{"id":776,"date":"2004-11-01T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2004-11-01T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2004\/11\/01\/bir-dosta-mektup\/"},"modified":"2004-11-01T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2004-11-01T00:00:00","slug":"bir-dosta-mektup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/2004\/aralik-2004\/bir-dosta-mektup\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130R DOSTA MEKTUP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 <\/p>\n<p>Can Karda\u015f\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dclkemizdeki ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki haks\u0131zl\u0131k ve hayas\u0131zl\u0131klardan usand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsun&#8230; Meskenet d\u00f6\u015fe\u011finde \u00f6lece\u011fine \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorsun. Oysa, Kahramanca \u00f6lmek kolay, zor olan insanca\u00a0 ya\u015famakt\u0131r. Sorumlu ve onurlu birisi olmakt\u0131r. Kahramanl\u0131k, hak ve hay\u0131r yolunda kah\u0131r \u00e7ekme\u011fe katlanmakt\u0131r. Unutma, \u00e7eli\u011fi \u00e7eki\u00e7, ki\u015fiyi \u00e7ile olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. B\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluklar, b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya hayat\u0131, zevku sefa yeri de\u011fil, olgunla\u015fma ve O&#8217;na ula\u015fma f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r. Hayat; iman ve cihatt\u0131r. Ama\u00e7 onu anlamak ve aramakt\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu noktada ilim en kutsal ara\u00e7t\u0131r. Bilgi; inanc\u0131n ve insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n dayana\u011f\u0131, cesaret ve metanetin kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Cahillerin ki cesaret de\u011fil sadece k\u00fcstahl\u0131kt\u0131r. Ve hele kendi hayalini hakikat sanan ve kuruntular\u0131n\u0131 Kuran yerine koyan yar\u0131m hocalar sahte doktorlardan daha zararl\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00f6yle yalan yanl\u0131\u015f, yar\u0131m yumuk bilenlerden ise, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmeyenler ger\u00e7e\u011fe daha \u00e7ok yak\u0131nd\u0131r. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011fa daha yatk\u0131nd\u0131r.Ve tabi, ger\u00e7ek g\u00f6zle de\u011fil \u00f6zle anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Niyeti bozuklar\u0131n her t\u00fcrl\u00fc gayreti \u015feytanl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>   \u00a0 <\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6n\u00fcl Yolda\u015f\u0131m<\/p>\n<p>En k\u00f6t\u00fclerden \u00f6\u011frenilecek iyilik bile, en iyilerden \u00f6\u011frenilecek k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten mutlaka hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. En iyi insan\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapaca\u011f\u0131 zarar ve zul\u00fcm ac\u0131d\u0131r ama en k\u00f6t\u00fc insanlar\u0131n bile sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 yarar yine tatl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsanlara ya karn\u0131ndan, ya kafas\u0131ndan yada kalbinden yakla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Kafalar hakikatl\u0131 ilimle, kalpler tatl\u0131 dilinle, kar\u0131nlar ikram ve iyili\u011finle kazan\u0131l\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131 beceremiyorsan; elinle ve dilinle zarar vermemek bile bir nevi sadaka say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7evrendeki yoksullar\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnleri kollamal\u0131s\u0131n&#8230; Ac\u0131lara dayan\u0131l\u0131r ama a\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmaz&#8230; Varl\u0131kl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n birbirine ikram\u0131 pasla\u015fmakt\u0131r&#8230; Ama Allah&#8217;\u0131n bizden istedi\u011fi, payla\u015fmakt\u0131r&#8230; \u0130\u015fsiz, kimsesiz ve \u00e7aresizleri aray\u0131p bulmak ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131na ortak olmakt\u0131r. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n savurganl\u0131klar\u0131 bile toplay\u0131p sadaka yapsan, emin ol, milyarlar\u0131 bulacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Dostum!&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yalan insan\u0131 yalama yapacakt\u0131r. Yalan s\u00f6yleyen, \u00f6nce kendi vicdan\u0131yla \u00e7at\u0131\u015facak ve kendisine olan sayg\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenini yitirmi\u015f olacakt\u0131r. Kendi yalanlar\u0131na mazeret uydurmak ve fetva bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, \u015feytana avukatl\u0131kt\u0131r. Yalanc\u0131, Hakka yakla\u015fmaya de\u011fil, halka yaranmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. Konu\u015ftuklar\u0131na ve yazd\u0131klar\u0131na dikkat et!&#8230; Bazen dili s\u00fcr\u00e7en, aya\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00e7enden daha beter olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Hakk\u0131m\u0131zda ileri geri konu\u015fanlara da -hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131p nefsimizi \u0131slaha \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda- fazla ald\u0131rmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Hay\u0131rl\u0131 kimselere at\u0131lan ta\u015flar, bazen onlar i\u00e7in dikilecek an\u0131tlar\u0131n temelini olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bize d\u00fc\u015fen; hak bildi\u011fimizi hayk\u0131rmaya ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan yolculuk i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlanmaya bakmakt\u0131r. \u015eu ortamda, kalemimizin ucu, k\u0131l\u0131c\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcnden daha \u00e7ok i\u015fe yaramaktad\u0131r. Yalan ve yalakal\u0131k, d\u00fcnyal\u0131k ganimet, do\u011frular ve vakarl\u0131l\u0131k, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k ve husumet kazansa da, imana ve insana yak\u0131\u015fan, dik durmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet ediyorsun&#8230; Onlar\u0131n bizim imtihan\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu unutuyorsun&#8230; Sen imtihanla istirahat\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorsun&#8230; \u00dcstelik sadece maddi imk\u00e2nlar sa\u011flamakla g\u00f6revim bitti san\u0131yorsun&#8230; H\u00e2lbuki onlar\u0131n karn\u0131n\u0131 doyuruyor, kalbini ve kafas\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131yorsun&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u015euurlu ve \u015fefkatli ebeveynler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kaybolmas\u0131n ve kazaya u\u011framas\u0131n diye, &#8220;sadece ellerinden de\u011fil, as\u0131l onlar\u0131n belleklerinden tutarlar&#8221; hikmetine uygun davranm\u0131yorsun&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7ocuklara, sevgi kadar yararl\u0131!&#8221; rekl\u00e2m\u0131na hayran oldu\u011fumu, biliyorsun.<\/p>\n<p>Dostum&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Her konuda ve her konumda Allah&#8217;tan utan ki, insanlar da senden utans\u0131n&#8230; Seni g\u00f6ren Allah&#8217;\u0131 hat\u0131rlas\u0131n&#8230; Aranan, arzulanan ve arka \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lan birisi olmal\u0131s\u0131n. Arkada\u015flar\u0131na, akrabalar\u0131na ve ahbaplar\u0131na iyilik ve ihsanda bulunmal\u0131s\u0131n&#8230; \u0130kram edecek \u015feyin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman, en az\u0131ndan hat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 sormal\u0131 ve onlara nasihat yapmal\u0131s\u0131n&#8230; Samimiyetle onlar\u0131n iyili\u011fini, d\u00fcnya ve ahiret saadetlerini istedi\u011fine inand\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcl yeti\u015ftirenin, mutlaka eli kanayacak, can\u0131 ac\u0131yacak, \u00fcst\u00fc ba\u015f\u0131 y\u0131rt\u0131lacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcl, diken a\u011fac\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. G\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00fc seven, dikenine katlanacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kolayc\u0131l\u0131kla kalayc\u0131l\u0131k yap\u0131lmaz!&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Korkakl\u0131kla kahraman olunmaz!&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131mlarla, b\u00fcy\u00fck adamlara ula\u015f\u0131lmaz!&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Selam ve sevgilerimle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 <\/p>\n<p>Can Karda\u015f\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dclkemizdeki ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki haks\u0131zl\u0131k ve hayas\u0131zl\u0131klardan usand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsun&#8230; Meskenet d\u00f6\u015fe\u011finde \u00f6lece\u011fine \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorsun. Oysa, Kahramanca \u00f6lmek kolay, zor olan insanca\u00a0 ya\u015famakt\u0131r. Sorumlu ve onurlu birisi olmakt\u0131r. Kahramanl\u0131k, hak ve hay\u0131r yolunda kah\u0131r \u00e7ekme\u011fe katlanmakt\u0131r. Unutma, \u00e7eli\u011fi \u00e7eki\u00e7, ki\u015fiyi \u00e7ile olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. B\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluklar, b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya hayat\u0131, zevku sefa yeri de\u011fil, olgunla\u015fma ve O&#8217;na ula\u015fma f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r. Hayat; iman ve cihatt\u0131r. Ama\u00e7 onu anlamak ve aramakt\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu noktada ilim en kutsal ara\u00e7t\u0131r. Bilgi; inanc\u0131n ve insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n dayana\u011f\u0131, cesaret ve metanetin kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Cahillerin ki cesaret de\u011fil sadece k\u00fcstahl\u0131kt\u0131r. Ve hele kendi hayalini hakikat sanan ve kuruntular\u0131n\u0131 Kuran yerine koyan yar\u0131m hocalar sahte doktorlardan daha zararl\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00f6yle yalan yanl\u0131\u015f, yar\u0131m yumuk bilenlerden ise, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmeyenler ger\u00e7e\u011fe daha \u00e7ok yak\u0131nd\u0131r. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011fa daha yatk\u0131nd\u0131r.Ve tabi, ger\u00e7ek g\u00f6zle de\u011fil \u00f6zle anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Niyeti bozuklar\u0131n her t\u00fcrl\u00fc gayreti \u015feytanl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[64],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aralik-2004"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/776\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.millicozum.com\/mc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}