar g\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc g\u00f6sterir ama nefsi ve d\u00fcnyevi hesaplar g\u00fcderim.<\/p><p>d) \u0130yi niyetimi ve safiyetimi herkes istismar eder, kullan\u0131l\u0131r ve bir kenara itilirim.<\/p><p><strong>3- En \u00e7ok nelere \u00fcz\u00fclmektesiniz?<\/strong><\/p><p>a) Bana yaras\u0131n diye, emek verdi\u011fim ki\u015filerin nank\u00f6rl\u00fck etmesine ve ayr\u0131l\u0131p gitmesine \u00e7ok i\u00e7erlerim.<\/p><p>b) \u00c7evremdekilerin Hak\u2019tan ve hay\u0131rdan ayr\u0131lmas\u0131na, manevi zarara ve israfa u\u011framas\u0131na teess\u00fcf ederim.<\/p><p>c) \u0130\u00e7imden: \u201cBana yarar\u0131 devam ediyorsa, d\u00fcnyas\u0131 da ahireti de y\u0131k\u0131ls\u0131n, bo\u015f ver!\u201d derim.<\/p><p>d) Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n derdine yanmaktan ve problemleriyle u\u011fra\u015fmaktan, kendimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye f\u0131rsat bulamayan bir psikolojiye sahibim.<\/p><p><strong>4- Arkada\u015f veya aile \u00e7evresinde konu\u015fkan bir ki\u015fi misiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve tecr\u00fcbelerime g\u00fcvendi\u011fim i\u00e7in, onlar\u0131 her f\u0131rsatta \u00e7evremdekilere aktarmam gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve sonu\u00e7ta bir toplulukta en \u00e7ok konu\u015fan ki\u015fi ben olurum.<\/p><p>b) Beni dinleyen kimselerle konu\u015fmaktan ho\u015flan\u0131r\u0131m, fakat konu\u015ftu\u011fum kadar dinlemeye de \u00f6nem veririm.<\/p><p>c) Moralim d\u00fczg\u00fcnse, insanlarla sohbet etmekten \u00e7ok ho\u015flan\u0131r\u0131m. Fakat s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131ysam, a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7ak a\u00e7maz birisiyim.<\/p><p>d) Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n fikirlerine, kendiminkinden daha \u00e7ok \u00f6nem verdi\u011fim i\u00e7in; konu\u015fmaktan \u00e7ok, dinlemeyi tercih ederim.<\/p><p><strong>5- Konu\u015furken veya dinlerken kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki kimsenin g\u00f6zlerine bakabilir misiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) Konu\u015furken kar\u015f\u0131mdakinin g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakar ve kar\u015f\u0131mdaki de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde davranmazsa \u00e7ok sinirlenirim.<\/p><p>b) Kar\u015f\u0131mdakine sevgiyle ve g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek bakarak, dinledi\u011fimi belli etmeye \u00f6zen g\u00f6steririm.<\/p><p>c) Kendimi iyi hissetmiyorsam, dikkatim da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k olur; ne kadar istesem de kar\u015f\u0131mdakini ilgiyle dinleyemem, bu da bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131mdan kendimi ele verir.<\/p><p>d) Ben konu\u015furken kar\u015f\u0131mdakine pek fazla bakamam, fakat kar\u015f\u0131mdakini dinlerken bakmaya gayret ederim.<\/p><p><strong>6- Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla bir yerde bulu\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z, fakat arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00f6z verdi\u011fi saatte gelmediyse, nas\u0131l bir tepki verirsiniz?<\/strong><\/p><p>a) B\u00f6yle bir hususta mazeret kabul etmez, yeteri kadar \u00f6nem vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ge\u00e7 geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6zle de dile getiririm.<\/p><p>b) \u00d6nce arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 bekler, ge\u00e7 kalma sebebine g\u00f6re tepki g\u00f6steririm.<\/p><p>c) Genellikle fazla mesele etmem, fakat s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131ysam b\u00f6yle bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ilk anda k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 belli ederim.<\/p><p>d) Sebep ne olursa olsun, kar\u015f\u0131mdakinin \u00fcz\u00fclmesini istemem ve ona teselli veririm.<\/p><p><strong>7- \u00c7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yerdeki i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z o g\u00fcn olduk\u00e7a durgunsa, bunu nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirirsiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n bana kar\u015f\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir tav\u0131r olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, fakat fazla \u00fczerinde durmamay\u0131 ye\u011flerim.<\/p><p>b) Arkada\u015f\u0131mla uygun bir ortamda yaln\u0131z olarak konu\u015fup, bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye y\u00f6nelirim.<\/p><p>c) \u00c7evremdekilerin durgun veya ne\u015feli olup olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 pek fark etmem ve ilgilenmem.<\/p><p>d) Arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131 \u00fczecek bir \u015fey yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek beni \u00e7ok etkiler. Bunu do\u011frudan da soramaz, \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in de\u011fi\u015fik yollar denerim.<\/p><p><strong>8- Kom\u015funuzdan uygunsuz bir saatte g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc geliyorsa, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dakilerden hangisini yapmay\u0131 tercih edersiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) Hemen kap\u0131s\u0131na gider ve bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u00e2d\u00e2b-\u0131 mua\u015feret kurallar\u0131na hi\u00e7 uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylerim.<\/p><p>b) G\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 de\u011filse, o g\u00fcn tahamm\u00fcl eder, daha sonra kom\u015fumla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde sohbet aras\u0131nda rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumu uygun bir \u015fekilde dile getiririm.<\/p><p>c) Genellikle ba\u015f\u0131m \u00e7ok a\u011fr\u0131r ve g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcye tahamm\u00fcl edemem. Bunun i\u00e7in de kap\u0131s\u0131na gider ve kibar bir dille rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6ylerim.<\/p><p>d) Kom\u015fumu \u00fczmek istemedi\u011fimden, g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcden rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumu belli etmeden sabrederim.<\/p><p><strong>9- Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z sizi bir hususta ele\u015ftirdi\u011finde ne hissedersiniz?<\/strong><\/p><p>a) \u0130nsanlar beni genellikle haks\u0131z yere ele\u015ftirir. Bu beni \u00e7ok \u00f6fkelendirir. Ne yapal\u0131m meyveli a\u011fa\u00e7 ta\u015flan\u0131r. Zaten kimse beni \u00e7ekememektedir.<\/p><p>b) \u00d6nce arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n hakl\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcm. Yerinde ele\u015ftiriyse hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler, o davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeye gayret ederim.<\/p><p>c) Bana y\u00f6neltilen ele\u015ftirilere g\u00f6re tepkim de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p><p>d) Bu ele\u015ftirilerin niyetine, hedefine, tamire mi yoksa tahribe mi y\u00f6neldi\u011fine g\u00f6re tepki veririm.<\/p><p><strong>10- Sevdi\u011finiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za veya yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 olan sevginizi, ona s\u00f6yler misiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) S\u00f6ylemeyi tercih ederim.<\/p><p>b) F\u0131rsat buldu\u011fumda sevdi\u011fimi s\u00f6ylemek isterim.<\/p><p>c) Bazen s\u00f6ylerim.<\/p><p>d) \u0130stesem de s\u00f6yleyemem, bundan \u00e7ekinirim.<\/p><p><strong>11- Bir tart\u0131\u015fma esnas\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zler sarf eder misiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) Ben neysem oyum, gerekti\u011fi zaman gerekeni s\u00f6ylerim.<\/p><p>b) K\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmamaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6steririm.<\/p><p>c) K\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmak istemem, fakat genellikle kendimi tutamay\u0131p hakaret ederim.<\/p><p>d) Kesinlikle k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 konu\u015fmam, bundan tiksinirim.<\/p><p><strong>12- S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 zaman\u0131n\u0131zda bunu \u00e7evrenizdekilerle nas\u0131l payla\u015fmay\u0131 tercih edersiniz? <\/strong><\/p><p>a) S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7imde saklayamam, arkada\u015flar\u0131ma rahatl\u0131kla s\u00f6ylerim.<\/p><p>b) \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulabilece\u011fine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve s\u0131r tutabilecek yak\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131mla dertle\u015firim.<\/p><p>c) Ancak \u0131srar edildi\u011finde s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 payla\u015fabilirim.<\/p><p>d) Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u011fr\u0131tmak yerine, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7imde saklamay\u0131 ye\u011flerim.<\/p><p><strong>13- Uzun zamand\u0131r g\u00f6rmedi\u011finiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za bir toplant\u0131da rastlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, nas\u0131l hareket edersiniz?<\/strong><\/p><p>a) \u201cHi\u00e7 dost dostu bu kadar uzun zamand\u0131r aramaz m\u0131?\u201d diye sitem ederim.<\/p><p>b) Sevgiyle kucaklar, onu ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6zlemi\u015f oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6ylerim.<\/p><p>c) Tepkim kar\u015f\u0131mdaki ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p><p>d) Uzun zamand\u0131r onu arayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp mahcup olur, mazeretlerimi bildiririm.<\/p><p><strong>De\u011ferlendirme<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>\u00a0A <\/strong><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/strong><\/p><p>\u0130nsanlarla ili\u015fkilerinizde, hep kendi dedi\u011finizin olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsunuz. Sizin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n daima ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131nkinden \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor ve bunu s\u00fcrekli \u00e7evrenizdekilere kabul ettirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz. Say\u0131l\u0131 ki\u015filer d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u00e7evrenizdekileri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmser \u015fekilde hareketleriniz, herkesin m\u00fckemmel \u015fekilde davranmalar\u0131n\u0131 beklemeniz, onlar\u0131 sizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor ve yaln\u0131z kal\u0131yorsunuz. Daha ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olursan\u0131z, inan\u0131n daha mutlu olacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p><p><strong>\u00a0B <\/strong><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/strong><\/p><p>Siz \u00e7evrenizdekilere de\u011fer veren bir kimsesiniz. \u00c7evrenizdekilere s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 zamanlar\u0131nda yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor ve onlardan da gerekti\u011finde yard\u0131m alabiliyorsunuz. E\u011fer kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki de sizin gibi davran\u0131rsa, insanlarla ili\u015fkilerinizin olumsuz gitmesi i\u00e7in ortada bir neden g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fcyor. \u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fim kurarken beden dilinizden maksimum derecede yararlan\u0131yorsunuz. Size kar\u015f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f bir hareket yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bunun yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmadan kaynaklanabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor ve d\u00fczeltme yoluna gidiyorsunuz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n temelinde yatan sebepleri g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne almay\u0131 ihmal etmiyorsunuz. \u0130nsanlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131l\u0131 davranmamaya gayret ediyorsunuz.<\/p><p><strong>\u00a0C <\/strong><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/strong><\/p><p>Siz olduk\u00e7a de\u011fi\u015fken yap\u0131ya sahip bir kimsesiniz. Sizin insanlarla ileti\u015fiminiz tamamen ruh halinize ba\u011fl\u0131. E\u011fer bir g\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131ysan\u0131z veya sizi \u00fczen bir olay olmu\u015fsa, bunu y\u00fcz hatlar\u0131n\u0131z ve hareketlerinizle o kadar \u00e7ok ortaya koyuyorsunuz ki, \u00e7evrenizdekiler sizi \u00fczecek bir \u015fey yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp duruyor ve huzursuz oluyorlar. Ne\u015feli oldu\u011funuzda da ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00e7evrenizdekilerle ileti\u015fiminize bunu yans\u0131t\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p><p><strong>\u00a0D <\/strong><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u015f\u0131kk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011funlukta ise;<\/strong><\/p><p>\u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fiminizde fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 o kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6n planda tutuyorsunuz ki, bunda a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya var\u0131p; kendi duygu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve isteklerinizden \u00e7ok fazla taviz veriyorsunuz. H\u00e2lbuki hem insanlarla iyi ge\u00e7inip hem de do\u011fru bildi\u011finiz \u015fekilde davranmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Yeter ki siz kendinizi ifade etmeye gayret edin.<\/p><p><strong>Haydi, kendimizi bilelim!<\/strong><\/p><p><strong><em>\u201cNefsini bilen, Rabbini bilir&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><strong> Hadisini \u0130bn Arabi (R.A) \u015f\u00f6yle izah etmi\u015ftir: <em>\u201cHer insanda, ayr\u0131 bir \u2018\u0130lahi \u0130sim\u2019 daha fazla tecelli etmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan, ancak bu \u0130smin tecellisi kadar\u0131nca nefsini bilecektir.\u201d<\/em> Yani bu \u0130lahi \u0130smin tezah\u00fcr\u00fc oran\u0131nda imana ve irfana eri\u015fecektir. Rabbin Z\u00e2t&#8217;\u0131n\u0131 idrak etmek, zaten m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bu nedenle Z\u00e2t&#8217;\u0131n\u0131n tefekk\u00fcr\u00fc yasak edilmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsan idraki, Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u0131n Z\u00e2t&#8217;\u0131n\u0131 fikretmekten acizdir\u2026 <\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Nefs, klasik Arap\u00e7ada ruh anlam\u0131nda kullan\u0131lagelmi\u015ftir. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczdeki kullan\u0131m\u0131 daha \u00e7ok, &#8216;ruh&#8217;tan farkl\u0131, \u00f6zerk bir olgu bi\u00e7imindedir. Nefsin \u00e7e\u015fitli mertebe ve merhalelerinden Kur\u2019an&#8217;da s\u00f6z edilmektedir. Hikmet ehli, insano\u011flunun yery\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00f6nderili\u015f amac\u0131n\u0131; bir terbiye ve tek\u00e2m\u00fcl sonucu, asli do\u011fas\u0131na yeniden ula\u015fma olarak de\u011ferlendirir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla insan\u0131n, d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6nderilmesi bir imtihan i\u00e7indir; e\u011fitim, ibadet ve m\u00fccadele ile olgunla\u015fmaya y\u00f6nelmelidir. <\/strong><\/p><p><strong>1-<\/strong><strong> Nefs-i Emmare: Kin, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k, yalanc\u0131l\u0131k, nifak, isyan ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr \u00fczere olma halidir. Bunlardan kurtulmak \u00fczere insan\u0131n manevi bir seyr-\u00fc seyahate giri\u015fmesi, nefsin, Kur\u2019an&#8217;da belirtilen a\u015famalar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmesi gerekmektedir. <\/strong><\/p><p><strong>2-<\/strong><strong> Nefs-i Levvame: B\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden ka\u00e7\u0131nma y\u00f6n\u00fcnde bir duyarl\u0131l\u0131k ve pi\u015fmanl\u0131k halidir. <\/strong><\/p><p><strong>3-<\/strong> <strong>Nefs-i M\u00fclhime: Ki\u015fiye iyiliklerin ilham oldu\u011fu, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerini terk edilmeye koyuldu\u011fu bir ahl\u00e2k mertebesidir.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>4-<\/strong> <strong>Ard\u0131ndan, imani ve insani doygunlu\u011fa yeti\u015fip, Rabbiyle huzur bulmu\u015f Mutmain Nefis d\u00fczeyine eri\u015fir. <\/strong><\/p><p><strong>5-<\/strong> <strong>Nihayet, Allah\u2019\u0131n her h\u00fckm\u00fcnde ve takdirinde hikmet ve ibret aray\u0131p teslimiyet g\u00f6steren, ibadet ve istikamet \u00fczere R\u0131za makam\u0131na ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f halde Nefs-i Raziyye makam\u0131na gelecektir.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>6-<\/strong> <strong>Derken Marziyye makam\u0131nda, Allah o kuldan raz\u0131 olup se\u00e7mi\u015f demektir.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>7-<\/strong><strong> Ve Nefs-i K\u00e2mile, (olgun, huzurlu ve \u015fuurlu nefis), Allah\u2019\u0131n halifesi olarak insanlar\u0131 ir\u015fatla \u015fereflendirilmi\u015ftir. Bunlar toplumda g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc bar\u0131\u015f el\u00e7ileri ve hakikat davet\u00e7ileridir.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Uyar\u0131: Bu k\u0131sa ve \u00f6zl\u00fc testin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131, ki\u015filik ve karakterimizi aksettiren yakla\u015f\u0131k bir puanlama yerindedir, yani bizi tan\u0131tan bir ayna gibidir. Asla aynaya bakmaktan \u00e7ekinmemeli; kendimizi tan\u0131maya, eksiklerimizi tamamlamaya ve aksiliklerimizden kurtulmaya gayret etmelidir.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cB\u0130Z K\u0130M\u0130Z?\u201d TEST\u0130 \u015eimdi gelin, \u201cBiz kimiz?\u201d ve \u201c\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde hangi nefis mertebesindeyiz?\u201d sorusunu yan\u0131tlamaya ve kendimizi tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m: Ki\u015fi kendini tan\u0131mak; k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131p, iyiliklere al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakla m\u00fckelleftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc; \u201cNefsini bilen, Rabbini de bilecektir.\u201d Herkes kendi bedeninde ve benli\u011finde tezah\u00fcr ve tecelli eden Rahmani-vicdani duygular\u0131 ve \u015feytani d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri fark ederek, Hakka (do\u011fruya ve hay\u0131rl\u0131ya) t\u00e2bi olup, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":76,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7333],"tags":[6435,7334,7335,7336,7337],"class_list":["post-31628","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kasim-2025","tag-nefis","tag-nefis-mertebeleri","tag-biz-kimiz","tag-insan-iliskileri","tag-arkadaslik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31628","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/76"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31628"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31628\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31628"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31628"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31628"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}