{"id":6090,"date":"2021-01-06T13:27:10","date_gmt":"2021-01-06T13:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2021\/01\/06\/sn-cumhurbaskanina-6284un-aile-facialari-ve-magdurlarin-feryadi\/"},"modified":"2021-01-06T13:27:10","modified_gmt":"2021-01-06T13:27:10","slug":"sn-cumhurbaskanina-6284un-aile-facialari-ve-magdurlarin-feryadi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/ozel-yazilar\/sn-cumhurbaskanina-6284un-aile-facialari-ve-magdurlarin-feryadi\/","title":{"rendered":"Sn. Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131na: 6284\u2019\u00dcN A\u0130LE FAC\u0130ALARI VE MA\u011eDURLARIN FERYADI!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 17pt;\">Sn. Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131na:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 17pt;\">6284&rsquo;\u00dcN A\u0130LE FAC\u0130ALARI VE MA\u011eDURLARIN FERYADI!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-indent: 1cm;\"><span style=\"font-size: 17pt;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">STAR TV. <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Ger\u00e7e\u011fin Pe\u015finde&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">program\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kan <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se;<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> huysuz, uyumsuz ve sorumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bo\u015fand\u0131klar\u0131 e\u015finin, mahkemenin kendi velayetine (babas\u0131na) verdi\u011fi <em>dokuz ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131p ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131, bask\u0131 ve \u015fiddet uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u015fu anda bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla resmen evli oldu\u011fu halde di\u011fer bir insandan hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8230;<\/em> B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ra\u011fmen, \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi diye bilinen 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanunun<\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> &ldquo;Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esas al\u0131n\u0131r ve yeterli say\u0131l\u0131r&rdquo; <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">anlam\u0131ndaki maddesi gere\u011fi, kendisinden bo\u015fanan ve k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131ran kad\u0131n\u0131n iddia ve isnatlar\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kendisine <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">onlarca dava a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma kararlar\u0131 al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <em>B\u00fct\u00fcn bu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar ve k\u0131z\u0131yla ilgili ku\u015fkular<\/em><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">y\u00fcz\u00fcnden \u00e7aresiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve resmi ba\u015fvurular\u0131ndan hi\u00e7bir sonu\u00e7 alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 <\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">i\u00e7in <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">feryad\u0131 figan edip durmaktayd\u0131. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bu t\u00fcr TV Programlar\u0131n\u0131n: Gizemli cinayetlerin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcp a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131&#8230; Enteresan kay\u0131plar\u0131n bulunmas\u0131&#8230; Karma\u015f\u0131k bo\u015fanmalar ve evden ka\u00e7malarla ilgili konular\u0131n perde arkas\u0131n\u0131n ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmas\u0131 gibi toplumsal sorunlar\u0131n g\u00fcndeme ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131 ve ilgili makamlara duyurulmas\u0131&#8230; Su\u00e7lular\u0131n ve sorumlular\u0131n ortaya konulmas\u0131, ma\u011fdur vatanda\u015flar\u0131n haklar\u0131na kavu\u015fturulmas\u0131 ve bu hususlarda Emniyet ve G\u00fcvenlik mensuplar\u0131na, Yarg\u0131ya ve Adalet \u00e7ark\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olunmas\u0131&#8230; B\u00f6ylece toplumda sosyal dayan\u0131\u015fma ve sorumluluk ku\u015fanma duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n artt\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00e7abalar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 Serap Pak\u00f6z, Av. Hasan Kocabay ve Adli T\u0131p Uzman\u0131 Dr. Taner G\u00fcven&rsquo;e tebrik ve takdirlerimizi iletiyoruz. Ve yine benzer formatlarda programlar yapan M\u00fcge Anl\u0131, Didem Arslan Y\u0131lmaz ve Esra Erol Han\u0131mefendileri de kutluyoruz. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Ama bir hat\u0131rlatmay\u0131 da yapmadan ge\u00e7emiyoruz; <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">bu ahl\u00e2ki ve ailevi temellerimizi derinden sarsan 6284 Say\u0131l\u0131 kanunun<em> <\/em><\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">kad\u0131na \u015fiddeti \u00f6nleyici tedbirler<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki: <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r ve yeterli say\u0131l\u0131r&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> \u015feklindeki tahrip maddelerinin d\u00fczeltilmesi konusunda devlet yetkililerine \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lar yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gibi duyarl\u0131 ve tutarl\u0131 tav\u0131rlar\u0131 da kendilerinden bekliyoruz. Aksi halde bu t\u00fcr programlar, giderek yayg\u0131nla\u015fan haks\u0131zl\u0131k ve ahl\u00e2ks\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 azaltmak yerine, bir nevi dolayl\u0131 reklam\u0131n\u0131 yapmak anlam\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yacakt\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadece ve s\u00fcrekli k\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 konu\u015fup tart\u0131\u015fmak yerine, \u00f6ncelikle ve \u00f6zellikle sorunlar\u0131n as\u0131l sebepleri ve su\u00e7lular\u0131 cesaretlendirici kanun maddeleri \u00fczerinden yo\u011funla\u015fmak laz\u0131md\u0131. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">STAR TV Ger\u00e7e\u011fin Pe\u015finde program\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7aresiz Baba G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se&rsquo;nin, 9 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131ran, ona \u015fiddet uygulayan ve cinsel tacize u\u011framas\u0131na g\u00f6z yuman eski e\u015finin k\u0131z karde\u015flerinin ve yak\u0131n \u00e7evresinin bile, G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se&rsquo;yi do\u011frulayan beyanlar\u0131na ra\u011fmen, program\u0131n avukat\u0131 Hasan Kocabay ve Dr. Taner G\u00fcven h\u00e2l\u00e2 yutkunup, 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanunun &ldquo;Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r&rdquo; maddesinin mutlaka d\u00fczeltilmesi gerekti\u011fini a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131na alamamalar\u0131 da dikkatlerden ka\u00e7mam\u0131\u015ft\u0131&#8230; Ve \u00fcstelik buna benzer olaylar\u0131n ve ma\u011fdurlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 on binlere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve giderek yayg\u0131nla\u015fmakta, hatta \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131rma noktas\u0131na gelen baz\u0131 \u00e7aresiz erkeklerin intikam h\u0131rs\u0131na yol a\u00e7maktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u015eimdi Sn. Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131ndan Adalet Bakan\u0131na&#8230; Diyanet Ba\u015fkan\u0131ndan Meclis Ba\u015fkan\u0131na&#8230; Muhalefet Genel Ba\u015fkanlar\u0131ndan \u0130lahiyat Hocalar\u0131na ve Tarikat babalar\u0131na&#8230; Yanda\u015f yazar ve yorumculardan, s\u00f6zde kar\u015f\u0131t medya mensuplar\u0131na sesleniyoruz: Giderek \u00e7at\u0131rdayan ahl\u00e2ki ve ailevi yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131lan bu fay hatlar\u0131na&#8230; Ve \u00e7aresiz kalan ma\u011fdur babalar\u0131n bu feryad\u0131na hangi vicdanla, h\u00e2l\u00e2 sessiz ve tepkisiz kalmaktas\u0131n\u0131z?..<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Ger\u00e7e\u011fin Pe\u015finde 239. B\u00f6l\u00fcm &ndash; 23 Kas\u0131m 2020<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Program\u0131n sunumunu <strong>Serap Pak\u00f6z<\/strong>, uzman g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleriyle Adli T\u0131p Uzman\u0131 <strong>Taner G\u00fcven<\/strong>, Avukat <strong>Hasan Kocabey<\/strong> ve Polis E\u011fitmeni-G\u00fcvenlik Uzman\u0131 <strong>Murat Ayd\u0131n<\/strong> da katk\u0131 sa\u011flamaktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Serap Pak\u00f6z:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong><em>Konu\u011fumuz G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se 33 ya\u015f\u0131nda Isparta&rsquo;dan programa kat\u0131l\u0131yor. Asl\u0131nda her zaman anneler ma\u011fdur olmuyor, babalar\u0131n da ma\u011fdur oldu\u011fu durumlar var ki i\u015fte bunlardan biri olan G\u00f6khan asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r birtak\u0131m ithamlarla m\u00fccadele etmi\u015f. Mesela; y\u0131llarca \u00e7ocu\u011funa bakm\u0131\u015f ama sonra ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar\u0131s\u0131, hi\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fu aramaz sormazken bir velayet davas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131yor ve babay\u0131 istismarla su\u00e7luyor, \u015fiddetle su\u00e7luyor. \u015eimdi G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se&rsquo;nin hikayesine ge\u00e7iyoruz. G\u00f6khan, bu ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n e\u015finle ki evlili\u011finiz bir y\u0131l bile s\u00fcrm\u00fcyor. Ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorsunuz. E\u015fin ger\u00e7ekten de 9 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan k\u0131z\u0131nla ilgili, 11 ev ve okul, 6 tane de \u015fehir de\u011fi\u015ftirmi\u015f. \u015eimdi asl\u0131nda velayet tekrar babaya ge\u00e7mi\u015f, ama \u015fu anda e\u015fin \u00e7ocuk ka\u00e7\u0131rma eylemi i\u015fliyor. Velayeti babada olan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu sana g\u00f6stermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in. <\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> (Eski e\u015fimle ilgili) <strong><em>&ldquo;Zorla al\u0131koymaktan ve 18 ya\u015f alt\u0131 bireyi cebren ka\u00e7\u0131rmaktan&rdquo;<\/em><\/strong> hakk\u0131nda aranmas\u0131 20 Kas\u0131m Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc itibariyle ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015e\u00f6yle anlatay\u0131m; biz 2010 y\u0131l\u0131nda, babas\u0131n\u0131n evinde ni\u015fan\u0131n\u0131 takt\u0131\u011f\u0131m halde ka\u00e7arak evlenmi\u015ftik. 2010 y\u0131l\u0131nda, ilk gebeli\u011fin 4. ay\u0131nda eve bir geldim, ka\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Kald\u0131 ki ben; alkol, gece hayat\u0131, kahvehane, k\u0131raathane gibi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 olan birisi de\u011filim. O d\u00f6nem bir kozmetik firmas\u0131nda sat\u0131\u015f m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fcm. \u0130\u015fte bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te e\u015fimin gitgelleri ba\u015flad\u0131. 2011 y\u0131l\u0131 22 Ocak g\u00fcn\u00fc k\u0131z\u0131m do\u011fdu. 15 g\u00fcnl\u00fck iken, maalesef k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 ananeme b\u0131rak\u0131p markete gidiyorum deyip evden ka\u00e7t\u0131. E\u015fimle fiili ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131m 11 ayl\u0131kken tamamen sa\u011flad\u0131k. 2012 Nisan ay\u0131 itibariyle hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde ileti\u015fimimiz kalmayacak \u015fekilde fiziken ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ba\u015flad\u0131, ama bo\u015fanamad\u0131k.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Gel zaman git zaman \u015fu anki evli oldu\u011fu e\u015fiyle 2015 y\u0131l\u0131nda benim nik\u00e2h\u0131m dururken, imam nik\u00e2h\u0131 ve ni\u015fan yapt\u0131. 2016 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n 10. ay\u0131nda bana bir bo\u015fanma protokol\u00fc yollad\u0131. Antalya 3. Aile Mahkemesinde a\u00e7\u0131k duru\u015fmaya ba\u015fland\u0131, evrak\u0131 ibraz etti, evrakta \u015fu yaz\u0131yordu. <strong><em>&ldquo;\u015eu \u015fu tarihte do\u011fumlu, \u015fu T.C. kimlik numaral\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131m olan Dolunay K\u00f6se&rsquo;nin velayetini babaya vermi\u015f bulunmaktay\u0131m. Hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f hakk\u0131 dahi talep etmiyorum.&rdquo;<\/em><\/strong> 2016 y\u0131l\u0131nda biz bu ilanla beraber bo\u015fand\u0131k. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Anne, 2017 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n sonunda ekim ay\u0131nda aniden tekrar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>2012&#8217;den bu yana 90&#8217;a yak\u0131n soru\u015fturma ge\u00e7irdim. Bak\u0131yorsun bir g\u00fcn gece \u00fc\u00e7te telefon geliyor, ne id\u00fc\u011f\u00fc belirsiz bir adam; beni, k\u0131z karde\u015fimi, annemi, kuzenlerimi tehdit ediyor telefonda. Bir g\u00fcn gece 4&#8217;te polis geliyor, beni evden al\u0131p g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor. <em>Sen \u0130stanbul&#8217;a gitmi\u015fsin, eski kar\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131na dayanm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n<\/em> deniyor. Uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma kararlar\u0131, koruma kararlar\u0131, bilmem neler, can\u0131mdan bezdirildim. Oysa polis diyor ki bu \u015fahs\u0131n bu tarihte burada oldu\u011fu baz istasyonu ile tespit edilmi\u015f. Bu bir iftirad\u0131r. Ya dursun durulsun diye ellemiyorum, gitmiyorum. Avukat buldum dedim ki; bu iftiradan dolay\u0131 ben davac\u0131 olmak istiyorum. G\u0131na geldi art\u0131k. Tabiri caizse b\u0131kt\u0131m, hayat\u0131m adliyede ge\u00e7iyor, karakolda ge\u00e7iyor. Bu durumlar beni art\u0131k su\u00e7 i\u015flemeye ve tahrik noktas\u0131na getiriyor, sabrediyorum. Gittik savc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa <em>&ldquo;iftira davas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131lamaz&rdquo;<\/em> deniyor. <\/strong><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Defalarca kez ba\u015fvurmama ra\u011fmen, &ldquo;<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanunun gerekli y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckleri gere\u011fince <em>kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esas\u0131na dayan\u0131larak<\/em> i\u015flemler yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, ceza al\u0131nmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortadad\u0131r, herhangi bir ceza almad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de iftira davas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131lamaz&rdquo; <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u015feklinde buna benzer gerek\u00e7elerle taraf\u0131m\u0131za redler, redler, redler geliyor!..<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">2017 sonundan itibaren hayat\u0131m\u0131z karard\u0131. Ben bu kadar s\u00fcrede neler ya\u015fad\u0131m ama k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n art\u0131k bu batakl\u0131ktan kurtulmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorum. Hayat\u0131m\u0131n k\u00f6reldi\u011fi, mahvoldu\u011fu, ailemin itibar\u0131n\u0131n, kendimin art\u0131k neredeyse telafi edilemeyecek noktaya geldi\u011fi s\u00fcre\u00e7 2018 y\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ben Cimer&rsquo;den, k\u0131z\u0131mla sosyal medyaya foto\u011fraflar\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131yorum, Instagram&#8217;a, k\u0131z\u0131mla yanak yana\u011fa \u00f6p\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrken bir foto\u011fraf\u0131m\u0131z var. <strong><em>G\u00fcya duda\u011f\u0131ndan \u00f6pmek suretiyle ve k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n kal\u00e7a k\u0131sm\u0131nda&#8230;&#8230; (ses kesiliyor)&#8230;<\/em><\/strong> Bu iki kez yap\u0131l\u0131yor. Birini Cimer&rsquo;den yap\u0131yor, Isparta&#8217;da soru\u015fturma ge\u00e7iriyorum. Cumhuriyet Ba\u015fsavc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fctalaay\u0131 tamamlama beyan\u0131 \u015fu, diyor ki; <strong><em>anne babay\u0131, yani m\u00fc\u015fteki \u015f\u00fcpheliyi, as\u0131ls\u0131z ithamlarla onlarca kez soyut iddialarla su\u00e7lam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Serap Pak\u00f6z:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015fam\u0131yorsunuz. 7 y\u0131ld\u0131r \u00e7ocuk sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda. 7 y\u0131l boyunca b\u00f6yle bir \u015fik\u00e2yette bulunmam\u0131\u015f, yan\u0131na almak i\u00e7in bir giri\u015fimde bulunmam\u0131\u015f. Sadece sosyal medyaya koydu\u011funuz bu ya da buna benzer foto\u011fraflarla sizi cinsel istismarla ve \u015fiddet uygulamakla su\u00e7luyordu. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla siz mahkemede bunun as\u0131ls\u0131z oldu\u011funu kan\u0131tl\u0131yorsunuz.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Evet \u015f\u00f6yle ki, savc\u0131l\u0131k dedi ki bu anlat\u0131lan hikaye taraf\u0131m\u0131zca ger\u00e7ek bulunmad\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc annenin beyan\u0131yla isnat edilen su\u00e7lar as\u0131ls\u0131zd\u0131r&#8230; Bir de \u015funu diyor savc\u0131l\u0131k. Baba bu foto\u011fraflar\u0131 sosyal medya hesab\u0131nda payla\u015f\u0131yor, oysa cinsel saikle bunu yapacak bir birey b\u00f6yle bir payla\u015f\u0131mda bulunmaz. Kald\u0131 ki foto\u011fraf\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan, parantez i\u00e7erisinde s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor savc\u0131l\u0131k bunu, bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman diyor dudak duda\u011fa \u00f6p\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn de net bir durumu yoktur, yanak yana\u011fa gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckmektedir, diyor. Bu dosya kapan\u0131yor.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Serap Pak\u00f6z:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hangi y\u0131l oluyor? (G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se: 2018 y\u0131l\u0131nda bu olaylar oldu.) 2020 Kas\u0131m ay\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn bu olaylar ya\u015fand\u0131ktan sonra tabi baba ile ilgili b\u00f6yle as\u0131ls\u0131z ama a\u011f\u0131r iddialarda bulununca anne, \u00f6nce ge\u00e7ici velayet tekrar anneye veriliyor ve mahkemeye asl\u0131nda birazc\u0131k da sizi g\u00f6zlemlemek, onu g\u00f6zlemlemek i\u00e7in ge\u00e7ici velayet veriliyor. Ama 2020 Kas\u0131m ay\u0131nda, yani bu sene 19 Kas\u0131m&#8217;da, bug\u00fcn ay\u0131n 23&#8217;\u00fc, iddialar\u0131n as\u0131ls\u0131z oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun velayeti size veriliyor. Ama \u00e7ocuk ortada yok.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bizim davam\u0131z 14 celse s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n avukat\u0131 14 celsenin sadece be\u015fine kat\u0131ld\u0131. Avukatlar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli mazeret g\u00f6nderiyor, bahane g\u00f6steriyor. Ya neyin mazereti bu? \u00dc\u00e7 tane avukat\u0131 var dosyada, ikisini ar\u0131yorum, &ldquo;benim k\u0131z\u0131m nerede?&rdquo; diye soruyorum. Ben \u0130stanbul&#8217;day\u0131m. Biz bakm\u0131yoruz ki bizim sadece velayetten ismimiz var diyor. Ya bu nas\u0131l bir meslektir? Bu nas\u0131l bir \u015feydir? K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n yan\u0131k izleriyle ilgili bir olay da ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Haziran ay\u0131nda, ben 2018&rsquo;den bu yana k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 5 kez g\u00f6rebildim. Sonuncusu da Haziran 2020&rsquo;dir. K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 ar\u0131yorum yok, avukat\u0131n\u0131 ar\u0131yorum, diyor ki ben en son Antalya&#8217;da eski kay\u0131npederinde oldu\u011funu biliyorum&#8230; Eski kay\u0131npederimin adreslerini ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m, kom\u015fular\u0131na sordum, Antalya kazan, ben kep\u00e7e, 2 milyon n\u00fcfuslu memlekette k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 buldum sonunda, araya araya. Benim kay\u0131npederimle bir husumetim yok. Eski bald\u0131zlar\u0131m ve kay\u0131nbiraderimle de hi\u00e7bir husumetim yok ama g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcyoruz, etik g\u00f6rm\u00fcyoruz. K\u0131zlar\u0131 evlenmi\u015f, ablalar\u0131 evlenmi\u015f ben ne diye g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015feyim diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Serap Pak\u00f6z:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u00c7ok \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey olmu\u015f, bu mahkeme esnas\u0131nda, tekrar bu velayet davas\u0131nda, senin eski e\u015finin \u00fcvey karde\u015fleri, senin lehinde, onlar\u0131n aleyhinde, evet \u015fiddet g\u00f6steriyor, ilgilenmiyor \u00e7ocukla diye kad\u0131n\u0131n karde\u015fleri bile G\u00f6khan&#8217;\u0131n lehinde ifade veriyorlar.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Adli T\u0131p Uzman\u0131 Taner G\u00fcven:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">O a\u00e7\u0131dan diyorum ben burada meslekta\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za&#8230; \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ok teknik bir konu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in sadece h\u00e2kim bunu anlayamaz, avukat da anlayamaz, doktor raporundan \u00e7\u0131kacak her \u015fey. Yani burada istismar o kadar a\u00e7\u0131k ki yani bu insanlar nas\u0131l tutuklanmam\u0131\u015f. Hemen \u00e7ocuk al\u0131nmam\u0131\u015f onlardan, isyan etmemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bu olaydan sonra zaten duru\u015fmalara da gelmemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. 2020&rsquo;de i\u015fte Haziran&#8217;da ben k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 buldum. Kendisine sosyal medyadan ula\u015f\u0131yorum k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n annesine. Ayda bir numara de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor. Avukat\u0131 beni ar\u0131yor, bende numaras\u0131 yok diyor. Ne yapabilirim ben \u015fimdi bu kad\u0131n i\u00e7in? K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 gittim eski kay\u0131npederimin evinde buldum. Onlara da demi\u015f ki siz a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 inin G\u00f6khan geliyor, \u00e7ocu\u011fu alacak. Onlar da yaz\u0131k, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya inmi\u015fler beni beklemi\u015fler. \u0130ki, iki bu\u00e7uk saat yaz g\u00fcn\u00fc s\u0131cakta, bana da hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yazm\u0131yor. Oradaki kas\u0131t da \u015fu, &ldquo;\u00e7ocu\u011fu g\u00f6rmeye gelmedi. Bekletti gelmedi.&rdquo; dedirtmek istiyormu\u015f&#8230; Velhas\u0131l; ben \u00e7ocu\u011fu annesi yokmu\u015f, kay\u0131npederimle oturduk; \u00e7ay, kahve, sohbet, muhabbet. Yine de dedim, k\u0131z\u0131ma da sor, gelmek istiyorsa g\u00f6t\u00fcreyim. Sordular&#8230; O ara annesi arad\u0131. \u0130fadelerde var. Tan\u0131k beyanlar\u0131 da ortada&#8230; &ldquo;Gitmeyeceksin! Oraya gidersen, bir daha seni almaya gelmem! G\u00f6rmeye gelmem!&rdquo; Kendi annelik \u015feyini kullanarak tehdit ediyor k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131. Bunlar\u0131n hepsi mahkemeye yans\u0131d\u0131. Velhas\u0131l Serap Han\u0131m biz \u00e7ocu\u011fu ald\u0131k, teslim g\u00fcn\u00fc geldi. Mahkeme karar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k, diyor ki \u00e7ocu\u011fu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bulundu\u011fu yerde anneden alacaks\u0131n, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fc bitiminde ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n yere anneye teslim edeceksin. \u015eimdi&#8230; Benim bu karardan anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m nedir? Annesine vermem laz\u0131m bu \u00e7ocu\u011fu. Peki nereden? Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m yerden. Avukat\u0131 bana mesaj at\u0131yor. Teslimden iki g\u00fcn \u00f6nce. Yalova iline, terminale g\u00f6t\u00fcr. Ben Antalya&#8217;dan ald\u0131m. Annesi Yalova&#8217;da tatildeymi\u015f. Yalova terminale g\u00f6t\u00fcrecekmi\u015fim. Valiz mi bu \u00e7ocuk? Yalova ilinde terminalde kime ula\u015faca\u011f\u0131m ben? Ben bilmiyorum.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>[Ger\u00e7e\u011fin Pe\u015finde 239. B\u00f6l\u00fcm 23 Kas\u0131m 2020] (Yani demek istiyor ki: S\u00fcrekli kar\u015f\u0131ma 6284 no&rsquo;lu (\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi diye bilinen) kanunun <\/strong><\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Kad\u0131n\u0131n Beyan\u0131 Esast\u0131r&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">maddesi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131yor!.. Art\u0131k bunald\u0131m, \u00e7aresiz ve \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n\u0131m. G\u00fcya kad\u0131na \u015fiddeti \u00f6nleme gerek\u00e7esiyle benim 9 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131m kimlerin eline terk ediliyor?!..)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&rsquo;\u0131n Bald\u0131z\u0131:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Evet benim karde\u015fim o zavall\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131na \u015fiddet uyguluyor. Telefonla oynuyor mesela, \u00e7ocuk diyor ki &lsquo;benimle ilgilen, telefonu b\u0131rak&rsquo; diyor. Kalk\u0131yor tokat at\u0131yor, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor. Bu \u015fekilde temas\u0131 ve \u015fiddet uygulamas\u0131 oluyor yani \u00e7ocu\u011fa<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">. [24 Kas\u0131m 2020 \/ 240. B\u00f6l\u00fcm]<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Serap Pak\u00f6z:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Yav bu adamca\u011f\u0131z, yani G\u00f6khan, hakikaten evlad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6pmelere k\u0131yamam\u0131\u015f, bakmalara k\u0131yamam\u0131\u015f bir adam. \u015eimdi k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n, hem de \u00f6z anne taraf\u0131ndan tokatlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 filan \u00f6\u011freniyor ve v\u00fccudunda birtak\u0131m yara bere izlerini g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. \u015eimdi bir de babayla ilgili acayip ve as\u0131ls\u0131z iddialarda bulunup su\u00e7lan\u0131yor. Bir tane \u00fcvey baba var, ne oldu\u011fu belli olmayan bir insan&hellip; Kimse kim yani, ne oldu\u011fu belli olsun isterse. Kime g\u00fcvenebiliyoruz ki bu d\u00f6nemde yani!? Bir de 9 ya\u015f\u0131nda yeti\u015fme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda d\u00fcnya g\u00fczeli bir k\u0131zdan bahsediyoruz.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Serap Han\u0131m, \u00fcvey baban\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra bir de ilaveten Bursa ilinde \u015fu an gebeli\u011finin sebebi olan ba\u015fka bir sevgilisi var. Eski e\u015fimin ondan gebe kald\u0131\u011f\u0131na dair ultrason resimlerini k\u0131z karde\u015finin evinde b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f, bunlar\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn delilleri var. O adamla \u00e7ekilmi\u015f foto\u011fraflar\u0131 var. Bunlar\u0131 mahkemeye bald\u0131zlar\u0131m sundular&#8230; Ben zaten koptum. Hem ba\u015fkas\u0131yla evli, hem sevgilisi var&#8230; \u00dcstelik sevgilisinden hamile kal\u0131yor. Kocas\u0131 bunu bir kovuyor bir kabul ediyor.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> Peki benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum nerede kal\u0131yor, kimlerin elinde b\u00fcy\u00fcyor? Kahroluyorum. Adam da\u011fa kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, \u00e7ocu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrs\u00fcn diye d\u00f6vm\u00fc\u015f, eli y\u00fcz\u00fc mor bir \u015fekilde Antalya&rsquo;ya gitmi\u015f. Bu olaylar olurken, bunlar ya\u015fan\u0131rken benim g\u00f6z\u00fcmden sak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00e7ocu\u011fum nerelere savruluyor? L\u00fctfen sorun, benim ev d\u00fczenimi biliyorlard\u0131. Neyim noksand\u0131? Hangi eksi\u011fimiz vard\u0131? Kay\u0131npederimi de bald\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131 da ben ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131m Antalya&rsquo;ya bize yak\u0131n olsunlar, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda dursunlar diye, yan\u0131ma ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131m Kilis&rsquo;ten 2011 y\u0131l\u0131nda. Hi\u00e7bir \u015feylerini eksik b\u0131rakmad\u0131m. Hi\u00e7bir zaman sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ve h\u00fcrmetsizlik yapmad\u0131m. Buyurun telefonda kendilerine sorun. Ben d\u00f6vd\u00fcm m\u00fc ablalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rd\u0131m m\u0131 vurdum mu ne yapt\u0131m? Hadi ben kusurluydum da beni b\u0131rak\u0131p gitti. Bu yeni evlendi\u011fi adam\u0131n ne kusuru var ki ba\u015fkas\u0131na gidiyor? Hocam takdir edersiniz normal insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 de\u011fil bunlar.<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>(Ama h\u00e2l\u00e2 6284 no&rsquo;lu kanun gere\u011fi beni su\u00e7luyorlar!?)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Adli T\u0131p Uzman\u0131 <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Taner G\u00fcven:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">De\u011fil, de\u011fil. \u015eimdi \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun tokat yedi\u011fini duyunca y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz bembeyaz oldu, hakl\u0131 olarak sinirlendiniz. Sakin olun. Tabi ki \u00e7ok hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Yani bu i\u015fte \u015fahit, delil de var, fiziksel istismar\u0131n \u015fu anda hem de \u00f6z karde\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan. Yani diyecek kelime bulam\u0131yorum. D\u00fcn dedim zaten isyan etmemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Yakalay\u0131p al\u0131nmas\u0131 laz\u0131m. Niye? Emniyet g\u00fc\u00e7lerimiz nerede? <\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">G\u00f6khan K\u00f6se:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Yok hocam, 16 ayd\u0131r say\u0131n avukat\u0131ma hi\u00e7bir tebligat\u0131 ula\u015fm\u0131yor. Benim d\u0131\u015f\u0131mda yarg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir\u00e7ok dosyas\u0131 da var, hi\u00e7birinin tebligat\u0131 ula\u015fm\u0131yor. Tekirda\u011f&rsquo;da bir aileden, sosyal medyadan sahte bir hesap g\u00fcya bunu \u00f6l\u00fcmle tehdit etmi\u015f de oradan gizlilik karar\u0131 talep etmi\u015f. K\u0131z\u0131ma verilmemi\u015f yaln\u0131z. Milli E\u011fitim Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bir uygulamas\u0131 var. Anne ya da babalardan bir tanesi \u00f6l\u00fcmle tehdit al\u0131rsa \u00e7ocu\u011fa da bu karar s\u00fcresiz bir \u015fekilde uygulan\u0131yormu\u015f. Ya okul bilgisi alam\u0131yoruz, sa\u011fl\u0131k bilgisi edinemiyoruz. Mahkemelere gelmiyor, avukatlar\u0131 mahkemeye gelmiyor. Avukatlar\u0131ndan bir adres \u00f6\u011freniyorum, gidiyorum bunca \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimin \u00fcst\u00fcne, en son oturduklar\u0131 ikametine gittim. Per\u015fembe g\u00fcn\u00fc, cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc polisten m\u00fcsaade isteyerek. Madem orada de\u011filler, bir gideyim, bir konuya kom\u015fuya soray\u0131m belki bilen eden vard\u0131r, sokakta k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 d\u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Kom\u015fular \u015fik\u00e2yet etmi\u015f. Orada da bir fiziksel istismar var hocam\u0131n dedi\u011fi gibi. Orada da g\u00f6rsel tan\u0131klar ve art\u0131k vicdan\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnde bir durum var ki kom\u015fu bile gidiyor bunu \u015fik\u00e2yet ediyor. S\u00f6z\u00fcm ona Hocam. \u015eu an do\u011fum yapt\u0131 yapacak gayrime\u015fru bir ili\u015fkiden. Kocas\u0131 ne i\u015f yap\u0131yor kimse bilmiyor.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>Yani: Hepsi ve herkes 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanunun <\/strong><\/span><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&ldquo;Kad\u0131n\u0131n Beyan\u0131 Esast\u0131r.&rdquo;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">maddesine s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131yor!.. Hatta en son savc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa getirilen k\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z, g\u00fcya pedagog g\u00f6zetimindeki ifadesinde annesini istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in tekrar ona veriliyor!?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u0130\u015fte 6284 Kanunu ve Ma\u011fdurlar\u0131<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5 y\u0131lda 2 milyon erkek evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;G\u00fcya<em> &lsquo;Ailenin korunmas\u0131 ve kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesi i\u00e7in&rsquo;<\/em> \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lan ama aileleri darmada\u011f\u0131n eden 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanun sebebiyle 5 y\u0131lda 2 milyon erkek evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma cezas\u0131 alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Adalet Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Adli Sicil \u0130statistik Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc&#8217;nden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z verilere g\u00f6re son 5 y\u0131lda 1 milyon 973 bin, yani yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 milyon ki\u015finin evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fclkemiz i\u00e7in bir milli g\u00fcvenlik sorunu, gelece\u011fimiz i\u00e7in bir tehdittir. Buna g\u00f6re; 2015 y\u0131l\u0131nda 270 bin 218, 2016&#8217;da 320 bin 280, 2017&#8217;de 413 bin 790, 2018&#8217;de 521 bin 434, 2019&#8217;da 447 bin 893 ki\u015fi i\u00e7in \u00f6nleyici tedbir ve evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma cezas\u0131na \u00e7arpt\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bu rakamlar, sadece evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan erkeklerin say\u0131s\u0131yd\u0131. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 da sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda 4 milyon, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 da hesaba katsak 5-6 milyonu bulmaktayd\u0131. Kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin ailesi ve akrabalar\u0131n\u0131 saym\u0131yoruz. &ldquo;Bu durum \u00fclkemiz i\u00e7in felaket, gelece\u011fimiz ve ekonomi i\u00e7in bir afettir.&rdquo; diyenler hakl\u0131yd\u0131. Bu \u015fekilde devam ederse, aile ile birlikte ekonominin de yara alaca\u011f\u0131 tespitleri yap\u0131l\u0131yordu ve babalar evden uzakla\u015f\u0131nca \u00e7ocuklar da travma ge\u00e7irmeye ba\u015flamaktayd\u0131. Babas\u0131z ortamda b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131 uyu\u015fturucu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olacakt\u0131. Yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara g\u00f6re da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ailelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bu yollara girdi\u011fi saptanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. 6284 Yasas\u0131 kad\u0131na \u015fiddeti \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ama \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131ktan sonra istatistiklere bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda cinayet say\u0131s\u0131 y\u0131lda 121 iken, ge\u00e7en y\u0131l 441&#8217;e ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bu hi\u00e7bir zaman azalmayacak, daha da korkun\u00e7 rakamlara ula\u015fabilece\u011fi tahminleri yap\u0131lmaktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&#8220;Kad\u0131n\u0131 Destekleme Uygulamas\u0131 (KADES)&rsquo;e 15 bin 800 ihbar geldi\u011fi anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmada iftiralar at\u0131lmakta ve kad\u0131n\u0131n tek tarafl\u0131 beyan\u0131 esas al\u0131nmaktayd\u0131. \u0130ftiraya ceza verilmemesi korkun\u00e7 sonu\u00e7lara yol a\u00e7maktayd\u0131. Adli makamlar\u0131 yan\u0131ltma ve iftira su\u00e7undan i\u015flem yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 hukuka ayk\u0131r\u0131yd\u0131. Sadece &#8216;kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddete dur&#8217; denilirse burada erke\u011fe, \u00e7ocu\u011fa y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddete evet anlam\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Biz \u015fiddetin her t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmal\u0131y\u0131z. Bu; ailesiz, ahl\u00e2ks\u0131z, cinsiyetsiz bir toplum isteyenlerin, k\u00fcresel \u015fer g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin bir oyunuydu ve bu oyunu bozmam\u0131z laz\u0131md\u0131. Erkek ve kad\u0131n\u0131 sava\u015ft\u0131rmak istiyorlard\u0131 ve aile yap\u0131m\u0131z temelinden sars\u0131lmaktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">E\u015finin eve almad\u0131\u011f\u0131 Covid-19 hastas\u0131 \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi kapsam\u0131nda evden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u200b<strong>\u0130\u015fi nedeniyle \u0130stanbul&rsquo;dan Ankara&rsquo;ya gittikten bir s\u00fcre sonra rahats\u0131zlanarak hastaneye giden H.G., Covid-19 testinin pozitif \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 sebebiyle eve d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f ancak kar\u0131s\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan eve al\u0131nmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fik\u00e2yeti \u00fczerine hasta adam, evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Edinilen bilgilere g\u00f6re, \u0130stanbul Ba\u011fc\u0131lar&rsquo;da ikamet eden ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015f nedeniyle s\u0131k s\u0131k \u015fehir d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmak zorunda kalan H.G. isimli \u015fah\u0131s, Ankara&rsquo;ya ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fi son seyahatinden bir s\u00fcre sonra rahats\u0131zlanarak hastaneye kald\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hastanede yap\u0131lan testlerden sonra Corona virus testi pozitif \u00e7\u0131kan H.G., kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aray\u0131p durumu haber vererek eve d\u00f6nece\u011fini hat\u0131rlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ama <em>&ldquo;eve gelirsen bile seni eve almayaca\u011f\u0131m&rdquo;<\/em> tehdidiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ya\u015fanan g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme sonras\u0131nda akrabalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6zel ara\u00e7la \u0130stanbul&rsquo;a getirilen H.G., dairesinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7almas\u0131na ra\u011fmen kar\u0131s\u0131 kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7mam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Kap\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcnde ba\u015flayan tart\u0131\u015fma sonras\u0131nda erkek karde\u015flerini \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran kad\u0131n ile kocas\u0131 H.G. aras\u0131nda k\u0131sa bir arbede ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ya\u015fanan arbede sonras\u0131nda polisi arayarak kocas\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet\u00e7i olan kad\u0131n\u0131n \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi ve t\u00fcrevi olan kanunlara g\u00f6re beyan\u0131n\u0131n esas say\u0131lmas\u0131 sebebiyle H.G.&rsquo;ye evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma cezas\u0131 uygulanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esas&#8221; al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve yeterli say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in k\u0131\u015f\u0131n so\u011fu\u011funda arabada yatmaktayd\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Malatya&#8217;da ikamet eden Sahip \u00c7etkin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015finin <em>&#8220;\u015fiddet uyguluyor&#8221;<\/em> \u015fik\u00e2yeti \u00fczerine evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma cezas\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve k\u0131\u015f\u0131n so\u011fu\u011funda arabada yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&#8220;\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esas al\u0131narak 6 ay evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma cezas\u0131 ald\u0131m&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> diyen Sahip \u00c7etkin, <em>&#8220;Allah Resul\u00fc (Sallallahu Aleyhi Vesellem) bir hadis-i \u015ferifte &#8216;Hepiniz \u00e7obans\u0131n\u0131z ve hepiniz idare ettiklerinizden sorumlusunuz.&#8217; diye buyuruyor. Ben \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma terbiye ama\u00e7l\u0131 bir \u015fey s\u00f6yledi\u011fim zaman, anneleri bana destek olaca\u011f\u0131 yerde hep \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 savundu. Sorunlar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc ve \u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131r\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.&#8221;<\/em> \u015feklinde s\u0131zlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&#8220;Bir baba olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma terbiye vermek i\u00e7in bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeye hakk\u0131m yok mu<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">?&#8221; diyen baba \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nd\u0131. Bug\u00fcne kadar 10 \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcten ve d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc duruma i\u00e7erlenen \u00c7etkin, <em>&#8220;Bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olarak Allah&#8217;a yemin ederim ki, e\u015fime tokat vurmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve \u015fiddet uygulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m halde e\u015fim; \u00e7ocuklara arka \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in karakola gidip yalan beyanda bulundu. &#8216;E\u015fim bana \u015fiddet uygulad\u0131&#8217; diyerek \u015fik\u00e2yet etti. 2 defa 2-3 ay, en sonunda da 6 ay evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma cezas\u0131 ald\u0131rd\u0131. T\u00fcm din karde\u015flerime sesleniyorum. Bir baba olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma terbiye vermek amac\u0131yla bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeye hakk\u0131m yok mu?&#8221;<\/em> diye sormakta ama yan\u0131t\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 havada kalmaktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Erke\u011fe Vah\u015fi Muamelesi Yap\u0131lmaktayd\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">T\u00fcrkiye Da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Aileler Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan Yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 Mehmet Medeni Kemalo\u011flu<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>\u015fu de\u011ferlendirmede bulunmu\u015ftu: <em>&ldquo;Hi\u00e7 kimse \u00fczerine at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f su\u00e7la ispat aranmaks\u0131z\u0131n mahk\u00fbm edilerek soka\u011fa at\u0131lamaz. Bu muamele hayvana dahi yap\u0131lamaz. \u0130\u015fte 6284 bunu yapmaktayd\u0131. Beyan esas al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc kesin ger\u00e7ek say\u0131lmaktayd\u0131: Bu durumun neresi insani, hukuki ve vicdanidir? Erkekleri potansiyel su\u00e7lu g\u00f6ren, vah\u015fi hayvan muamelesine, avukatlar\u0131n s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fcne t\u00e2bi tutulan bu hukuki d\u00fczenlemeler bir an evvel de\u011fi\u015ftirilmelidir. Bu yasan\u0131n yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 cinayet vakalar\u0131n\u0131n vebali yetkililerimizin boynundad\u0131r.&rdquo;<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6284 bir zul\u00fcm arac\u0131 olmaktayd\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Babas\u0131z B\u0131rak\u0131lan \u00c7ocuklar ve \u00c7ocuksuz Babalar Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 \u0130brahim Aksoy<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>da \u015funlar\u0131 aktarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131:<\/strong> <strong><em>&ldquo;Kad\u0131n\u0131n intikam silah\u0131 haline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fen 6284, babay\u0131 da tahrik etme arac\u0131 olmaktad\u0131r. Yasa sonucu kovulan erkek art\u0131k hayat\u0131n\u0131 idame ettiremez durumdad\u0131r. E\u015fler aras\u0131na polis korumas\u0131n\u0131 koymak vakalar\u0131n meydana gelmesini engellemez, tam tersine k\u00f6r\u00fckler. Soka\u011f\u0131n ortas\u0131nda e\u015fini \u00f6ld\u00fcren ard\u0131ndan kendisini vuran bir adam\u0131n olay\u0131n\u0131 &lsquo;erkek \u015fiddeti&rsquo; olarak okumak ve ge\u00e7i\u015ftirmek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Milletvekilleri art\u0131k ge\u00e7 kalmas\u0131n, ge\u00e7 kal\u0131nm\u0131\u015f adalet adalet de\u011fildir.&rdquo;<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Bu Kanun Aileyi Temelinden Sarsacakt\u0131!..<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Ma\u011fdur Babalar Derne\u011fi S\u00f6zc\u00fcs\u00fc Murat Ercan<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong>ise \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015fmu\u015ftu:<\/strong> <strong><em>&ldquo;Acil \u00f6nlem al\u0131nmazsa ailenin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alacakt\u0131r bu yasa. Yuvalar\u0131n kanunlar eliyle y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131na tan\u0131k oluyoruz, 6284&rsquo;\u00fcn \u015fiddeti \u00f6nlemeyle alakas\u0131 yoktur. &lsquo;Yasa yaparak kad\u0131n\u0131 koruyaca\u011f\u0131z&rsquo; denilirse bunun hukuksal \u00e7er\u00e7evede kal\u0131narak ve yeni bir d\u00fczenlemeyle yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekiyor. 6284 T\u00fcrkiye&rsquo;nin dokusuna uymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Revize edilmelidir, olmuyorsa da tamamen kald\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.&rdquo;<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6284, Cinayetleri K\u00f6r\u00fcklemeye Ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f \u0130nsanlar ve Aile Platformu Moderat\u00f6r\u00fc Mesut Arabul \u015funlar\u0131 dile getirmi\u015fti:<em> &ldquo;2011&rsquo;de 121 kad\u0131n cinayeti i\u015flenmi\u015fken 6284&rsquo;\u00fcn ard\u0131ndan bu say\u0131n\u0131n katlanarak artmas\u0131n\u0131n sorumlusu yasa koyuculard\u0131r. Kad\u0131n\u0131 koruma ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda haz\u0131rlad\u0131klar\u0131 kanun, \u015fiddete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Aileyi korumak sadece kad\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, ailenin b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc korumakt\u0131r. Kanun, T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131na uygun olarak tekrardan g\u00fcncellenmeli.&rdquo;<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddeti \u00f6nleme amac\u0131yla, T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131na dikkat edilmeden haz\u0131rlanan 6284 say\u0131l\u0131 kanunun aile fertlerini cinnete s\u00fcr\u00fckledi\u011fi tescillenmi\u015f durumdad\u0131r. Yasan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 2012 y\u0131l\u0131ndan bu yana kad\u0131n cinayeti vakalar\u0131n\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131k 3 kat artmas\u0131 bunun kan\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131&#8217;na Sunulan &#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8221; De\u011ferlendirme Raporunda \u00d6nemli Detaylar Vard\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">T\u00fcrkiye D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce Platformu ve T\u00fcrkiye Hukuk\u00e7ular Meclisi&#8217;nin, May\u0131s 2020&rsquo;de haz\u0131rlan\u0131p Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131 Recep Tayyip Erdo\u011fan&#8217;a sundu\u011fu &#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;ne y\u00f6nelik hukuki ve psikososyal de\u011ferlendirme raporu&#8221;nda \u00f6nemli tespitler yer alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Raporda; \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nde yer alan &#8220;Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi&#8221; politikalar\u0131n\u0131n toplumsal y\u0131k\u0131mlara yol a\u00e7mas\u0131 nedeniyle bir\u00e7ok \u00fclke taraf\u0131ndan y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckten kald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, 11 \u00fclke taraf\u0131ndan ise s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye &#8220;\u00e7ekince&#8221; konuldu\u011fu hat\u0131rlat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Raporda; \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nde, kavramlar\u0131n de\u011fersizle\u015ftirildi\u011fi, <em>her t\u00fcrl\u00fc cinsel sapma hareketinin<\/em> &#8220;cinsel y\u00f6nelim&#8221; kavram\u0131 ile me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, ahl\u00e2ki veya toplumsal yapt\u0131r\u0131mlardan muaf tutuldu\u011fu vurgulanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Uygulanmaya devam\u0131 halinde yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131 hukuki, ahl\u00e2ki ve toplumsal sonu\u00e7lar dikkate al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nin, T\u00fcrkiye taraf\u0131ndan Avrupa Konseyi Genel Sekreterli\u011fi&#8217;ne yap\u0131lacak bir bildirimle feshedilmesinin yerinde olaca\u011f\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6284 <em>&#8220;\u0130leride ciddi psikososyal ve ahl\u00e2ki ar\u0131zalara yol a\u00e7abilecektir&#8221;<\/em> uyar\u0131s\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Ba\u015fka \u00fclkelerin sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerinin T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;ye empoze edilmesinin b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131 beraberinde getirece\u011fi belirtilen raporda, <em>&#8220;Say\u0131n Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131m; sizlerin de malumlar\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u00fczere, bir toplumun ailevi, sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerini d\u00fczenlemede ba\u015fka bir \u00fclke veya toplum taraf\u0131ndan geli\u015ftirilmi\u015f politikalar\u0131n \u00fclkemize bir bak\u0131ma empoze edilmesi ileride ciddi psikososyal ve ahl\u00e2ki ar\u0131zalara yol a\u00e7abilecektir. Takdir y\u00fcce makam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131nd\u0131r. \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nin amac\u0131n\u0131n kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddeti, aile (ev) i\u00e7i \u015fiddeti \u00f6nlemek oldu\u011fu belirtilse de kad\u0131n ve erkeklerin kendi toplumlar\u0131n\u0131n, gelenek ve inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fckledi\u011fi rollerden s\u0131yr\u0131larak ele al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fine y\u00f6nelik bir zihniyet de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fini de i\u00e7erdi\u011fi s\u00f6zle\u015fmenin \u00f6ns\u00f6z\u00fcnden, h\u00fck\u00fcmlerinden ve \u00f6zellikle kullan\u0131lan kavramlardan anla\u015f\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi ile &#8216;cinsel y\u00f6nelim&#8217;, &#8216;toplumsal cinsiyet&#8217;, &#8216;ev i\u00e7i \u015fiddet&#8217; ve benzeri kavramlar kabul edilmi\u015f; uluslararas\u0131 hukukun koruma alan\u0131na dahil edilen bu kavramlar \u00fczerinden verilecek hak m\u00fccadelesinin \u00f6n\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.&#8221;<\/em> ifadeleri yer almaktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nin feshedilmesi yerinde olacakt\u0131r&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Toplumun temelini olu\u015fturan aile hakk\u0131nda \u00e7e\u015fitli d\u00fczenlemeler i\u00e7eren \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nin; toplumun din, dil, inan\u00e7, \u00f6rf, gelenek gibi de\u011ferlerini tamamen rafa kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n vurguland\u0131\u011f\u0131 rapordaki \u015fu ifadeler \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kad\u0131n\u0131 ve erke\u011fi i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu toplumun de\u011ferlerinden soyutlamakta ve t\u00fcm toplumlara bu konuda tek tip bir anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 dayatmakta; bu \u00f6zelli\u011fi ile kad\u0131n ve erkek ili\u015fkilerinde sonu &#8216;cinsiyetsizli\u011fe&#8217; varan bir ideolojiyi, s\u00f6zle\u015fmeyi imzalayan devletlere kabul ettirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. S\u00f6zle\u015fmenin uygulanmaya devam\u0131 halinde yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131 hukuki, ahl\u00e2ki ve toplumsal sonu\u00e7lar dikkate al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;nin T\u00fcrkiye taraf\u0131ndan Avrupa Konseyi Genel Sekreterli\u011fine yap\u0131lacak bir bildirimle feshedilmesinin yerinde olaca\u011f\u0131 kanaatindeyiz. S\u00f6zle\u015fmenin feshedilmesinin yerinde oldu\u011funa dair kanaatimizi belirtmekle birlikte \u00fclkemizde \u015fiddet olaylar\u0131n\u0131n artmakta oldu\u011funu g\u00f6zlemlemekte; s\u00f6zle\u015fmenin feshedilmesi ile birlikte i\u00e7 hukukumuzda toplumumuzun ahl\u00e2ki, geleneksel, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel yap\u0131s\u0131 ile uyumlu \u015fekilde dini hassasiyetler de g\u00f6zetilerek ve gerekli d\u00fczenleme yap\u0131larak bu alandaki hukuki bo\u015flu\u011fun doldurulmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekteyiz.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;Bir\u00e7ok \u00fclke &#8216;toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi&#8217; politikalar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckten kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> saptamas\u0131!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;Toplumsal Cinsiyet E\u015fitli\u011fi&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">konusunda toplumun ciddi bir tenkit ve tedirginlik halinde oldu\u011funun alt\u0131 \u00e7izilen raporda \u015fu saptamalar yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Zira bu projenin kad\u0131n-erkek e\u015fitli\u011fini sa\u011flamaktan ziyade toplumun din, sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel kodlar\u0131yla oynamay\u0131 hedefledi\u011fine inan\u0131lmaktayd\u0131. Bu bilgilere sahip bir\u00e7ok \u00fclke, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi politikalar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckten kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. En son Macaristan, Romanya ve Bulgaristan&#8217;da bu t\u00fcr \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar sonland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde global bir proje olan <em>\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc cinsiyet olu\u015fturma<\/em> <\/span><\/strong><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">ak\u0131m\u0131<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">t\u00fcm h\u0131z\u0131yla uluslararas\u0131 \u00e7apta devam etmekteyken, <em>toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011finin ilahiyat fak\u00fclteleri ve bir\u00e7ok fak\u00fcltede se\u00e7meli ders olarak okutulmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131<\/em> toplumda ciddi bir itiraz ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n giderek daha mask\u00fclen, erkeklerin ise daha feminen bir davran\u0131\u015f \u015fablonuna do\u011fru kayd\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131, bu ise cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fine de\u011fil, cinsiyetsizle\u015ftirme ve androjen bir insan tipinin ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7maktayd\u0131. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar ise \u00f6nemli bir tepkinin ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131na sebep olmaktayd\u0131.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&rsquo;yle Milli ve Manevi kavramlar de\u011fersizle\u015ftirilmi\u015ftir&#8221; \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131!..<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Raporun devam\u0131nda;<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"> <strong><em>&#8220;Yine s\u00f6zle\u015fmede kavramlar\u0131n tan\u0131mlar\u0131nda, &#8216;ay\u0131r\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k nedenleri&#8217; ortaya konulurken, toplum, din, k\u00fclt\u00fcr, \u00f6rf, \u00e2det, gelenek, g\u00f6renek, t\u00f6re, namus, edep, ahl\u00e2k ve aile gibi kavramlar\u0131n tart\u0131\u015fmaya a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 ve bunlar\u0131n de\u011fersizle\u015ftirilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 da \u00f6nemli bir ele\u015ftiri konusu olmaktad\u0131r. Bu Dini ve Milli kavramlar\u0131n cinayet, \u015fiddet ve e\u015fitsizli\u011fin k\u00f6keni olarak g\u00f6sterilmesi, samimiyetten ve ger\u00e7eklikten uzakt\u0131r ve toplumu k\u00f6klerinden koparma giri\u015fimi olarak alg\u0131lanmaktad\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca t\u00f6re cinayeti, namus cinayeti gibi kavramsalla\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131n da iyi niyetli olmaktan \u00e7ok, toplumu ayakta tutan de\u011ferlerin itibar\u0131n\u0131 azaltmaya y\u00f6nelik oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenler artmaktad\u0131r. Say\u0131n Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131m\u0131z, bilindi\u011fi \u00fczere \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi imzaland\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnden bug\u00fcne kadar toplumun bir kesimi taraf\u0131ndan ko\u015fulsuz \u015farts\u0131z kabul g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, ama di\u011fer bir kesimi taraf\u0131ndan ise \u00e7ok sert ele\u015ftirilere u\u011fram\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Biz ise bu rapor arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile s\u00f6zle\u015fmenin imzalanma s\u00fcrecinden bu yana ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan ve s\u00f6zle\u015fme ekseninde giderek artan hukuki tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ayd\u0131nlatmay\u0131 ama\u00e7lad\u0131k. Bu kapsamda s\u0131ras\u0131 ile; s\u00f6zle\u015fmenin imzalanmas\u0131na, s\u00f6zle\u015fmenin amac\u0131na, s\u00f6zle\u015fmedeki \u00e7eviri hatalar\u0131na ve hukuki sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na, s\u00f6zle\u015fmede yer alan baz\u0131 kavram ve h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na, bunlar\u0131n hukuki sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na, bir k\u0131s\u0131m \u00fclkelerin s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye kar\u015f\u0131 tav\u0131r almalar\u0131n\u0131n hakl\u0131 gerek\u00e7elere dayand\u0131\u011f\u0131na dikkat \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k&hellip;&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> <strong>ifadeleri yer almaktayd\u0131.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 1cm; line-height: 16pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 Sn. 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